Marriage & Divorce - 5 April 2007

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2007-04-05 09:01:04 · 5 answers · asked by Dangerous Person 4

Me & my ex bf just broke up- 1st thing he did before taking away my keys(I moved into his apt)is to sneak into my jewelry box and take earrings & necklace that he gave me for my b-day &Valentines. While he did ruin my birthday, i wanted to keep my necklace as a compensation for the suffering he caused. I got attached to earrings,& when i checked the store-they didn’t carry them anymore. I, on the other hand, am stuck with a 1K ticket to Brazil-he wanted me to go w/ him to see HIS family. All that considering, his bonus is more then my yearly salary. Obviously,I didn’t take any gifts that I gave him. They weren't as expensive, but considering salary difference, more harmful to my budget. He still says he loves me(,that’s exactly the love I need)& doesn't let me take my furniture back until a specified date. Question–am I a complete idiot for being mad at him for taking for taking my gifts,or is it customary? Is there anything legal I can do to get my furniture &my jewelry back?

2007-04-05 08:41:46 · 16 answers · asked by Verochka 1

Im in my early twenties and I just got through a painful break up, but I still catch myself dreaming about some everlasting love, and I see middle-aged people walking and holding hands and looking so damn happy. Is it that you meet a person and you understand each other so perfectly that you grow old being together or is it compromise and hard work? Thank you.

2007-04-05 08:40:24 · 23 answers · asked by friday's child 2

found k-y jelly in husbands car and I kept quiet about it to him. I marked very carefully with a pencil how much was in the bottle then left it there . About 4 days latter I checked the bottle and more K-y Jelly was missing. I then confronted him and wanted to know what was going on? He was nervous and his response to me was that one day I came home early one day and he put it in his pocket so I wouldn't know that he used it to masturbate.He said he forgot about it and took it out of his pocket and put it in the car glove box......and had forgot about it there. He said he masturbated due to stress? He at a latter date witheld information from me going to a strip club. I caught that incident on a credit card where he withdrew 150.00 dollawers in the club within one hour. Not counting cash he already had on him. Said all he did there was stand at the bar in the cluband never interacted with the dancers. Although his married friends did go to private rooms with dancers. Is he cheating?

2007-04-05 08:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Lindsey 4

ok my husband and i are expecting a baby we havent bought anytjhing for the baby cause we dont know what it is yet but i fell that most of his paycheck goes to him and ofcourse his truck he wants to spend way to much money on his damn truck he dont give me money anymore all he talks about is buying new stuff for him and his truck i babysit a little and he wants me to put all my monye on a computer paymnet that we have. i dont know how to tell him that he is not bieng fair with the money and that when we find out what it is he is going to foucus more on buying stuff for the baby and not his truck? HELP

2007-04-05 08:29:08 · 21 answers · asked by Ariadna B 1

My husband of 15 years and I seperated about 2 months ago. No one cheated, it was just a mutual agreement cause we werent getting along and fighting and we have two very young kids. I want him to come back desperatly but I can't push him too. I was wondering if anyone ever seperates from their spouse and they eventually get back together. How long did it take? Did it work out? I was just wondering if I am holding out for a lost cause? He is very hard headed and stubborn and lets his pride get in the way offten. Should I just move on?

2007-04-05 08:25:17 · 12 answers · asked by please help 1

we broke up 3 years ago. she reached out to me in jan and in feb we began talking to each other. she lives in another state. i went to visit her in feb and just recently. while there we had a wonderful time together. but she got mad at me for supposely checking out another girl (i wasnt) she brought me a tshirt and nice charm saying my world is brighter when u r around, she told me for the first time she loves me. we are not plannin this but just to see we went to check out some engagement rings, while in bed we will fool around by touching and oral. but she didnt let me have sex with her. i was bum out about, she said she need some foundation. its not about the sex but i feel that she is in a small town and there are not alot of options out there and thats why she might be seeking me or maybe she does want to be with. but honesty, even though we had a good time, the sex part bother me cuz i feel that i was tease and that she s not sure of me what should i do????

2007-04-05 08:21:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband wants us to have a three some and I want to as well but I don't know what type of 3rd person should be involved? I want rules set but he doesn't think thats fair. Could this be a way for him be with some one else with out actually cheating? Or should I let this happen and let it take its toll to see if this hurts the marraige or not. I'm a very jealous person what do I do? Its my fantasy too!!! Help

2007-04-05 08:19:20 · 29 answers · asked by Emily B 1

2007-04-05 08:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by David A 1

as women what would you rather have in a marriage?a man that has money and gives you everthing you want but is unfaithful to you and your familyOR a man that is not as wealthy and and has normal issues in life bills , kids the normal, and loves you and would never cheat on you?

2007-04-05 07:51:06 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner works during the day until 500pm and then goes and works on projects of his own until 10-11pm

2007-04-05 07:49:19 · 35 answers · asked by tklop99 1

well is a long story but just i little bit of. I been married for 4 years now and like 2 years ago my husband was having afair with another woman and he stoped seing her and he told me and we talked about it but the woman was unset because he stoped the relationship between them so she was ttrying to do something to me and she knows where we live and she's calling my house and sending letter to my house i called the police coz le letter scared me to death so me and my housband decide to called the police and the important part is that she lives in other state where we use to leave and i dont know what to do to stoped this crazy woman Please help me thanks

2007-04-05 07:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by MQueen 3

If so how long where you married for and how long was the affair.
Also if a woman is going out with a married man she is the mistress. What do you call a man who goes out with a married woman.

2007-04-05 07:45:28 · 12 answers · asked by Lou 6

I mean, a man made her with a child, then ran away with the
other woman just before his wedding; and then made the other woman with child. And the first woman felt that he would not abandon that other woman, and that he would treat the other woman better. Why?

2007-04-05 07:40:20 · 11 answers · asked by lostmail 2

I have been crying for almost 2.5 hours.... is it possible to run out of tears because I cant stand this much longer.

I recently split with my boyfriend and I have been fine but suddenly today I just cant seem to pull myself together.

2007-04-05 07:33:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I get my husband to want me desperatly. We are seperated and I want him to see what he is missing. Can any men give me advise. No stupid answers please.

2007-04-05 07:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by please help 1

2007-04-05 07:17:47 · 21 answers · asked by Lily P 3

2007-04-05 07:17:43 · 21 answers · asked by MATTHEW O 1

my husband and i have been married going on a year now. everything was good in the beginning. I started to notice after a while that he would lie about the smallest things. like whether he ate something or what he's doing on the computer or where he was or who he's talking to dumb things like that. but a few months ago i found him sending emails to a strange person and it didn't seem like it was legal so i asked him about it and he said the guy was his friend and he need his with some financial business. i didn't really believe it but i still let it go. and today i found some files that confirmed that whatever business they were conducting is indeed illegal. i don't know if i should confront him about it or dig deeper to get more info. i know he will just lie to me about it or get angry because i was in his files on my computer. either way i'm torn in what i should do. i don't want to be with a liar. any suggestions.

2007-04-05 07:15:38 · 11 answers · asked by baby girl 2

2007-04-05 07:08:09 · 12 answers · asked by jason j 1

So, what legally can I do?

2007-04-05 07:06:14 · 27 answers · asked by lovepaigenicole 1

My husband make my son feel guilty for loving his mother.He makes my son feel like he has to choose all the time.When i do something for my son or get him something when i give it to him my husband says daddy got that for you before i can say anything. when my son huggs me or says mom i love you my husband call to him and start hugging him and telling how much he loves him ,he acts as if it bothers him for my son to love me ,its like he is making him choose all the time, and has went to extreams to make the fact clear,he makes my son feel guilty for showing affectshion for his mother.The other day my son said mom i want to hug you before dad gets home,thats how bad its gotten.I have told im what he doing to our child and he doesnt stop.The same with discipline if i tell my son he cant he says he can.its i do my very best not feed into crazyness,I will not play tug of war with my son.I love my husband but i do not want to scarfic my son mental health .What should i do

2007-04-05 07:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by bree167 2

My wife and I have had our fair share of problems in our marriage. I am 23 and she is 22, her family lives in a different state that mine. I'll admit I've been the cause of ALOT of our arguements and problems. She went to visit family and we got into an arguement and she said she wanted to split up. I've been trying for 6 weeks to get her to come back but says shes not sure if she can take the chance of things turning out the same way again between us. I've been trying my hardest to convince her that I can change and our marriage can work. I'm so scared of being alone and having to start over again. I don't know how I will handle it if we divorce. I've mentioned coming to see her, but I don't think she wants that. I'm just so worried about all of this. I need some help/advice/support. Thanks everyone.

2007-04-05 07:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by Jon 2

Last night me and my husband was aruging, and there was this girl on this gaiaonline.com site that left a comment on my page and I thought that my husband knew her on gaia.. and he said no i asked him check his page to see.. i did not excuse him of cheating and he actuomaticly thought i was,,

because he cahnged his pass's to all sites and emails, and i told him a few times thought he was cheating on me, and then he said he doesnt know if he'll be with me and I'm worried.. I love him so much.. we were at his moms while this happened.. and he is working right now.. i dont know if he's coming over here after work or not.. because he has to because only way to get anywhere. his moms bf is working till 8 and he takes a taxi here because its only 5 mins away...

i really love him. i cant talk to him much becasue he gets mad, and he said he has think things through.. he done this before and came back.. on worse terms .. this time was just a arguemtn..

plz help me and give me advice

2007-04-05 06:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by [*Chrissy*] 2

2007-04-05 06:31:26 · 38 answers · asked by Diane T 1

Do you and your husband/wife have a joint checking account? If so, how do you not overdraw? What are some of the benefits of each? Personal experience gladly welcome. Thanks!!

2007-04-05 06:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by RJ 4

What is happening to marriages today?
Is it slowly becoming extinct?
What's your opinion?

2007-04-05 06:04:13 · 41 answers · asked by Superman 2

I pay half the bills?
My wife pays the other half of the bills?
I do at least half the cooking, cleaning, raising of my children and a thousand one other things with regards to having a family.
I have my career.
My wife has her career.
I have my income.
My wife has her income.

If I want something I save the money to get it.
If my wife wants something she wants me to give her the money to get it.

Why should I give her any of the money I saved up?
She could of saved money if she wanted to.

She could try and take have if we would divorce, but that would be like killing the golden goose.

Please don't try and use the sex argument because I enjoy it much much more when its freely given. I do consider date nights to restuarants payments.

So if she wants more money why shouldn't she just find a better job and stop trying to get me to pay for her stuff?

2007-04-05 05:59:49 · 39 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

What do you do when after a 7 yr. marriage, the woman tells you that is fou leave she will tell the judge,authorities, and other people all kinds of false things about you to get you into trouble? And how can you make her pay back several overdrafts on bank accounts???

2007-04-05 05:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all started a month ago. With an old friend of his from high school that called. Now they talk all the time on the computer (IM's, emails) late at night. But he won't tell me what they talk about. If I enter the room when they are talking he hides the conversion. He gets up early to check the email before I get up. He say that I'm acting crazy. But I asked him whats he hiding, and all I got was you don't trust me or you can't pick my friends. After 9 yrs of marrage this is the first time that I think something is not right between us. How can I check to what is being said on Messager without him knowing?

2007-04-05 05:40:28 · 19 answers · asked by YVONNE P 1