My husband of two years and I split up about 6 months ago. Over family issues with my daughter ( his dislike for her) anyway I have had no contact with him the entire time he has been gone. But for the last couple of weeks I have passed him on my route to work in the mornings. Not everyday but at least a couple of times a week. My route is very early and is in a rual area. In other words out of the way for him . It appears to me that he is making an effort to be on my route when he knows I will be there. I know this sounds petty but, I am just wanting other peoples opinions on why he may be doing this.
2007-05-27 03:11:36 · 22 answers · asked by Christie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he's beginning to see how specail you really are and isn't man enough to own up to it. Move on, you certainly can and will do better than putting up with a man who acts like a child. In your marriage you have 2 children, your daughter and your husband.
2007-05-27 04:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband issue?
2014-12-15 20:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hopes if you keep passing him on the road, maybe you will want to talk to him. There seems to be some unresolved issue you and him needs to discuss. Until you and him can come to term with these issue, the two of you will never move on separate or together.
I pass my ex everyday on my way to work...it is not even his route, I have moved on..so when I see him..I smile and keep going. Never let anyone get the best of you. Hold your head up and be happy...Good Luck
2007-05-27 03:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut feeling! I f you think hes doing it just to see you then dont be scared to call and say "{ Hey just wanted to know if there is a reason your going 30 miles out of the way to work...}" LOL you dont have to be so blunt but you know what i mean .. you never know maybe he feels like a jacka$$ and does not know how to approch you to say " I'm Sorry.." so i say... Give him the chance to.. On the other hand he might be stalking you and crasy in the head lol ... you will never know by just driving by him every day with out saying something to him. Good Luck
2007-05-27 03:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Skip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to make sure you don't forget him!! You said he didn't like your daughter whom I assume is from another source!! Maybe he felt that you gave her more attention than you gave him?? By going your route he might be trying to encourage you to think about him, hoping you give him some attention and thought. Have you ever considered having a child with him? This may solve this problem!!
2007-05-27 03:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter if he flew a plane into your front yard. He do not like your daughter, get over him and give him your *** to kiss, because your child is way more important that a man. You, will find someone who will love the two you more than you ever thought.
2007-05-27 03:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Fannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who knows why he is doing this is him. He may want to see you cause he misses you....me may be watching to see if your routine has changed. There could be so many reasons why he is on your route to work. You may want to call him and say "Hey I saw you this morning on my way to work, is there a reason why you were so out of your way this morning?" I know you probably don't want to hear this, but maybe he's dating someone who lives on or near your route to work. If you really want to know just ask him. Good luck!!
2007-05-27 03:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Drea Z 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o, boy, this is what u think? in that case i am in trouble. my husband just bought a house not far from the place where my f'u'c'k'i'n'g' loser ex husband lives. so will he think that i am after him if he sees me on his way to work? this is so horrible, cos i hate his guts. have u ever thought that maybe your ex just has a new woman who lives in your area and is returning home after a hot night with her? that maybe one option. anpther maybe he bought a plave to live in your area not because he wants to be near u but cos it was cheap?
2007-05-27 03:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm, sounds like maybe.If he were a man he would confront you and tell you he is willing to go get help together as a family.He has issues.Why does he not like your daughter? is she a brat?maybe she has issues with him taking over her Dad's place in her life?
see you all need to get help.I hope it works out for you.
2007-05-27 03:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by waterlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby boy?????????????????????
2017-03-09 08:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋