is it possible that after 24 yrs of marriage......the hubby (who cheated) and has since left .........feels no guilt or remorse for any of his hurtful actions?
2006-10-15 04:03:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is unfortunate but true ...he feels no remorse yet any way. He won't feel any remorse of what he has lost until it is to late. It will hit him when she doesn't do what he wants or when she turns on him.You don't need him..I am sorry for your loss but you really don't need him. Mourn him like he has passed on so you can hurt and grieve and get over it. Just remember you are a loving, caring, compassionate woman and you deserve love in your life, an honest love.....you can and will find it.
~Love and Light to you~
2006-10-15 14:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that 24 years of marriage is too long to dismiss. Somewhere, deep inside, there is guilt and remorse. The marriage lasted 24 years...24 years of being with the same person, of course he'll feel guilt and remorse. It just might not be apparent.
2006-10-15 11:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard for me to believe there are people out there that can do this. But I've met them. To me when you can turn your emotions on and off like a faucet. Then their not open to real feelings or emotions.
But I have found more often to be true. Is that even though on the outside it doesn't show. They are feeling hurt and remorse. If he can not feel any of these things. Count your blessings you know it now. Take care okay. Good luck. Attached is a site that may help.
2006-10-15 11:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because he probably felt no guilt or remorse during the affair. Men dont think like that
2006-10-15 11:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he may not feel it now, but he WILL feel it. It may not be as quick as you want it to be, but it WILL hit him and when it does, it will be more painful than you can imagine. He's in the "lust" right now. Wait until reality sets in and he sees himself for whom he really is. You will see a person you have never seen before. The guilt, remorse and self hate will be all over his face. It will come, believe me, but probably not as quickly as you would like it to. But it will come........ and it will eat him alive each and everyday of his life.
2006-10-15 11:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, men are selfish and he may blame someone else, say you for example, for what happened instead of taking responsibility. Or he may have just stopped caring long before he cheated. It will take more time for him to feel guilt than you would expect, and it probably wont be guilt that he feels, it will be loneliness.
2006-10-15 11:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by J G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!! some men have no remorse for anything or anyone. just be glad that hes out of your life, 24 years is a long time but it could have been longer
2006-10-15 12:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by MissMonk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure since he has left that he feels no guilt for anything he has done. my ex has been out of my life for 16 years and still takes no blame for what he did to me and the children. Why worry about what he is feeling since you are no longer with him
2006-10-15 11:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, Yes. My ex-wife left me after 10 years and has no guilt at all.
2006-10-15 11:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - it is amazing what some people can do to others. They justify their actions the best way they can to avoid feeling guilt.
2006-10-15 13:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋