Ok, brace yourself - Me and my boyfriend have been together over 2 years (living together) we have a gorgeous son (8 months) We fight everyday - yelling, screaming, putting holes in the wall, it's just ridiculous- I told him that I was leaving him - moving out - and he (who lost his job due to a drug habit) is begging me not to go - because he can't make it financially and he wants me to stay until he gets his **** together - but EMPHASIZE that we are not together. I'm suffering - but I can't "abandon" him - I do care about him but I'm sacrificing my life and I'm so tired of putting my son through this - what do I do to make sure that he will still be OK? Help!
2007-04-06 04:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your hurting your son. He is old enough to make his own way, plus he is the one who lost his job due to a drug habit. Your main problem is your son and not the man who is his Father. You owe him nothing. It seems he has not been there for you and his son. All this fighting has to be rough on you and your son. Think about what this is doing to your son before you commit to stay with him until he can get back on his feet. Who knows how long that could take him. Doing this for him is only enabling him, not helping. Your not abandoning him because he is a grown man. Now, if he had an illness I could see, but he can stop the drug habit. Give yourself a break and get away from this.
2007-04-09 15:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now before someone calls cps on you and then you will have a lot to worry about do it for yourself and your son
2007-04-06 22:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by wackywaitress2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask yourself if your still in love with him. If yes, seek counsuling, if no, make a plan then tell him about it.
2007-04-06 12:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋