I met my wife in a state where neither of us were from, when we go married, we moved by her family. It was important to me to live by some family even if not my own. Two years later, we argue terribly every time my family comes to visit or when I try to plan a trip to see my family. We've only gone a couple times for two or three days. My wife has no problem with my family members, but they do not have the same ample living arrangements that we are used to having. We might have to stay on blow up mattress, or share a single bathroom between 5-10 visiting family members. Also, some of my family is rough around the edges, but never rude. I know that these things make it difficult for my wife, but they are people that I care deeply about, and I feel that it is her responsibility to deal with the less than ideal situations. I feel that I would do this for her. She feels that I am not sensitive to her feelings. I tell her that for my family she has to put her feelings aside. Am I wrong?
2006-10-15
07:58:32
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