2006-10-15 03:53:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All normal people do. No gender discrimination. Do I smell insecurity here??
2006-10-15 04:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do and any married woman who tells you different lies!!!!
It is human nature. And all married men do as well.
You can be happy and satisfied and still fantasize.
A lot of couples role play in the bed room. They pretend to be people that they aren't and this excites them.
You don't necessarily fantasize about people that you work with it's more like actors or actresses.
Everyone out there has seen an actor or actress that they think is hot!!! And they wonder deep down inside what it would be like to be with that person.
I know that some people on this site will answer the question no, never, that it is wrong, that they have never did this act but I am sorry they are lying.
At some point and time in there marriage they have.
You can have fantasy while making love with your spouse and they never have to know.
You can envision another man or woman and pretend you are with them and this makes the act more exciting.
And at the moment of true exctasy say your partners name and they would never know any difference. And they would be happy and excited that they got you there.
Because in reality it was them that got you there not the person you were thinking of.
I mean yes thinking of them helped but it was your partner who did all the work.
The mind is a wonderful thing. It can help you achieve all that you have ever wanted in your sexual relationship if you just let it go.
And to all those who say they never have you are really missing out on something wonderful. And you are kidding yourself if you think your husband never fantasizes about other women.
It is human nature. And as long as it is fantasy there is nothing wrong with it.
And as long as I don't know he is thinking of someone else then I am cool with it. Becasue I get the best end of the deal not the one he is thinking of.
2006-10-15 07:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by rockn75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have and I am ashamed I did. I was with a man I wasn't attracted to, but he seemed like a great guy.I felt I shouldn't judge a book by the cover. We became friends. I didn't notice all the things that turned me off about him. As the true colors came out.
The person I grew to love was gone. All I was left with was the cover. Which made it impossible to be sexually attracted to him. But I still had feelings. So I would let my mind wander during sex.
2006-10-15 04:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-15 10:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-15 04:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never have. Maybe I am different but when I am with a man it is because I am attracted to them at some level. In order for me to be intimate and make love with them I have to be thinking of them. To me to be intimate with some one and not be thinking of them during the love making well it's just wrong, then why be with them ...it's just sex?? I am not that way......I have to have an emotional attachment with them, I need to feel the connection if there is no connection there is no intimacy.
~Just me~
2006-10-15 14:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if they are not getting any attention from their spouse or if their spouse is not pleasuring them at all or not even trying to show them some TLC...then yes i should know cause that is what happend to me...and yes i do fantisize about another man or men...
2006-10-15 07:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE and ADORE my hubby, and ofcourse I fantasize we all do it is part of human nature. Sean Connery, Mel Gibbson, Richard Gere...and My Hubby are the ONLY men I would need in my life !!! But you know he has his fantasies also. No One that says they do not fantasize must be of the human race , they are full of BALONEY !
2006-10-15 04:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by shark38dd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that ones who are happily married do not. Why dream about anyone else if your man meets all your needs and desires.
2006-10-15 04:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course they do....and I'll go you even one better.....there are quite a few of us married men that fantasize about another man too.....happens to me all the time when I'm "with" my wife.....
2006-10-16 04:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋