well is a long story but just i little bit of. I been married for 4 years now and like 2 years ago my husband was having afair with another woman and he stoped seing her and he told me and we talked about it but the woman was unset because he stoped the relationship between them so she was ttrying to do something to me and she knows where we live and she's calling my house and sending letter to my house i called the police coz le letter scared me to death so me and my housband decide to called the police and the important part is that she lives in other state where we use to leave and i dont know what to do to stoped this crazy woman Please help me thanks
2007-04-05 07:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by MQueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't call her mom she is 45 to old to be doing this i think
2007-04-05 07:58:43 · update #1
Call her mom!. Thats right, find her mothers phone number, and call her. Tell her that her daughter was having an affair with your husband, and that you want her to stop harrassing you. If that doesn't work call her grandma. She will stop real quick
2007-04-05 07:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if you can get a restraining order against her. If you can, have it include all means of communication. Then when you get the next letter, take it and the restraining order to the US Post Office. They take the use of the US Mail for illegal purposes very seriously and it is across state lines so it opens a whole new box of offenses.
And a lawyer might help as well.
Good luck.
2007-04-05 08:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband was involved in a real Fatal Attraction affair. I'm sorry for you. Save all the letters and phone messages and take them to the police, she's harassing you and needs a good scare.
p.s. I hope he learned a lesson.
2007-04-05 07:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document everything she's doing...log phone calls & save letters. Then file for a restraining order...so the next time she bothers you , she's breaking the law.
Personally...I would show up at her house and lay the smackdown. Most people like her are cowards who aren't going to do a damn thing. All talk.
2007-04-05 08:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order if she keeps contacting you call the police and have her arrested. Have the order extended to your husband too
2007-04-05 08:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by babyguurl_492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your loval courthouse and file harassment charges against her and also get a restraining order against her so she is not allowed to come anywhere near you. Ask about the restraining order for when she calls -------------this is harassment and is illegal -you can put a stop to this.
2007-04-05 08:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the letters and tape the messages, and routinely give them to authorities
2007-04-05 07:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just throw the letters away,,, in time she will find another man to have a affair with and leave yours alone,
2007-04-05 07:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a police report in the state she lives at--don't open her mail and change your phone # and make it private
2007-04-05 07:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I am going through a similar situation. Good luck resolving it.
2007-04-05 07:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋