month, sound like a plan, anybody else have any ideals ?
2007-05-27 14:12:40 · 26 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not really trap, but just insure
2007-05-27 14:17:12 · update #1
Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free ?
2007-05-27 14:22:14 · update #2
You should not have to trick, bribe, or con him. If he wants to marry you he will ask...
2007-05-27 14:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by mom of two 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can do the sex until marriage thing.. but if you go with the sex only twice a month he will look else where.. once you get married you need to have it with him atleast 4 to 6 times or more a week.. expect when that special time of the month comes along.. and never try to trap someone into doing something they dont want to do it will back fire on you... and since you said finace i would assume he has ask you to marry him.. just ask him to set a date..
2007-05-28 17:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy sex is no way to trap your fiance into marrying you. Sex should never be used as a punishment or as a way to get back at someone after they have done something to make you mad.
2007-05-27 21:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guys point of view............Kendra H............please don't get me wrong by what i'm fixing to say here but, why would you have to trap him? is he not worth the wait?is he dragging his feet? or are you so impacient that you have to marry this guy? why would anyone have to trap or trick someone into marring them anyway? and here your talking about holding back certain favors if he don't do what you want. sounds childish and vendictive to me............why not try this. set him down and talk to him and see what his intentions are. if he don't want to get married then do what you have to do. either dump him and find someone who will heed to your demands or see his point of view. maybe there is a reason why he don't want to get married yet. ever think of that? stop this childish attitude. if your going to cut him off then do it. don't sit there and say hes only going to get it twice a month. cause he WILL go elsewheres. and i wouldn't blame him either............i am a firm beliver of no premarital sex. this is a very special gift two people can give eachother after they're married. but since thats gone now, all you have to do is give your love in its place. how about lighten up on him, and try talking instead of giving ultimatiums...be safe...be kind...and i wish you love...
2007-05-27 21:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to consider checking into a convent and becoming a nun. As a bride of Christ, I don't think you are bothered about sex very often unless an errant priest takes a liking to you.
2007-05-27 21:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather scratch a bobcat's butt with sandpaper in a telephone booth than fall for that lie and trap.
If you could only put out twice a month, you must not be worth that price of admission.
2007-05-27 21:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your Fiance...they he has already agreed to marry you. (One wonders why) But - that's neither here nor there. If there is no sex until Marriage...he already knows that. (He can't be that stupid) And - since sex isn't that big of deal to him...(Obviously)...then only twice a month will not bother him...
2007-05-27 21:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by ladydrea2918 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure does sound like a plan.
Get your pre-nup ready, cause the divorce is going to be brutal when it happens.
Trapping someone into marriage?
Obviously you are crazy to think this is okay.
You might as well just get pregnant too while you're at it, so you can complete this completely idiotic red-neck-hick scenario.
...
are you 14?
2007-05-27 21:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by KGene1969 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on. H dose not want to marry you. Tell him if you do not want to get married that's cool. You are setting your self up for hell forcing him to marry you by all these pita-full means. What a serious waist of having a happy life.
2007-05-27 21:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by eirama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you have to trap him he is not worth worrying about --- he is not all that interested in you --- and giving sex as a reward is not the start of a good long term relationship --- sorry
2007-05-27 21:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...and look up the meaning of love and marriage in the dictionary!
2007-05-27 22:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋