as women what would you rather have in a marriage?a man that has money and gives you everthing you want but is unfaithful to you and your familyOR a man that is not as wealthy and and has normal issues in life bills , kids the normal, and loves you and would never cheat on you?
2007-04-05 07:51:06 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The one who would never cheat.
2007-04-05 07:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that is not as wealthy and has normal issues in life bills , kids the normal, and loves you and would never cheat on you. There is no excuse for being unfaithful to your spouse.
2007-04-05 07:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? are theese the only two kinds of men in this world?
And if so, which one are you?
Because i am not married yet and would really like to know? Maybe I should make this an yahoo answers question of my own. Because I must have not been through enough crap yet with men to make me feel like I have to settle for either or. So to answer your question, I'd rather have what I need...REAL LOVE.
I don't expect a man to be completely perfect...just somewhat and I know it can't be great all the time but it has to be good all the time because two people that are not truly in love with each other and willing to constantly be at work on a marriage 24/7 should not get/be married...anyway I am saying all that to say ~*~everyman that has money is not a dog, and everyman that is not wealthy, is faithful, and ya know what wealthy men have normal issues too, money just ain't one of them!~*~
2007-04-07 10:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by soul child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why such a question? Majority would say that the 2nd is a definite. But if you are in the position that you are the less wealthy one and was dumped for a wealthy one. Then it is changed, if you put the two types in front of me or any woman than the choice would be easy. But if you have fallen for a loser it isn't as easy to get out. Us women stay for some odd reasons and we couldn't tell you why. But as long as You, yourself love whoever you are with it is for better or worse. You can't pick and choose who you love, unfortunatly! My husband and I have been through HELL and back but we are still married and I have no regrets and I love him greatly. Although if you could have told me that he was going to do the things he did with in the first 7 years then I would have opted NOT to get married. We have made it through all and I hope that what ever comes our way we can handle it. However if he cheated on me AGAIN, I would like to say I would divorce him, BUT hell I said if he ever cheated on me from the begining I would leave. If you are in love you tend to make excuses for whatever wrongs have been brought against you. But here is the answer to your question,If there was a line up that said here choose your man this is a wealthy cheating scumbag, and here is an average Joe who loves deeply, then I would choose the Average Joe! But that just isn't the way love works! I
2007-04-05 08:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by cherristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have a man that is not wealthy and has normal issues in life bills and that because the reason why you would rather want a man is that wealthy and gives you everything you want, then you are just in it for the money and dont really love him.YOU just LOVE THE MONEY and getting spoiled. And i am sure you would want a faithful man.
2007-04-05 07:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that is not as wealthy and and has normal issues in life bills , kids the normal, and loves me and would never cheat on me
2007-04-05 07:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chewie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely pick the man who is not as wealthy and has normal issues in life and would never cheat on me. I don't want someone who could cheat on me, and even if he did give me everything I want that wouldn't be the best thing in the world because then I would get spoiled...also, I'm not a material person, so it wouldn't work that way. I don't really judge how much I like a person on what they give me, so I don't really care about possessions as long as that person makes me happy and truly cares about me. So I would pick the second man because he truly loves me even though he cannot provide for me as much as the rich cheater.
2007-04-05 07:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by anu_dew2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man that is not as wealthy and and has normal issues in life bills , kids the normal, and loves you and would never cheat on you.
2007-04-05 07:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, the man who wasn't as wealthy, has normal issues, bills, kids, whatever.
However, I was married to a man who wouldn't work at all (not couldn't work - able-bodied, smart, healthy man -- just refused to get/keep a job).
That was no fun either.
2007-04-05 08:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by biiiiaaach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cory, definitley the "not as wealthy man with normal issues in life: bills, kids and loves you and would never cheat".
2007-04-05 07:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a woman myself, I think I would rather have the average man that loves me and would never cheat on me. I would want to have kids with him as well. I would want that because that's what marriage is all about. Love and understanding. Not deception.
2007-04-05 07:57:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋