im not very good at online role playing could use advice
2006-10-15 07:59:08 · 17 answers · asked by ladyJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husbands military and we have 2 kids he is stationed over seas so traveling to see him is not an option
2006-10-15 08:08:25 · update #1
He's only 3000 miles away if you fly the other way.
2006-10-15 09:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing you love him, and that you are keeping the home fires burning, being strong for him, taking care of the family, and making the everyday day to day decisions in a responsible way will be enough to keep him interested. And everyone here has also gave plenty of great advice on small things you can do to let him know. Stay strong girl, and tell him we all thank him for his hard work!
2006-10-15 08:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Elly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say try something kinda spicy. Maybe phone sex?? Try expressing your desires for him and explain different situations you'd like to be in with him. Once you get back together things should be SUPER exciting. Send him cards or letters and keep him knowing how you feel about him. If you have internet access as well as him - send cute cards, there's tons of free ones. Maybe try typing him and interesting HOT e-mail and tell him what you would do if you were there beside him......
2006-10-15 08:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by J W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him everyday, write him nice lovey emails. Make sure that you let him know that you are still thinking of him even though he is miles away.
If you can go visit him every so often, or have him come back home.
I think the most improtant thing to do when your SO is traveling is to let them know how much you care and love them and that they are still important to you.
2006-10-15 08:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by E_E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, he cannot be 21,000 miles away..
It is only 24,000 miles all the way around the earth at the equator.
Secondly,
Use email, naked pictures, role playing etc...
Let him take the lead buy you must be a willing & responsive participant.....Just like when you were dating..
2006-10-15 09:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like he is away for you both I presume. Making money for home? Just tell him you love him. Talk to him as if he was here. Even keep an open file for things you want to say so that you don't forget
2006-10-15 08:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must be really tough - but I don;t think u shoudl worry about keeping him 'interested'. He's your hsband he married you because he wants to grow old with you so have confidence in that - while he is away do what comes naturally to both of you - whether it is calling him, telling him you miss him, writing to him, sending him pictures, talking dirty to each other of visitng him - remember he has away from you so should be worried about keeping you interested too
2006-10-15 08:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by misscynic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to date a guy in the army. I am embarrassed now...but he always remembers this....I wrote him a letter every week, (we talked everyday too) and in the letter I sent a Polaroid of a piece of my body. By the time he came home. He had a full body shot of me, naked) He loved it. I sent him gift packages of his favorite things once a month including, fresh cookies, Cd's, movies. I would draw silly 3rd grade pictures of us together...he loved it all.
2006-10-15 08:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't specify where you 2 are. Can you go visit him? Send him care packages with pictures of you in his fav negligee' Or make a dvd of you doing whatever.
2006-10-15 08:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do chat. Use your digital camera to send him a series of sexy photos... maybe act out a little romantic scenario... slowly undressing... revealing strategic parts as you go. You can add little descriptions to each photo. Save them to Yahoo photos and email the series to him. He can watch a slide show he won't forget!
2006-10-15 08:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by charlie_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋