Whether you're married or single what would be some reasons on why you'd choose to have an affair...
2006-10-15 16:16:17 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ ms. @ ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really love your spouse you would think he or she was the hottest person in the world. So nope, I've been cheated on. It felt horrible, I would never put someone through that. Any one can start an affair but it takes a wise person to avoid it altogether.
2006-10-15 16:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are single, is it really an affair? I am married and would never in a million years have one. I never cheat on anyone I'm with. I think that is the lowest way to hurt someone. You should leave them first then do what you want. "There is no problem 2 people CAN'T solve, but there is NO problem 3 people can solve.
2006-10-15 16:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think having an affair isn't something one chooses to do. Sometimes people fall in love and can't seem to help themselves. These days there are also different kinds of affairs and I guess different degrees of it. Not always physical. Hopefully, the affair is between 2 single people but, sometimes of course, it happens to married people as well. Duh! As if you don't know that. Anyhow, to answer your question - Love - strong love would be the only reason.
2006-10-15 16:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say I wouldn't have an affair with a married man (as I'm single) under any circumstances. It's just a no win situation. I don't like being hurt and I don't want to hurt anyone else like his wife and kids. I think I would feel cheap if a man thought so little of me that I would settle for being his mistress. I think I am worth more than that and I have more to give.
2006-10-15 16:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing at all. I have been faced with the option to have one and I had very strong feelings for the person. I did not love my husband at all. I still chose not to have an affair because it just isn't the right thing to do in my opinion. I have values and want them to stay intact. I am not the only person that I have to worry about. Having an affair would have been selfish. I chose to divorce my husband after many years due to it being an abusive situations. and even though I had thoughts and urges because he would withhold sex from me I never played on them.
2006-10-15 16:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by stop_staring_please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me personally, but a close friend of mine confided about her affair. She said she got involved with the guy because it was a new thrill, she needed the ego boost (her husband was a degrading pig) and she just wanted the excuse to get out of her marriage. (Which I realize doesn't excuse her behavior, she should have just divorced him. It took the affair to make her realize just how bad her situation was and to get out.)
2006-10-15 16:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are not such a big deal anymore. So many people do it now and they just put it out of their mind, or else they justify it by saying, "my spouse doesn't love and satisfy me anymore". When 2 people click...they usually do it. It is the way of the future.
2006-10-15 16:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Defing "affair" because single people have affairs with single people all of the time.
2006-10-15 16:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes if your husband dont give attention and somebody else is offering well things happens and humans sometimes are weak so it could be possible to have an affair but try not do it.
2006-10-15 16:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having an affair something is missing from you relationship. It could be anything.
2006-10-15 16:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋