long story short. I found out my husband have known this girl since she was 16 she is now 18. He said he know her from the neighborhood his cousin live, o;k I really trusted my husband, and I thought o:k why do she have your cell #.Then at that point I went blank. There is no way my husband could be having affiar with this person, so I decided to call her, she swear he was just someone to talk to, he is friend, I ask if they ever had sex she said no. it wasn't like that. he swear he wasn't having sex with her, he called talking to her as just something to do. now by her being so young i decide to call her mother, i told her i needed her help to find out if my husband was sexually involved with her daughter.She called on 3wy she admitted to knowing him, but said he never tried her like that. and that she knew he lived with his old lady, she said. He don't consider knowing her, and talking to her cheating,he said it was only 3min conv. about B.S. I saw no signs. What do I do. Going Craz
2006-10-15 06:05:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless you've got proof that he's been fooling around then you don't have much choice but to give him the benefit of the doubt. There's a good chance he might be telling the truth so don't do anything hasty. Just keep on your guard from now on, but don't let it take over - you still have to trust him or there's no point in the relationship carrying on.
2006-10-15 06:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hard to say
Invite the girl to meet you at a restaurant for lunch
and ask her if she was in you rplace (her husband communicating with an 18 year old ) how would she feels
I will bet you that she will not be able to come up with the answer
and ask her to be good anought to stop communicating because it bothers you
2006-10-15 13:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still why can't he talk to some one his age? Nothing might of not happend but what is plan for this girl. I know alot of teenagers they are fun to talk to but, I perfer my age group. I have lot friends who have teenagers, who come and visit with us. I even got 3 teen age nephews, I call see how they are doing and if they need any thing. Have you heard the stuff they talk about? The kids talk about stupid stuff some times.
2006-10-15 13:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by PENNY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to longer communicate with her that it makes you uneasy and might be sending this young girl the wrong message. If he still does, delete her from his cell phone. Ask her mom to delete your husband from her daughters cell also.
2006-10-15 13:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by happyfarmerswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lacking some information here...if she is 18....how old are each of you? If in early to mid twenties.....probably nothing is wrong...do nothing except get over your insecurity. If in your late twenties and up......that would be a bit unusual.
2006-10-15 18:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rickard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at his cell phone bill ...or you can always put a tapping device in your house phone!!! thats how we found out my dad was cheating on my mom ....or you can always gut a gps locator so you can know where he is at 24/7...or go to cheaters.com and they give you tips
2006-10-15 13:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by theoneandonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely lost....Your imagination has gone wild.
Please be realistic. Erase her # from his cell phone, and get a good nite's sleep.
2006-10-15 13:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are his wife if he needs to talk you should be the one he runs too not some lil @$$ girl , not any girl period. He is hiding something
2006-10-15 13:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up !
Settle down...
Don't panic..
Keep your eyes open but don't become a raging maniac...
2006-10-15 13:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THAT HE NEEDS TO STOP TALKING TO HER AND U DO NOT TRUST HER.....
2006-10-15 14:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋