Why doesn't he doesn't accept the idea of me getting a vibrator?
2007-05-27 06:17:16 · 8 answers · asked by OOkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communication is a vital element in this one.
If it was my wife and had those feelings, all she has to do is tell me what she needs. I'm secure enough in myself to do whatever it takes to make sure she is happy. After all, isn't that what two people who love each other supposed to do?
To me love is a sacrificial thing, where you give your all to your spouse just because you know they will be happy. Husbands are called upon to 'love their wives like Christ loved the church and gave himself for it.' (Eph 5:25) Christ gave it all for us. As husbands, we can do no less.....
2007-05-27 07:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Dog Martok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOKIE, Just sit alone with each other without distractions and honestly talk straight from the heart ! Add that is why you need a vibrator. Cause your needs arn"t being met ! Providering is the husbands job and not just money !
2007-05-27 07:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be very intimidating for some people. Seems like it would be for your husband. Just share your concerns openly, give it another try before you opt to satisfy yourself with a vibrator.
2007-05-27 07:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might feel like, he isnt doing a good job. Buy one and use it together.
2007-05-27 06:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by vikespride2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should understand make him do without until you are satisfied see if he understands that
2007-05-27 09:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by hotblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his mind, you have questioned his "manhood". My advice is to do what you have to do...just don't make it so obvious.
2007-05-27 06:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him more about it, so he understands.
2007-05-27 06:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are hurting his pride.
2007-05-27 06:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋