as...drinking, smoking and looking at the porn ...to start with :)
2006-10-15 09:25:37 · 25 answers · asked by The ham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes
2006-10-15 09:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not crazy. It's human nature to look blindly at someone's faults if you really care for them. But, honestly, I do think that staying with him is poor judgement, because if he can break promises like that now - even if they may seem small to some people - could escalate into bigger things in the future.
I think if you have to ask a question like this, it means that you don't trust your boyfriend the way you should. Relationships are strengthened and built upon by trust. Without trust, continuing your relationship with him will prove to be harder and harder as time progresses and more promises are broken by him.
Honestly, I don't think we can answer this question for you. This sounds cliched, but you have to listen to your heart. If you think he can change, by all means, stay with him and give him a chance. If you really feel that he'll continue being the same person - if you can tell that he is not willing to change his behaviour - then yes, you may want to consider ending the relationship, because that probably means it is not going anywhere.
2006-10-15 09:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie_791 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these things really bother you... I mean to the core of your being... just imagine how you would feel... lets say you marry this guy and ten years from now he's still doing it... and you have 2 kids with him...
Don't date, go with or marry a person that has morals, values or anything else that is an issue with what you believe in... it's not right for you on the other hand to be the rule maker of another persons choice in life... go out anf find someone that is on the same pageas far as likes and dislikes as you... life will be a lot easier... not having to always be looking out for when he's going to go back to those bad habits... hope this helps
2006-10-15 09:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are wrong to stay with him, unless you see yourself as worthless and not worthy of a good man. Love has nothing to do with this. As you age you will realize that you will fall in love and that doesn't mean you need to be with that person.
It sounds like you live with a great deal of drama. What is it ab out his behavior that keeps you there? You are the adult he is a child. You deserve much better and you know it.
Unless he changes by his own choice he will never change for anyone else.. even you.
So many women stay with men who aren't what then need or want because they have this illusion of romantic love.
Love does happen, but between two people who know what they want and what they need. Hon, this guy seems happy with a babysitter and he has no clue of how to be a man. I am sure he is adorable and at times very charming and you feel like you can't resist him or live without him.....that is NOT love.
Once you are free of him you will be amazed how foolish it was for you to give your time to someone as immature as he is.
2006-10-15 10:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you honestly think? Its hard to figure out which is worse; a lying boyfriend or a girlfriend that willing and knowingly puts up with this crap? Whats it going to take for you to say enough is enough and move on? You dont need us to tell you what you already know and youre old enough to not need our permission to do it. Youre letting you fellow females all over the world down by being so stupid as to saty with this nerd. Time to move on so get going and find a better life. Good luck
2006-10-15 09:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not crazy; but you're setting yourselves up for a very difficult life together. If he enjoys drinking; smoking and porn; and it sounds as though you disapprove of these things... Find a new partner. If you two stay together you'll end up hating each other...
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2006-10-15 21:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u get used to someone its just so hard to end a relationship. But keep in mind such a person can't be trusted because you would be sure that he would break more promises. And that can only lead to more unhappiness. Why do people stay together anyway: to be happy or to be unhappy
2006-10-15 09:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by e-pack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with porn & a few drinks are not a problem though
I can understand you problem with smoking...
No, you are not crazy but don't get too strict or you may find
your choices of men to be very limited...
2006-10-15 09:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
You're crazy because you are subjecting yourself to such behavior that you don't even appreciate. If this man can't keep his promises to you then you obviously aren't of any importance to you. If he loved you, he'd work on stopping the things he does that you don't like.
2006-10-15 09:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,
the guy is a low ball. Gutteral and useless. He will only pull you down with him. Get rid of him today.
Find a good looking sensitive rich guy who will love you to the ends of the earth.
2006-10-15 09:31:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋