found k-y jelly in husbands car and I kept quiet about it to him. I marked very carefully with a pencil how much was in the bottle then left it there . About 4 days latter I checked the bottle and more K-y Jelly was missing. I then confronted him and wanted to know what was going on? He was nervous and his response to me was that one day I came home early one day and he put it in his pocket so I wouldn't know that he used it to masturbate.He said he forgot about it and took it out of his pocket and put it in the car glove box......and had forgot about it there. He said he masturbated due to stress? He at a latter date witheld information from me going to a strip club. I caught that incident on a credit card where he withdrew 150.00 dollawers in the club within one hour. Not counting cash he already had on him. Said all he did there was stand at the bar in the cluband never interacted with the dancers. Although his married friends did go to private rooms with dancers. Is he cheating?
2007-04-05 08:33:14 · 4 answers · asked by Lindsey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep, sorry.... ether that are he has a hard time relating in a relationship and can't fully explain to you how much he needs some sexual satisfaction. But that is usually a problem in the beganing... this far along could only mean one thing... Besides I've been to clubs unless you've develop to the point were you see people as people, your a boy in a candy store!
2007-04-05 09:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*I am not going to make you paranoid and tell you that your husband is cheating. Although the whole KY deal, well...that's a little suspicious...b/c I don't know anyone who just has some KY laying around in their glovebox?!
~And as for the strip club part, well men are visual...hence pornos and what not. So a strip club is similar (to an extent) the only difference is that it's in real life as opposed to a porno which isn't (so to speak).
**I do have to say though, that I go to the stripclubs with my b/f and my guy friends and I even get lap dances and whatever...but I don't have a problem with it at all. Then again every woman is different and has her own opinions and feelings about these sort of topics...so I am not holding it against you for how you feel about it.
.You have every right to be suspicious, I mean after all he is your husband. I have to honestly say....the strip club, is no big deal, it's all about the visual stimulation(s)...and if you must...go to the sex store and buy some sexy little outfits and do your own thing for him at home?!
*But in refrence to what I was just saying (above) I don't see the problem with the stripclubs so much, it's the KY that is throwing me off....?! Ugh....now I do have to admit that although I am a pretty cool laidback girlfriend, if I found that in my b/f's car...I would be super PISSED !! (Not to mention suspicious as all get out.) Especially if secretly marked the level, and it got lower the next time I checked it out?! I'd be thinking WTF?
*Hmm...I don't know, but you can't accuse him of being a cheater until you have cold hard incriminating evidence in your hot little hands. OR you catch him in the act.
~But if you really want to get down and dirty and this is eating at you, then you might want to hire a P.I. to spy on him. Or call the show "CHEATERS" (same thing it's just broadcast on T.V.) and take it from there. ~
**Well whatever you decide to do, or find out...let us know -k- **I'll come kick his *** if he does anything to hurt you!! :):)
2007-04-06 05:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-05 11:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by lhoy2k6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-05 10:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋