is it appropriate for a daughter to tell her father he should not be hanging with a single female in the neigh

Question

borhood? even if they claim it's all innocent when clearly they flirt with one another even when my mother is around? my mother is too innocent to see what's happening. it's really disturbing to watch their behavior and as an adult daughter I don't know what I should say or do

Answer 1

Well first your mother needs to confront that slutty neighbor of yours and tell her to stay away from her man. She also need to confront your Dad as well and tell him it is either her or the neighbor and if he picks the neighbor she should tell him do not let the door hit you in the azz. Your dad and the neighbor are being very disrespectful to your mother. If I was her I would not allow that behavior. How would he feel if the shoe was on the other foot he would be furious.

Answer 2

I think single fathers can raise daughters just like single mothers can raise sons. BUT, there comes a time in that child's life where they are going to need a positive role model of the same gender. It's easier when they're younger, but once the girl starts going through certain changes, it would be good for her to have a mother to help her out. If the father makes himself aware of the kind of changes a girl might go through, reads up on some books, then I'm sure he can handle it relatively well. I was mostly raised by my mom, and sometimes I wanted to do things that my mom just wouldn't do. It would've been cool to go camping, or fishing or whatever. Since my dad wasn't there, I tried doing as much of that stuff I could with my friends. Although mothers are very important for a child to have in the first couple years cause of breast milk, a baby's favorite food :]

Answer 3

If you are old enough to understand what's going on and if this is your dad you need to talk to him or your mom quick. It seems to me like you want to stay out of the way but honestly comming from experience as a daughter of a father who cheated. I was always there backing up my mom and questioning my dad. I think you have every right to question your dad, and your neighboor. You'll be glad you did! GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS

Answer 4

Tell him. Don't be polite about it, and don't be deferential. Tell him as one adult to another--you're not in the 'daughter' role for this discussion--that you're requesting a behavior change for his own self respect and for your mother and yourself.

As some men age, they think this type of behavior is 'cute' or they try to pass it off as they desperately attempt to assert their 'manhood.' It's all bullcrap.

Answer 5

DO NOT LISTEN TO CALGARY GUY.

"Silence is the symphony of the Gods." Say nothing. 20 years from now, you are going to be so proud of yourself that you shut up and didn't start a fire and didn't tattle and kept your mouth shut.

Your mother doesn't need to hear any of this from YOU. Your father is going to lie to you.

Please do this my way. I know. Say nothing. "Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is counted wise."

Answer 6

Why not, go ahead and talk to him. What is the worst thing that can happen. Tell your mother, see what she wants you to do.

Answer 7

I don't think it's inappropriate at all.......although it maybe innocent, things do happen. But u can't force others to see what they don't want to see.

Answer 8

it sure is . his actions affect ur life to and if they are flirting its innapropriate if ur parents are still together. tell him to pull his head in coz ur not happy maybe that will work

Answer 9

Definatly tell him. Tell him he is making a fool of himself.
Then it is up to him to clean up his act.

After that, there isn't much you can do

Answer 10

Tell him girl, you know the game....he is disrespecting your mother...