went on a cruise...what are the chances THEY messed around together??? What are the chances they messed around with guys they met on the cruise??
2007-05-27 01:44:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow. why on earth would your wife go on a cruise without you? only you know the answer to these questions. some women would never mess around and others, especially with the wrong kind of friends, would have a sex-fest with strange men. All in all I would say it does not look good for fidelity here.
2007-05-27 02:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about her I am sure that everthing is fine. Just as she has trusted to leave you home alone you need to trust her while she is on the cruise. Remember that women and men think differently as a woman we are pretty much emotional when it comes to being with a man....where as men often view sex as sex and feeling good and can do it without emotional feelings of attachment. I believe that you allowing her to go and giving her the trust to be with her friend she would not abuse this freedom. She will probably just enjoy herself and by the time the cruise is over she will be missing the great guy that she has at home and be happy to get back to you! Trust is so important when you allow each other to be yourselves and I am sure she will not abuse it because she loves you! Don't worry about her she will be just fine so take this time and enjoy doing what you like to do around the house. When you know she is on her way home pick up a bottle of wine, a red rose, and a card that tells her that you missed her.Then the two of you go out to dinner and when you both get home have a great romantic time. Best wishes sweetie.
2007-05-27 02:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances?? why so paranoid, even if your marrige was in a shambles before she left on the cruise I'm pretty sure your wife would not have cheated on you. Also women can have best friends, spend time with them, even sleep in the same bed and never "mess around" Crazy thought, I know...
2007-05-27 01:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say only you know your wife...if she's done it before then it is likely she could do it again. I wouldn't assume that she messed around with her best friend on a cruise or anybody else, without having some type of evidence to back that up. If you have insecurities then you have to deal with them. Don't allow these thoughts to ruin something good...Talk to a counselor if these thoughts occur often. Good luck.
2007-05-27 01:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on how god you know and trust your wife. Don't get all worked up with anxiety over it. Sometime the unknown is better left unknown. If you treat you wife right all she is thinking about is coming home to you but if you do her dirty she may be looking for someone to treat her right. look on the bright side if she is messing around that's gonna be some good guilt sex when she gets back. Now don't get so crazy about your thoughts that you mess around because men where their guilt on their sleeves.
2007-05-27 01:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dutchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we need more details to answer that question. Personally, if I were to go on a cruise I would not do either of those so the 'chances' are pretty good that I would not.
So has your wife shown homosexual tendencies toward her friend before? Has she grown distant or cheated before? Why would you ask these questions?
2007-05-27 01:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by KrysNyte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are the chances you will drive yourself crazy worrying about things that probably never happened.
And if they did - you don't want to know about it.
What happens on a cruise ship is not reality - and that's part of what makes it exciting. You step away from reality for a week, or however long it is - and then you come back.
Go for a walk, read a book and move on to other things to think about.
2007-05-27 01:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, the first part is wishful thinking on your part.
Second part of your question, why do you think this? Do you have problems in your relationship? If not, then why the sudden worry? Are you cheating and are now transferring your guilt onto her? Why didn't you go on the cruise? Basically, if your marriage was solid before, you have nothing to worry about.
2007-05-27 01:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the women. What kind of women are you married to. I could go on a cruise with my best friend and not mess around. You can have fun without sex. Sex just makes it better!
2007-05-27 01:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am wondering why she didnt go with you but since she decided to go together, I am wondering, do you trust her? If you do, the answer should be very clear. If not, then the chances are one in a zillion. Anything could have happened. They could have done things together, they could have met other girls, other guys, workers, etc. However, if you trust her and she values the vows you made on your wedding day, then why worry?
2007-05-27 01:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋