I have been married with this guy for the past two year and we have a five months old baby. My husband has a teen age boy
( his cousin from his aunt she is divorced and she has her son from some sperm doner that's what I heard) but he says he is just like his son. He spents lot of money on him and get him anything( doesn't matter hoe expensive that thing is, rather he would be happy to get him best of best in this world) he is spoiling him a lot. Sometimes his unconditional love for his brother makes me suspicious and I think is that boy his really his own son? why he is crazy for him so much? is this normal? he seems like doesn't want to talk about it much why? I feel jealous and angry any help?
2006-10-15 06:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by hondolkk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he just really loves his brother
2006-10-15 07:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by krystal s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if the boy is really his own. If he is it happened a long time before you got together. Maybe he is and your husband is afraid to tell you because you might judge him for it. I would be concerned about the money he is spending on his brother if it leaves the two of you short of money for what you need in life but as long as he is taking good care of you and your baby why would it really matter. He is not doing his brother any favours though by giving him everything he desires. It leads to a selfish man that cannot give to anyone else just one that expects things from everyone else.
2006-10-15 07:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you implying that your husband has a child with his aunt? If so, why dont you ask them? Also, if this child is his aunts son, its his cousin, not his brother, that part is confusing? If all that isnt true, and he is just spoiling a cousin with no dad, I dont see the harm unless he is taking from your baby and you to do it. Sounds to me like he is just being a father figure to his young cousin, and it sounds like he needs one. As long as he isnt ignoring his own child or you. And if it bothers you this much you need to talk to him about it, or his aunt.
2006-10-15 07:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by bluesgypzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some poeple HATE them. I'm 15, I like the pop rock music they make. I don't think i'm obssesed , I just like their music a lot.
2016-05-22 04:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly have a problem. Does he have as much to do with the new baby? You could be onto something...the boy could be his own son. Get the facts! That donor could be your husband! Sounds fishy to me.
2006-10-15 07:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by blujeanbaby56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably is his own son. Ypu never know.. You have to talk to him about this issue and see what's up. Why does he love that kid so much, when he should be caring fr the baby.o
2006-10-15 07:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel better if you knew for sure if it was his son?
If that's the issue, ask that they be tested. If he rejects the idea, than I might be concerned. Otherwise, you would then know, and hopefully that would resolve your issue. Yes?
2006-10-15 07:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yal , i would wonder too. but why haven't you just ask him about it? seems like if he is put on the spot he should show some indication of something , huh?
2006-10-15 12:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal, but maybe he feels bad for the kid. You should MAKE him talk about it. Say that he NEEDS to talk to you and maybe he'll do it.
2006-10-15 07:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably the little brother he never had.
2006-10-15 07:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋