Marriage & Divorce - 6 April 2007

2007-04-06 05:40:55 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Innocent 1

The relationship started 2 months before he got married, after he pursued me relentlessly for almost 3 months. Just before the wedding I told him I was done, but he continued coming after me and I caved. I fell head over heels for this guy even though I knew it was wrong. About 4 months after he got married, he told me he loved me. I ended up drunk dialing when the wife was out of town and leaving a voicemail message, which his wife heard. She called me and asked me if I was sleeping with her husband. I said I called the wrong number because I was drunk. He not only stopped seeing me, but also said he will never speak to me or see me again. It's been 3 months and I still can't get over it. I feel very guilty for lying to her and wonder if I should just come clean for my own well being. Any advice?

2007-04-06 05:28:46 · 33 answers · asked by dsmgirl50312 1

My husband and I are having a baby. Even though we have another 6 months until the baby is born, I am feeling lots of pressure to get things done around the house so we can be prepared. I have been battling morning sickness that actually lasts all day long so I have not been motivated to do anything!:( My husband has been really helpful however the things he is doing is not high priority. How do I go about getting him to look ahead as to what is to come and do the more important things first? I would hate to make a "honey do" list!

2007-04-06 05:24:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I turn 50 this year and have hoped things would get right, I love all my family but some have been trodden on for a long time too long,or am I lookin fer trouble. I know it's really been late now some at age to get out but things need ta be righted. Please be kind A cowboy at heart

2007-04-06 05:19:25 · 4 answers · asked by Terry K 1

The question: Are you: Single, Married, Widow or Divorced You see it when trying to get insurance or a loan or filling out any application.

Isn't Single just that single whether your divorced or a widow? Cause your not married.

Is it lying if your divorced and you mark single?

2007-04-06 05:16:58 · 12 answers · asked by 2shay 5

My husband thinks our marriage is dull. He has a horrible temper, but doesn't always realize it. We have young children, and I have no choice but to stay at home right now. He doesn't understand what it is like to be the sole parent 24/7. I love him, but we are in financial ruin, his outbursts scare me and our children, and he won't even talk to me when he comes home from work. We spend very little time together and our sex life is almost non-existent. I don't think he is even interested anymore. I think he may be cheating. I know that he has flirted online, and he has a tendency towards porn. I have supported all of his decisions, and try to do everything I can to make him happy. In the meantime, I am miserable. I am a smart woman, a devoted wife, and a good mother. I feel I deserve more. He keeps saying things will get better. But he's been saying this for over 2 years, and nothing changes and lasts.

2007-04-06 05:15:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-06 05:07:35 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle S 1

My wife of 8 years wants a seperation. Nothing led up to this. In fact, our relationship so I thought was better than ever. When asked she simply says "I just need some space". She's hot and cold. Sometimes she hugs and kisses me, others, she shys away. She works alot. And I know she is really at work and not somewhere else, so what gives? we still live together and I still love her very much. She loves me but is questioning whether she is in love with me. Were both in our twenties. She no longer calls really when she is away, she doesn't say I love you or I miss you hardly ever. I would love for this to work, but, i'm at a loss as to what to think or do. She rarely cuddles up when we go to bed. Half the time she even rolls over. Please what should I do? I truly love her.

2007-04-06 05:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-06 05:06:42 · 10 answers · asked by Callie B 1

Ok, brace yourself - Me and my boyfriend have been together over 2 years (living together) we have a gorgeous son (8 months) We fight everyday - yelling, screaming, putting holes in the wall, it's just ridiculous- I told him that I was leaving him - moving out - and he (who lost his job due to a drug habit) is begging me not to go - because he can't make it financially and he wants me to stay until he gets his **** together - but EMPHASIZE that we are not together. I'm suffering - but I can't "abandon" him - I do care about him but I'm sacrificing my life and I'm so tired of putting my son through this - what do I do to make sure that he will still be OK? Help!

2007-04-06 04:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetness 2

We got married last year but since then my husband has refused to touch me sexually, is remote and distant, accuses me of cheating on him all the time (I'm not), then refuses to speak to me for days at a time, he just looks at me with dissgust in his eyes which really hurts, he gets very stressed at work and takes it out on me when he gets home by being angry and shouting over nothing. It's hell, but we're only six months in and sometimes I think I should try to honour my vows a little longer. I can't work on it because he won't let me near him to speak without him getting defensive and shouting that everything is my fault and I should stop complaining all the time. I sugested counselling and he told me to f**k off. He never comes to bed until he knows I am asleep and refuses to wake up until I leave the room in the morning. What do I do? Help I'm at the end of my tether.

2007-04-06 04:51:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My seven year old daughter knows that I am seeing someone. I just dont know how and when to make the introduction. My soon to be ex-wife says that she(my daughter) has been embelishing stories that they have already met.

They did meet once. This was before we were involved, and my daughter thought that she was "very nice"
So when is the right time to make this introduction? We have been seeing each other for about 5 months and are talking about moving in together.

2007-04-06 04:44:06 · 10 answers · asked by emsalpha20 1

after she gave birth to his child, why is he still admired and fawned upon? Isn't it wrong?

2007-04-06 04:42:34 · 7 answers · asked by s&p 2

Yeah for those who want to know I got married with my ex at 16 because there came in my 9 year old. My ex was working at a gas station I was going to parenting school because of my age. We moved out of my dads and got an apt we paid 450 a month for rent and he still had to make his motorcycle paymt. I satrted working as soon as we mved out I started paying his bills he got fired. So he went to Sonic and started working there, there he met his new girlfriend Jessica they started daring he would get home drunk in the mist of 1 night we got in an argument he beat me up and ,my sisiter was there I got whaever I could and left with her and my son. Thats when all the court problems started but all of his crazy family testified againts me in 2003 . I was going thru a hand time because my mother past away in 2002 that sma eyear my father got married again in June. I was always confussed and depressed, quite. So when court came around in cost me a total of 1500.

2007-04-06 04:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by corazon 3

I only need Names and Address. Calling the # doesn't help.

2007-04-06 04:34:57 · 3 answers · asked by Jlo L 1

2007-04-06 04:33:30 · 9 answers · asked by sriuto 1

My husband and I having been having problems for awhile so we sperated but still lived together. Anyway we got bak together and I was happier then I had ever been my kids were super happy to see mommy and daddy happy again(We have 3 kids). Then he went to see the girl he was seeing to give her back her stuff. Well when he came back he was different he broke it up with me again. We still lived in the same house until, about 3 weeks ago I moved out I just could'nt take it anymore the girl is pregnant and she calls and calls and calls. Then when I hear him tell her that he loves her I die a little inside it hurts like a sharp knife stabbing me in the heart. I now live on my own and the guy I was seeing does stay a few days here and there but I hate it. I was told to have him meaning my husband I had to let him go. I moved about and I'm tring to not to go anywhere near him unless I have to. When I am around him I try to keep it all about the cars or the kids. Besides that we don't talk.

2007-04-06 04:32:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The website says the marriage license is good for 60 days and can be used in other states. Does this mean if you don't have a wedding ceremony that the license is void? I don't understand.

2007-04-06 04:22:02 · 18 answers · asked by carriespnc 2

here is a guy while going through a divorce already lived with someone new and said that she was not the love of his life but rather more like roommates. Now he says he is marrying her and that finally he is doing the "right thing". why would he do that?

2007-04-06 04:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by alex a 1

To all that saw the movie ( I think I love my wife).
Chris actions in the movie, was that considered cheating?

2007-04-06 04:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1

money or love

2007-04-06 04:02:42 · 16 answers · asked by sally2895 1

He's paying a monthly amount plus additional toward an arrears balance. But he believes that she is looking to garnish from my paycheck as well. The reason being that she is obsessed with getting the physical insurance card for their daughter from him. What kind of information does she need to be able to dip into my income? Why else would she need to have a copy of our insurance card?

2007-04-06 03:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2

At times it could be rough, but we have made our union last through love, understanding, respect and so much more.
What makes your marriage stand the test of time?

2007-04-06 03:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by rockrib2000 2

I have been married for 26 years. We never had a tradional marriage. He works nights I worked day no vacations ect. We have different bills that we pay ect. No joint accounts. I got behind in my bills after we had children and he did not help much and when I asked 4 money he got upset. I never asked just got a little more in debt. Now I have ask him for divorce and he cried, told me he could not live without me..Then he told me he had no where to go and now we are broke because he had to give me money to help get me out of debt. After asking him for a divorce he is now nice and ect. But I feel I no longer have any feelings for him and the way he was before I can't forget. I had my problems mostly with money I paid some bills out of his account without him knowing. I know I shouldn't have but I did. He has 2 boats and trailers ect. I have clothes and car (it least that is how it feels). Should I go knowing how hard he is trying now or should I go and be happy. So guilty

2007-04-06 03:47:05 · 24 answers · asked by shelly s 1

2007-04-06 03:40:26 · 17 answers · asked by Reo 5

While we dated in high school, my hubby cheated on me and completely broke my heart. He even lost his virginity to her, when he and I were planning to get married and only be with each other. Since then we've reconciled he's apologized and proved to me that he's learned from his mistake.
But I still hold a grudge. I don't mean to, but it was so painful at the time that I still hurt over it sometimes. How can I finally let go of it all?

2007-04-06 03:39:47 · 27 answers · asked by Eowyn 5

Do you think a husband should have other responsibilities other than bringing a paycheck home? What would you do if that is all he will do?

2007-04-06 03:35:09 · 33 answers · asked by whispers 1

Channeling?
Communication with the dead?
Psychic help.

2007-04-06 03:35:08 · 9 answers · asked by twinkle 2

my ex and i filed taxes as married for two years in texas (this happened about 5 or 6 years ago) and have never gotten an actual marriage certificate...are we considered married? we have been broken up and all that for about 4 years now. i would really like to know if i need to get a divorce or not. i spoke to 2 lawyers and one said yes and the other said no....so i'm kind of confused....i know common law was abolished in both tx and ok....but do i still need a divorce?

2007-04-06 03:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by living_dead_sandra 3

dependent on her husband for financial support and not want to better herself with a job or education. I just dont get it.

2007-04-06 03:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous