mainly from the stress....my husband for the most part is a great support system ....but when i tell him that im not feeling well his response is usually"of course you dont" or "whats new" or something smart ***. Its not like im asking him to do anything or to help with the kids or housework....one of the most stressfull days, it was a very very bad day.....all he could do is ask ...whats for dinner? or are you going to cook tonight or what....my feelings were so hurt.. so i got up crying and MADE HIS DAMN FOOD!..
my stress has to do with my kids and how they cannot get along with thier dad and step mom and ...its a long story but its stressful and very very hurtful and draining.....am i wrong in needing to take a few days off as i am a stay at home mom?
2006-10-15 16:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by forbidnfruit_420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need counseling and it would be a good idea for the whole family to get help.You are stressed and kids can not get along with dad and step mom.Not a happy house at all.Get everyone help and be happy.
2006-10-15 16:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to take the kids for a day long outing. Maybe to an amusement park if there is one not to far from home. Then get some bubble bath (Believe it or not I find that Johnson's Baby Menthol Bath extremely soothing") Make yourself a nice warm bath, add about a cup of epsom salts (great for soaking away all the aches and pains) and relax for about a half hour. Then get into some pjs, grab a good book and some headphones and just totally "veg" out. Grab some extra sleep if you can and let the rest of the house go. When your hubby and kids get back you will be in a better mood and you can all send out to have pizza delivered.
2006-10-15 16:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously go to the doctor get a physical because alot of crap happened in my life & it caused stress & anxiety. My thyroid got messed up in all the drama as in Anxiety. Definetly not wrong in having some you time also. It will make you a more efficient mom & wife. Also you will be relaxed some. Do it for the kids & mainly your sanity.
2006-10-15 16:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by wheels302001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems such as you need to have some indications of social rigidity - that's very confusing to handle sometimes, it could additionally be debilitating adequate so as which you're actually not any further waiting to hold close out with acquaintances or do issues socially. in case you opt to take the meds direction, communicate with a physician approximately rigidity drugs that should help. speaking with a therapist might succeed because of the fact it quite is going to positioned issues into attitude - lots of the situations you're worried approximately, should not be worried approximately. anybody is in simple terms approximately consistently so occupied with themselves, that they gained't even word what you're doing, not to point think of you're weird and wonderful. you would be very nicely, and treatment may be a huge help to easily replace the type you think of approximately those situations, that way you will not sense as panicy. you're in no way "weird and wonderful" - anybody has rigidity to three quantity - some anybody is in simple terms greater effected than others.
2016-11-23 13:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress is exhausting. Yes, take a few days off. Sorry your husband isn't more supportive.
2006-10-15 16:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, the dilema of many a modern marriage. maybe you and your husband need a little time to yourself, where you can reconnect and get back on the same page. also, i know its sounds corny, but rub his feet, suprize him with something nice thats just for h im. he may feel as though he is competeing for your attention.
2006-10-15 16:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by moluvsmark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some time away from the chaos.
2006-10-15 16:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been a stay-at-home homemaker all my life... we need & deserve vacations!
2006-10-15 16:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
( http://www.reducingstress.net ) Check it out. It will help.
2006-10-17 15:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋