... and still prefers to talk to her ex in private, i.e. she goes into the next room. Should I be worried?
2007-05-27 01:55:52 · 10 answers · asked by nitro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It really depends how true is your love! Better do not show your doubt and let her privacy prevail.
Love her truly she will be yours! Make her happy at every intstant. Don't let her think about anybody else. Crack little jokes.
Humour, persistence and obviously patience would lead yo your successful relationship!
2007-05-27 02:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by lucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. But mostly, no. Maybe she is afraid of hurting your feelings. it's not very comvinient for a lady to talk about her ex infront of her current partner. 5 months?... Maybe you should ask her this directly? Talk to her. I am in a relationship myself, and the only way out is to talk about it. Lock her in a room, make her some tea and get her favourite bisquits. Switch off the phones. Just let her know that you care and you are concerned. Tell her that you love her and have to know.
2007-05-27 09:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by ckhasanova 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in fact serious you need to have an open discussion of this behavior and how it is affecting your relationship. If she is still secretive, then you need to move on quick as she is not over her ex and this will turn your world upside down if you let it.
2007-05-27 09:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to worry. I mean, they could still be good friends. And she needs his advice on something that has to do with you--like a surprise. Well, probably not that. But still. Give her the space and privacy she needs. If you're concerned about it, talk to her. And remember, she broke up with him and is now dating you. That counts for something.
2007-05-27 09:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rach 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her EX should be just that. I would be p'ssed. Ask her how she'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot? I'd love to talk to an ex, could not WOULD NOT because I wouldnt do that to my BF.
2007-05-27 08:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Nicolette S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry as now you know she still has
feelings for her ex, and what to do next, well you
will have to make that decision .
2007-05-27 15:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Unless they have a child together and they are talking about the child's well-being. If they don't have a child together I can't see why she would still need to talk to her ex.
2007-05-27 08:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by derek1079 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm i had this SAME issue once... maybe you should start by asking her.. why she feels like she needs to be in private, dont accuse her of anything just ask. if she seems to get all bothered by it maybe something is up. because she can be doing a few things: she could be doing something behind your back, but then again she could be testing you .. like to see if you care. women can be odd at times and try to test your loyalty to her. just be careful in your approach.
2007-05-27 09:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by kit320 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No: shehe likes you both , and won't have a 3 some.
2007-05-27 09:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sinbad 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you have reasons to worry.............it would seem your relationship isnt that stable to begin with......sometimes exes.....can be friends.....and nothing goes on.......other times it does..........its all down to a trust factor.
2007-05-27 08:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by purefire41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋