Marriage & Divorce - 15 October 2006

How do you keep on top of housecleaning, and laundry with a family. How do you motivate yourself to get it all done. I feel like I am never caught up, and need to get into a good routine that I can stick with. Any suggestions

2006-10-15 06:59:31 · 13 answers · asked by shrimpseys 4

I have been married with this guy for the past two year and we have a five months old baby. My husband has a teen age boy
( his cousin from his aunt she is divorced and she has her son from some sperm doner that's what I heard) but he says he is just like his son. He spents lot of money on him and get him anything( doesn't matter hoe expensive that thing is, rather he would be happy to get him best of best in this world) he is spoiling him a lot. Sometimes his unconditional love for his brother makes me suspicious and I think is that boy his really his own son? why he is crazy for him so much? is this normal? he seems like doesn't want to talk about it much why? I feel jealous and angry any help?

2006-10-15 06:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by hondolkk 1

My dad is 68. He has ED, and has been single for about 5 years. Viagra, etc. does not work for him. He hasn't been dating. He says that he feels inadequate to date and eventually get married. I think, love, companionship, and intimacy are more important in marriage in his age group, than the "sex act" itself.

What do you say?

2006-10-15 06:57:13 · 3 answers · asked by ken88dorset 2

IS it normal that after 4 years of marriage we have a sexua relations once a month. I dont know the reason but my husbat is allways tired. He is 43 and Im 30. I realy dont know what to do with that, lease help.

2006-10-15 06:55:35 · 19 answers · asked by bp 1

2006-10-15 06:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by martinashenden 1

I have always wondered that there are so many housewives in this world who have so many things to share but do not have a good trustworthy friend. Would there be some place/person whom they can approach and share their problems/get a shoulder and get good 3rd party opinions?

2006-10-15 06:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3

I do not think my marriage will be lasting much longer. We have a daughter, and I do not work at the moment, I am going to school. Since my husband is the provider, can I set some of our money aside in case it does come down to my leaving? I would get a job if this happened of course, but I would need some money to get myself and my daughter on our feet at first. Can I do this, since its HIS money??

2006-10-15 06:36:42 · 12 answers · asked by udontneedmyname 1

My divorce has been final since August 24th. I am fixing to move in with my boyfriend whom I have known for a year and a half. We started seeing each other after my divorce was final. I just found out that I am pregnant by my boyfriend so we are fixing to get a place together. I have custody of my kids. Can my ex husband take my kids away if I am living with another man and not married to him? I don't want to loose my kids. I love my boyfriend and want to be with him but just not ready to jump into another marriage just yet.

2006-10-15 06:25:29 · 31 answers · asked by Aprile S 1

2006-10-15 06:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by michael 1

My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have been together for 8 years in total. In that time I feel we haven't moved ahead in our life together - we haven't bought a falt/house, we haven't started a family and we don;t share a lot of common activities (other than weekly shopping or family does)- mainly because my husband doesn't feel ready to or want to do these things. As I do, I feel really frustrated as he never wants to talk about it. Every time I try to talk to him it's always a bad time. We are planning to migrate however as that could take several years I don;t think it is a good enough reason to hold off moving forward in our life. I'm starting to get really stressed about it and don't know if it is a bad sign for how he feels about us and our future. So should I be worried?

2006-10-15 06:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by misscynic 2

long story short. I found out my husband have known this girl since she was 16 she is now 18. He said he know her from the neighborhood his cousin live, o;k I really trusted my husband, and I thought o:k why do she have your cell #.Then at that point I went blank. There is no way my husband could be having affiar with this person, so I decided to call her, she swear he was just someone to talk to, he is friend, I ask if they ever had sex she said no. it wasn't like that. he swear he wasn't having sex with her, he called talking to her as just something to do. now by her being so young i decide to call her mother, i told her i needed her help to find out if my husband was sexually involved with her daughter.She called on 3wy she admitted to knowing him, but said he never tried her like that. and that she knew he lived with his old lady, she said. He don't consider knowing her, and talking to her cheating,he said it was only 3min conv. about B.S. I saw no signs. What do I do. Going Craz

2006-10-15 06:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 06:03:00 · 9 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

i m tired of my empty life...... nothing to look froward to .... a husband who's is away and never tried understanding me.... i feel the most lonely and depressed whn i m with my husband... he is too sweet and sensitive to open my heart out .... i hve nothing to look forward too in my life my
life is a big zero.... i hope i get a friend ,a mentor,before i lose it....

2006-10-15 05:58:41 · 15 answers · asked by nups 1

if you wanted to get married,like yesterday(quick) where would the least expensive place and if there's a lighthouse involved as an extra would be nice!!
thanx

2006-10-15 05:50:49 · 12 answers · asked by johnnny805 2

When an Englishman and a Canadian marry, can they both take their partner's nationality? And if so, how does this happen?

2006-10-15 05:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by jamesbrownontheroad 2

if they don't want kids, will they never conceive? (kids anger the hell out of me)

2006-10-15 05:38:58 · 18 answers · asked by ~ B E L L A ~ 2

2006-10-15 05:35:38 · 7 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

2006-10-15 05:18:05 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have the best orgasum he has ever had with o ral sex? Please this is a serious question I really want tonight to be special he is coming home after being away for 3 months

2006-10-15 05:17:58 · 11 answers · asked by hope4best 1

i used to (still do?) believe in God but the more I look at life I see only this. People can be disgustingly mean and lead great lives at the expense of someone else's suffering. what makes them succeed in this? their willpower, obviously. and then you have the religious people who are constantly struggling and so forth...so, from what I see, it's the willpower that helps you instead of...i don't like the way I think and I do want to believe but I can't ignore what i see.

i know my philosophy's not very deep but i want to hear your thoughts on this.

thanks

(but why do i feel so unhappy and depressed about it)

2006-10-15 05:14:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, we are seperated. It's obvious I am still deeply in love with him. He is talking with other women, inviting them over, cooking them a nice dinner....but he hasnt filed for divorce. We have been seperated for 2 months. he wanted the seperation, said he wanted to find someone better. So, why hasnt he filed? If he is cheating now, doesnt that mean he will cheat in the future if there were ever the possibility of working it out? He feels no remorse, or accepts no blame for his actions that helped cause our seperation..i do accept my part. Serious answers please.

2006-10-15 04:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Elly 3

i think my spouce is cheating, can anyone tell me a good way to find out

2006-10-15 04:25:12 · 27 answers · asked by Billy B 1

2006-10-15 04:14:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

a question about being proposed to ? and one reply was roses with/with out babys breath.! what does it mean ???????

2006-10-15 04:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by fiona h 1

is it possible that after 24 yrs of marriage......the hubby (who cheated) and has since left .........feels no guilt or remorse for any of his hurtful actions?

2006-10-15 04:03:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 03:53:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband says that he loves me yet, he can never seem to make time to do things with me but he can make plans to go off with his friends and stay gone all night and half the morning. He has cheated on me before and we seperated for about 2 months and then got back together. We have been back together for a year now and he has stopped going to his AA meetings and has started going off with his friends drinking again. what should I do? Should I throw away a 15 year marriage?

2006-10-15 03:53:33 · 25 answers · asked by STEPHANIE S 2

Soceity/religion preaches us to be good person every way.
But practically nice guy never win in real world.
so we r hypocrate as reality is diffrent from what i was taught(by my parents/soceity/supporting system)?

2006-10-15 03:49:00 · 11 answers · asked by dilemma 2

my parents have been divorced for over 9 years and I am still so hurt and so angry at one of my parents for it. my mom tried to take me away from my dad and move us. she took me to a counseler when i was four. that counselor lied to me about my dad and tried to tell me that he didn't love me. I was four and so I believed her. That ruined half of my life! My mother tried to keep me away from my step mom when I was five. She made me stay at her house for a month and then my dad's for a month. just when I started to feel like I belonged I was just taken away again. She said my dad would never see me again. she scared him so badly that he had to take anti depressants. and nine years later she STILL DENIES IT. I am so angry at her. she was so mean to my father's side of the family and pretends like they are best friends! My mom takes it out on me when she has a bad day and will never take responsibility for her own actions. I HATE HER!

what should I do?

2006-10-15 03:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by maryfairy 2

i made up and we did therapy going great but ,what he did was unforgivalbe cheated on me while pregnant at 6 months this was 6 yrs ago found body glitter on him was so upset lost the baby he left to be with her for 3 months found out she was trash we now have a 5yr old and are very happy hes been acting strange,but always tells me how sorry he is and how he would never leave me or hurt me again ,anyone been through this have advice?thanks....

2006-10-15 03:45:56 · 21 answers · asked by nicole l 4