How do I get my husband to want me desperatly. We are seperated and I want him to see what he is missing. Can any men give me advise. No stupid answers please.
2007-04-05 07:27:47 · 13 answers · asked by please help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I basically wanted to know what makes a man attracted to women besides just phisical things
2007-04-05 07:34:00 · update #1
You need to show him how successful and accomplished and happy your can be on your own without him.
You need to always look your best sexy when around him.
Trimming down and firming up always helps.
Show off your shape and your skin to him when you see him.
Always smell really good. I like the smells that are like candy or fruit or dessert.
Don't nag.
Don't argue.
Don't ignore what he says, though. Take what he says seriously and see if you can make the adjustments in your behavior that he requests.
2007-04-05 07:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to give up that idea. I am sure that you are a decent and attractive lady, but do you really want to "win" someone back who doesn't want you? The two of you split for a reason that probably has nothing to do with physical attraction. You need to focus your energy on YOU and try getting the attention of a man who has not left you. Honey, it is time to move on!
2007-04-05 14:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, no stupid answers, but your question is kinda stupid in and of itself. You fail to mention, what your brought the the relationship in the first place, and what caused the separation. So, how can someone help you by saying you need to do a, b, and c, but you haven't provided anyone with what a, b, and c are?
2007-04-05 14:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, that's gonna be tough. If you left him, why the sudden change of heart? Are you realizing what YOU"RE missing?
If he left you, he left for a reason, and at this point, you're probably not going to change his mind that drastically. You're trying to get him to change from not wanting to even be in the same house as you, to wanting you desparately. That's a huge change.
2007-04-05 14:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can phone him , tell him that you need him for something , if he comes to you , tell him directly that you miss him and you want to be together again . you should also take care of yourself , some light make up , some perfume , and speak softly to him , show him some emotions , because emotions is the most effective thing that makes husband attracted to his wife .
2007-04-05 14:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical might get you the first look, but after he knows you he will know if you are a good partner or not. Are you fun or do you nag? Do you take care of yourself or have you gained 50# since you married?
2007-04-05 14:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no stupid answers, just stupid questions. Be the best person you can be, not in his eyes, but in God's eyes. If he doesn't want that kind of woman, then he is missing out, not you.
2007-04-05 14:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus desperately on yourself. Remember what he was attracted to in the first place and be that person again. You can't force anyone to open their eyes; you can only lead a horse to water - you can't make him drink.
2007-04-05 14:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of yourself--make sure you look good. Then give him some space. Nothing like pulling away (instead of pursuing) to make a man want you.
2007-04-05 14:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by sunnydaydreame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like a chase, become interrested in someone else and he will come back.
2007-04-05 14:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by tls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋