2006-10-15 06:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by martinashenden 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well. The question itself makes one understand the situation one would be in in that position. One needs to approach it with strength, peace of mind and after figuring out what are one' positives. I know that it would be a whole lot to ask. Some of the key things are first: get yourself involved in something which is drastically different but that one thing which you enjoy a lot to do! it will help you forget about the problem. 2nd: Think about your positive strengths and try to see if how you can come out of the situation. Talk to your best friend/counsellor. and Last - Dont think about re-marriage for quite some time!
2006-10-15 06:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the actual reason for u splitting up, im sure u have got lots of friends and family that are caring and loving to bring u back on ur feet, why not go on a big girlie shopping day with ur friends or even ur mum, treat urself to a few new outfits, get a new hairstyle, and even book urself in for the day at a spa and completley relax and enjoy urself, im sure ur a lovely lookin lady and lifes too short to mope about thinkin oh no every relationship is gonna go wrong... put ur glad rags on chin in the air and get out ther hun and enjoy life u dnt need a man to enjoy urself!
keep smilin babe always a good sign! :)
2006-10-15 14:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by vicky_js23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for your question. How do you make new, single friends when your husband has been your whole life for 26 years. All your friends are married and you have no one to go out and do things with like go to movies and such. I really feel your pain. I admire you for starting a new life instead of staying with an --- just because you have no one els. Chin up and hang in there.
2006-10-15 17:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by dharma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebuild one brick at a time. This is easier for women than men. I really don't know why. But, create a world of things you care about. Deliberately omit things that your ex liked I.E. their favorite color, foods, t.v. shows, etc. Do things that you never did with your ex. Experience life anew. Once you're feeling good again, look back on your old life and forgive your ex and thank your lucky stars for your new perspective on life.
2006-10-15 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one.......one lousy step at a time. I had a child to consider so most of my efforts were geared towards her. I couldn't burn his pictures and do alot of the things I would have liked to do because it was her dad. She was young and I didn't feel it was good to move her from familiar surroundings so I didn't move away or anything drastic. I bought myself a new outfit and got my hair cut really short. (out of spite), and I set my mind to succede because I didn't want to give him the satisfaction of thinking I couldn't handle it alone. I just concentrated on my daughter and work and my home......
2006-10-15 14:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with any other accomplishable feat.....
ONE step atta time! Good luck on the ROAD to RECOVERY!
You may not think so at the moment. It's a grand HIGHWAY!
2006-10-15 13:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One step at a time. Give yourself as much time as possible and let yourself grieve. Everything will become clear. It might seem foggy right now.
2006-10-15 13:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at the future not in the past.im sure u can have a life of ur own only that it takes time.......
2006-10-15 14:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋