2007-05-27 09:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not be afraid to tell him what you like and dislike and make sure he knows it is okay for him to tell you the same thing! Now that you are married it is important that you both are open and honest with each other a poor sex life can destroy any marriage. Do not be afraid to try new things. Do not be shy. Telling someone what you do not like does not mean you should criticize or purposefully embarrass each other. Just simply say this makes me uncomfortable or this hurts. Occasionally go on dates to the love shops. My husband and I have been married almost 14 years and we still are learning new things. Married sex does not always have to be about making love but it does not always has to be wild and kinky either! There are times for both kinds of sex! Congratulations on your marriage. May it be long and happy!
2007-05-27 09:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be available, realize that you were probably quite willing to cuddle and kiss while you were dating and your new husband may still expect your willingness in this area. Remember to let him know how desirable he is to you. Make a point of wearing makeup and doing your hair before bed and try to wear something very appealing. You have invested a lot of yourself to have this wonderful man in your life, now invest time to keep his interest. He will also appreciate little hints from you at times that he is not at home telling of just what you would like to have happen when he arrives at home. You might slip a note into his pocket in the morning, or if he takes his lunch use an extra napkin to blot your lipstick and put that in his lunch box. He will get the idea!! You might even meet him at the front door naked, tell him you can't wait another minute to get ahold of him and lead him to a waiting bath. Wash him ever so thoroughly and then ask him what HIS pleasure is! Be creative, variety is the spice of life. Keep his cup filled up at home and he will never wander. Good luck to the pair of you.
2007-05-27 17:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by marshfield_meme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford get pretty silk or satin nighties ! But keep a big cover or robe handy to be modest in case of company. Thigh high stockings are an added bonus !
2007-05-27 16:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean sheets, a freshly made bed, and lots of fluffy pillows.
2007-05-27 17:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROMANCE....is the most important factor..and...Keep it spicy!
If you're newlywed the you may still be timid about sharing your feelings/fantasies or likes and dislikes. DON'T BE!
2007-05-27 16:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by angiesue1032 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always give each other a kiss before you go to sleep.
2007-05-27 16:57:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do anything, and everything. Also keep it up in the long term. very important!
2007-05-27 16:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to bed early....
....and on weekends....stay in bed late!! HAHA
2007-05-27 16:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yo sexy robe on
2007-05-27 16:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by Neil Beezy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to your adult toy store and spice it up with some toys
2007-05-27 16:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by gyro 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋