2007-04-05 07:17:43 · 21 answers · asked by MATTHEW O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just do what my husband does. He spanks me for disobience. No he doesnt abuse me me but he does it hard enough to make me cry and defiently think twice before I do the same thing again. He's also been know to take my car away for a week when I've gotton speeding tickets. As much as I hate to admit it , IT WORKS!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-06 20:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a bully and an arrogant, narcissistic jackass!!
What gives you the right to control her?? Are you a more worthy human being just because you "wear the pants" in the relationship?? If she is any kind of a free thinking person or if you haven't yet completely rid her of her dignity and self worth, you will NEVER get complete obedience from her. You are in a MARRIAGE, not a dictatorship. If you want to control someone, try controlling yourself first!!
2007-04-05 17:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, are you paying all the bills, have her in a house and her own car, let her go on shopping trips with her friends at your expense? If not, and she is helping with anything dealing with the household, you will never get complete obedience from her. You have to take care of everything where she has nothing to worry about in order for her to give your the right to control her life for her. Sorry.
2007-04-05 14:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are tottally wrong to try and control her or get complete obedience. She is a human being, not a dog. Who do you think you are?
Marriage is a partnership. It's not an authoritarian rule.
If you want her to go along with you she has to KNOW that your decisions are always made looking out for her best interest, not just your own. That's part of what love is about.
2007-04-05 14:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by sunnydaydreame 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her complete access to your bank account; sign her up for professional dance lessons with big, hunky men; fly her all over the world putting her up in first class hotels; and buy her lots of bling. Once you have done these things then you will have her eating out of your hand and will have complete obedience. Good luck.
2007-04-05 14:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a person not an animal so you can't control her and if she is doing things that you don't like then you need to consider what you are willing to put up with.
2007-04-05 14:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get a dog. Hopefully, your wife has more sense than you and will take appropriate steps to knock the hell out of you.
2007-04-05 14:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you have the balls to ask that kind of question. Does she get to control your bullS _ _ T in any way?
You are clearly a loser.
2007-04-05 17:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Hammy40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a Leash and practice Sitting and Staying
2007-04-05 14:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come to my house so I can have you arrested. Women are
free thinking, feeling human beings with rights. You my friend,
and I use the word loosely, are an abusive PIG.
2007-04-05 14:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋