2007-04-06 05:07:35 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gaps in time or information...
If you can't account for his time (working late more often, etc.) or you can't have access to his e-mail account, bank account, etc...you've probably got a problem.
2007-04-06 05:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, this is a hard one, because even the cheaters can have the brass to look their mate in the eye and lie like a sidewalk and feel "put upon" if you ask them if they are cheating, but, on the other hand some men simply DON'T cheat!
Has he not been coming home on time Does he say he'll be home for dinner and doesn't bother to phone Is he an executive (sometimes working O/T there are showers at work) Is he into sports where he could very well have a shower before coming home Are you both getting along basically Is he doing other things that make you suspicious Has he become secretive Have you found phone #s written down and no name Are you getting phone calls where someone is hanging up Have you checked out his cell phone to see if he has women's phone #s Have you checked out your credit cards to see if he's been at a motel/hotel
2007-04-06 05:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by EDD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell all you men and women how to bust a cheater....
Its very simple really, and believe me, not only does it work- its SOLID PROOF!
Go to any electronics store or a Best Buy/ Radio Shack type place and buy a voice activated recorder....they are digital, and they are VERY SMALL.
Put it UNDER THE DRIVER SEAT of the suspected cheaters car.
MOST cheaters, once they leave their house, and THINK they are at last in the PRIVACY of their car, will say ANYTHING....Usually, the FIRST thing they will do when they pull out of the driveway or leave work will call the person they are cheating with....
I promise you- THIS WORKS!
2007-04-06 05:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that if you are wondering, oftentimes it is the case. There are a few exceptions--one girl I know thot her boyfriend was cheating on her because he was always coming home late, and when she finally followed him and confronted him, she found out he had taken on a temporary job to help pay for the car she always wanted--he wanted it to be a birthday present.
I would confront him.
2007-04-06 05:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by Songbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the signs, you can tell if he's being unfaithful, or not truthful with you about something, trust your gut and talk to him, if he is then you have a lot to process, deal with and decide what you will do. If he isn't maybe you can find out what is going on with him. The only way you'll feel better is if you talk to him.
2007-04-06 05:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is quite difficult to know it. But usually, you can notice it in his attitudes. When he comes home cold and indifferent something is up - either he has a problem in his place of work or he has a relationship with another woman. It is always good to talk openly with one another. This is not easy, though.
2007-04-06 05:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by Binnus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you not got a reason as to why you are asking this question?
All i would do is check his phone bills. You will find the answer there most of the time or if not that his credit card bill.
Failing that just ask him!!
2007-04-06 05:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you mean how do you find out ? Well, easy way just act all normal around him and just be happy and 1 week later get some random girl to fone him and see what happens... that might work if that doesnt work always try and confront him !
2007-04-06 05:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Fashion_Crazi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By knowing your husband.
Trust your intuition - it is 99% correct.
Pay attention to things, and see if you start to notice things that don't seem to be correct.
Don't accuse him without evidence, because he will only deny it.
Hopefully he is not.
2007-04-06 05:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, It cost alot of money to cheat!!
Is there money missing?
Does she sleep with her cell phone?
Have you notice any new panties or bras?
Going to get her hair done more?
Shopping for sexier clothes?
2007-04-06 06:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mark his socks if he's cheating and he goes somewhere and have sex you'll know mark his socks with a marker and watch what feet he put them on when he takes them off if the socks has been changed you'll know it one of my husbands did this to me and yes i was cheating
2007-04-06 05:51:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋