... that a married friend of yours was having an affair with your (unmarried) crush?
2007-05-27 06:00:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sit back and watch what happens. If she's swooped on him because you like him then let her get herself into a sticky mess. It's what she deserves.
2007-05-27 06:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Poison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry and annoyed but would need to think very carefully about whether to say something or not. On one hand I could take the moral high ground and speak to my friend and to my unmarried crush. This could result in me losing both my crush and my friend in one foul swoop. On the other hand I could decide to let them get on with it - crush might not be such a great loss if he/she is capable of having an affair with a married person. I would still have my friend.
2007-05-27 13:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by flutterby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would loose ALOT of respect for my friend - cheating is cheating and not something i would promote. i would also quickly move on from my whole idea of that unmarried crush - they are having an affair with a married person......which makes me question thier morality. find someone that you will be able to trust completely - and not remember/look back on the fact that they both were cheaters in some way or another. never settle for second from a pal or a lover!!
2007-05-27 13:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset if she knew that I had feelings for this guy and she did that. Other than that I would stay quiet and not say anything and not get involved!It will eventually come out in some way and her betrayal to her marriage will be discovered. She definitely has some real issues with herself and what being in a commited relationship means. She is headed for disaster so stay out of the way. I would not trust her friendship if she knew how I felt and took him anyway she had no right to do that having a husband. She sounds like a snake and she is going to end up bitting her own azzz sweetie.
2007-05-27 13:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the crush know how you feel about them(if you want anything to do with an adulterer). maybe they feel like they don't have any options. Who did you find out about this affair from? If it is the crush, you can't say anything to your married friend or spouse.
2007-05-27 14:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by 55JD55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she is very, very, wrong, wrong, wrong. But, don't rat her out, if that's what you're thinking. Friends don't do that to each other. And, you're not in love with the guy, it's just a crush, right? If she wants to date other people, she should not have gotten married.
2007-05-27 13:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Aqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, but why would you have a crush on someone who is willing to break up a marriage? Can you not see how he/she has no respect for commitment?
I'd totally lose interest when I found out what a scumbag he was.
2007-05-27 13:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my friend what she/he is doing is wrong and to stop before someone gets hurt. Warning them that I WILL tell their husband/wife.
In regards to the person I like, I would avoid them and move on.
2007-05-28 03:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience its best to keep your nose out. it will all backfire sooner r later. karma, they ll get what they deseerve. but if they are using u to make excuses for seeing eachother r drawing you into their deciet in any way i' d tell them u refuse to lye for the so they have been warned. dont do anything out of spite though cos it will *** back and bite u on the ****
2007-05-27 14:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by alroka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it, yeah be annoyed because it is your crush but if you get involved you will end up loosing your friend and your crush and lots of people will end up getting hurt
2007-05-27 13:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋