My husband thinks our marriage is dull. He has a horrible temper, but doesn't always realize it. We have young children, and I have no choice but to stay at home right now. He doesn't understand what it is like to be the sole parent 24/7. I love him, but we are in financial ruin, his outbursts scare me and our children, and he won't even talk to me when he comes home from work. We spend very little time together and our sex life is almost non-existent. I don't think he is even interested anymore. I think he may be cheating. I know that he has flirted online, and he has a tendency towards porn. I have supported all of his decisions, and try to do everything I can to make him happy. In the meantime, I am miserable. I am a smart woman, a devoted wife, and a good mother. I feel I deserve more. He keeps saying things will get better. But he's been saying this for over 2 years, and nothing changes and lasts.
2007-04-06 05:15:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it may be time for you to find a daycare or something and get a job. You need a change of scenery from the day to day grind of being a parent. Consider going back to school
or something that you have been putting off well now is the time to just do it! Your husband sounds a bit controlling and maybe he just hates his job and takes out his frustrations on you. Really talk to him about going to counselling because
you and the kids are afraid of his temper and his outbursts.
He needs to find a way to vent his temper and doing it to you is not the way maybe consider he join a gym or just by a punching bag or something. He needs to find out the reason for his anger and get to the bottom of it so he can fix it or atleast figure out a way to control it. Really though two years is not a lot of time if you guys are trying to climb out of a pit financially, and he just may not be in the mood for sex because he is depressed.
God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-04-06 06:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋