Marriage & Divorce - 15 October 2006

i been going out with ma boyfriend 4 about 2 years now. but i met one of his friends. and we hooked up behind ma man's back. ma boyfriend was always treatin me wrong!! so what should i do?

2006-10-15 18:52:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

All I want to do is have some fun! How can I stop??
I am 36yrs old, been married for 11yrs and I have no idea why all of a sudden I'm actually asking the guys at work to go out and have a drink with me. I haven't done anything with any of them, yet!, but if its only a matter of time, I just know it. I even tell my husband that I've gone to the bar with this 26yr old...what in God's name is wrong with me??? mid-life crisis? what??

2006-10-15 18:43:30 · 25 answers · asked by ohsouncertain 1

Are there any good affordable plans, any recommendations will help, thank you

2006-10-15 18:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 18:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4

we use to have a RADDD!! sex life...... it died down a little after we had 2 boys in a row, but still good. Last year I had 2 surgeries, including a hysterectomy, and now, nothing. He's 33 and I'm 39, but we've been married for 9 years...does that make a difference? Now I want it and he doesn't, go figure. Any advice?

2006-10-15 18:17:26 · 22 answers · asked by tbtt&b 1

My friends were married for 10 yrs, with 2 kids. Suddenly she stated she wasn't happy, and served him with divorce papers, moves out, looses weight, but still comes to family functions with her inlaws, She left him the house, kids 90% of the time, and he has more money now than he did while married He's such a hard worker and gave her anything she wanted, she had it made. What is her problem.

2006-10-15 18:11:39 · 11 answers · asked by Windy 2

2006-10-15 17:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've lived with a man 37 year old man for the last 5 years. We bought a house 3 years ago, and have a little dog. I am to a point where I no longer want to put up with it. I think the final straw was the other day, it was my birthday, and I came home to find him drunk. We were supposed to go out to dinner to celebrate, but I refuse to go out with him when he is drinking. It is now 30 days out of 31 in a month that he drinks til he's drunk. I don't know what to do. I'm thinking of asking him to leave for a month, stay with a friend, see about getting help for his drinking..and if he doesn't then at least I will have had a chance to get the house in order to put it on the market. Anyone have any advice? I'm really needing some good advice on the best way to handle this..financially, emotionally, etc. Don't need the "you go girl" comments, just need the "this is the best way to approach this" comments. Thanks in advance..really! We aren't married, but everything is joint.

2006-10-15 17:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by Jeanine C 2

My friend's wife beats him every night what should he do?

2006-10-15 17:46:52 · 20 answers · asked by ken31pop 2

When I made the choice for them to stay with the father it was because he had the stability for them. I had been a homemaker and had never worked up until that time. Then I found a job which put me strictly working nights. My work schedule would have ruined their lives. They were 2 and 4 when I made that decision. He allowed our children to call someone else mom within six months after our seperation.

2006-10-15 17:31:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we always quarrel.... almost every month... i can't stand it anymore... i'm so stress... what should i do???

2006-10-15 17:28:43 · 43 answers · asked by Sharon 1

borhood? even if they claim it's all innocent when clearly they flirt with one another even when my mother is around? my mother is too innocent to see what's happening. it's really disturbing to watch their behavior and as an adult daughter I don't know what I should say or do

2006-10-15 17:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by nbcsred247 2

im the new wife

2006-10-15 16:59:51 · 10 answers · asked by badkittykitty2001 1

My first and middle name is Wanda Lea(not crazy about that either but I'm keeping them). I am already divorced and yes, I can still change my name to something other than my maiden name which I refuse to use. I don't need any opinions about what anyone thinks about that, thank you.

2006-10-15 16:59:07 · 5 answers · asked by wandalea_tx 1

Background first: I am currently in a custody battle with my exwife. She so far has not paid me any child support (yes I have custody). I have been activily pursing the child support issue on court. Now she is fighting for full custody. I have been thinking of moving back home (which is out of state) and am going forward with that. The move is not out of anger or anything. I have been thinking about this 2 years ago when we were still married. We have court next week for all of this.
Ok now onto the question: Our 3 daughters just spent this week with their Mom because of Fall Break. Well, I picked them up from their Mothers house on Saturday. Almost as soon as I pull out of the driveway and head down the road...my oldest told me that her Mom asked her if I touch her cooter. I was shocked to her this but not really surprised that her Mom would do this. Either way I asked her what did she tell her mom. She said that No I leave her cooter alone.

Should I ask my ex about this?

2006-10-15 16:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by sdo3lg 4

& now I want him to get married , but he wants to go for arrange marriage. How can I convience him for love marriage.

2006-10-15 16:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been marry for 4 years and I can't accept his culture yet ,he is to radical, if I say or do something that he dosen't like , he say 'we should divorce '' but I LOVE HIM' I don't want to lose him but he hurt my feelings everytime he say that, what shoul I do?

2006-10-15 16:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by issam 1

2006-10-15 16:48:39 · 15 answers · asked by gisela50cent 3

2006-10-15 16:47:16 · 14 answers · asked by nbcsred247 2

my husband and i have seperated and recently started trying to work things out. my son is taking it really hard and wants to stay with his dad but i have changed him to three different schools in just the few monthes that school has started and i'm afraid all the moving around is'nt healthy for him.

2006-10-15 16:39:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has a terrible problem of turning a minor setback into a full blown battle.
Today after church I left the classroom to look for my wife and be on our way home. After 5 minutes of searching I finally found her walking down the hallway.
The first thing out of her mouth is "Where have you been?" And I tell her that I have been searching for her and she tells me that she has been searching for me, too. "What's wrong? You didn't see me waiting for you?" she says. And I tell her "No, I didn't, that's why I have been looking for you." She says "That's your problem... you never think!"
That happened about 8 hours ago and she still hasn't spoken a word to me. Am I missing some deep, mysterious reason for being upset? Because I just dont get how you can get so mad over one simple little thing. And it happens often.
Anyway what do I do now? I just want for her to realize that she is treating me very unfairly and it's making me think that I should leave her.

2006-10-15 16:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by cnype 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We plan to get married soon but there is one problem that hasn't been resolved. His last name is Skelton and for some reason I think it sounds terrible. I could keep my last name but then it makes a whole issue with our children. Also I want my family to to united with one last name. I really do not like his last name at all, but I wonder if I am being too superficial. Then I think about combining our last names but isn't that just a hassle through the courts. Please give me any suggestions or let me know if I should just give it up and become a Skelton.

2006-10-15 16:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by JessyH 1

I mean girls make guys take the blame for a lot of stuff, but this one is beyond sinister.

2006-10-15 16:30:20 · 19 answers · asked by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3

2006-10-15 16:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by bLuR.? 2

I have met up with an old friend from the past (9 years ago)...we always had a thing for one another and never acted on it...I got engaged...he got married...then he got divorced and my engagement broke off...

After 4 years of no contact we happened to cross paths again-it was random...

Has anyone had anyone had any experience with an old friend/acquaintance in which they were able to make a lasting relationship i.e. marriage?

2006-10-15 16:25:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

WOMAN OR MEN OUT THERE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT IS DEPLOYED, DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH YOU SPOUSE BEING UPSET AND UNABLE TO TELL YOU WHAT'S WRONG? HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL?

2006-10-15 16:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by Jana M 1

mean he is cheating on you !?

2006-10-15 16:17:01 · 15 answers · asked by gisela50cent 3

Whether you're married or single what would be some reasons on why you'd choose to have an affair...

2006-10-15 16:16:17 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4

2006-10-15 16:12:58 · 17 answers · asked by super girl 3

mainly from the stress....my husband for the most part is a great support system ....but when i tell him that im not feeling well his response is usually"of course you dont" or "whats new" or something smart ***. Its not like im asking him to do anything or to help with the kids or housework....one of the most stressfull days, it was a very very bad day.....all he could do is ask ...whats for dinner? or are you going to cook tonight or what....my feelings were so hurt.. so i got up crying and MADE HIS DAMN FOOD!..

my stress has to do with my kids and how they cannot get along with thier dad and step mom and ...its a long story but its stressful and very very hurtful and draining.....am i wrong in needing to take a few days off as i am a stay at home mom?

2006-10-15 16:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2