Marriage & Divorce - 29 September 2006

I have tried everything to get my fiancee to become more vocal during our lovemaking sessions. He just smiles alot and tells me how great it was afterwards. I want to hear it in his voice while we do it. How can I get him to not be so shy and tell me what he is feeling while he is feeling it?

2006-09-29 04:54:13 · 25 answers · asked by goldenlifev 3

Why do husbands sleep with a nother woman,,please be stright up.i forgave my husband and we are doing ok..but he never told me why...please tell me ,,maybe i can help in some way..i love my husband very much. thx

2006-09-29 04:53:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine is "listen to your heart" by DHT/Roxette
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/176681/dht_listen_to_your_heart/

2006-09-29 04:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by in doubt 1

When you have been married for3 years going on4-----
if you wanted to try something different and new in the bedroom what would it be?

2006-09-29 04:47:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and dad split up Aug. something and my dad just got re-marred on the 1st of Sep. I talked to my mom and Her boyfriend has asked her to marry him and she has sed yes. I'm now living with my dad. I was planning on moving out and living with my mom but, when I herd that I changed my mind. I don't know I don't feel like I belong any where. Please help me I don't know what to do.

2006-09-29 04:47:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife works at the bowling alley (5 min walk home) and tonight i fell asleep at 1010 when i was suppose to pick her up at 1100pm. well lately ive only been getting less then 6 hours of sleep, which is not enough for me. when that happens you cant wake me up with the first 2 hours of falling asleep. i set 2 alarms to wake me, it didnt work, my wife called me twice on my cell and twice on our home phone, still didnt wake up. she is absolutely pissed at me now, wont even look at me. this has happened twice before this night. its not like i intentionally did this but she doesnt understand. anyways whats your point of view about this? dont bother saying a smart as* remark i will remove it.

2006-09-29 04:43:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to fast everyone who doesnt have a religous bone n there body that simply means "to clense your mind ,body,& soul" of all that is not good.You have to do it for a certain period of time & see if u can succeed w/o those things that u may be used to or used to doing.Movining on me and my 2month olds dad, well just say that he's put me through a lot of sh*t! while pregnate after & so on.Well he claims he's sorry and all & now he's trying to change to be a better person.Ok I dont knock anyone for trying but Im still deeply hurt by the things that occured between us.So it seems like he's moving to be better but 4got all the pain he just caused. To name a few he threw girls n my face,cursed @ me,called me names,never spent time w/me,was very mean while I was pregnate,which he had never treated me like this.Neway I tried to get over it,be nice,not speak unless about r daughter,but still having flash backs.i decided to do w/o him 4 30days & nites.How do I do it but let h/ c thebaby

2006-09-29 04:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by brighteyesali06 1

If yes, then why its not so important for a boy?

2006-09-29 04:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Billoo 1

Do you believe that there is a relation to this saying, "If your parents were married, then you'll probably get married." "If you were in a single home, then you won't get married cause you don't know how to act properly in a commited relationship like that." My mother and father were not married and I'm a little worried that because my mother wasn't married, that I won't get married either because I don't know how to treat a man the way he wants to be treated because I didn't have that example growing up. Honestly, am I SUPPOSED to cater to my man (in all aspects) and I KNOW he loves me? Is there really anyhting wrong with that?

2006-09-29 04:39:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was seeing this guy. We're both married - to different people. I've changed. I decided to stop seeing him 6 months ago, but he still keeps calling me. Not often - maybe once a week. He say's he just wants to know how I am. I keep telling him that I'm okay and that he does not have to worry about me. Another wierd thing is he keeps asking me out "as a friend" just to have lunch and say he's going to call, but does not call at all. Not that this is a bad thing. It is completely okay for me not for him to call. I just dont know what he wants from me. He says he still likes me and stuff and then when he says he wants to go out, he does not follow through with it. Also, whenever he asks me out I just say yes, but I've stood him up a lot of times and that's what I keep doing. But why does he keep calling me - he knows this is not going anywhere?

2006-09-29 04:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by dazed and confused 1

her disorders are by-polar manic-depressant multiply-personalities abusive-tendicies likley to abuse the children. MAXED the SCALE out at (214). I need details concerning such court cases where mother lost custody

2006-09-29 04:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by ilovejlt&jatjr@sin.JATSR.com 1

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now and we have 2 children together and i love him with all my heart.Is it wrong if I ask him to marry me and how should I ask him?

2006-09-29 04:35:09 · 17 answers · asked by Dee T 2

I was taking to a friend of mine and we came upon this topic. Personally, I find that it is cheating, if you are breaking the rules of your relationship. If you find you have to lie or be untruthful or think your partner wouldn't agree... then it's cheating. However, if you have had the talk or you know there wouldn't be a problem - and therefor no reason to hide it... it's really not cheating. My friend said it is 100%. Anyone want to help us out. Who ever has the least answers for their side (between my friend and I) has to but the other a beer.

But please.... answer honestly. :)

2006-09-29 04:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Willalee 5

She's just being jealeous bacause its my girlfriends, but it ain't like I'm gonna be cheating on her in the delivery room while my girlfriend is giving birth. She was like this with my last baby too, (different girl, and it turned out it wasn't mine after all). Am I right to be mad at her?

2006-09-29 04:29:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 04:24:52 · 53 answers · asked by cymro 1

I just married this hot woman. She is almost a 10. The one thing wrong with her is that sometimes when I tell her to do something, she questions me or sometimes she even refuses. How do I teach her, without getting physical, to do what I tell her to do without questioning my authority over her?

2006-09-29 04:22:12 · 52 answers · asked by Hipster Doofus 2

I just divorced, im 24 yrs old, I have kids, why do I feel like im so ..... damaged??? I think I will never find a good man out here, see im in cali and all the guys I know are......Dumb....will i ever find a good man???

2006-09-29 04:15:42 · 17 answers · asked by Latinlicious r 1

I have known quite a few people, (both friends and acquaintances of mine) that I have noticed this behavior.


Here's my question. Why is it that a smokin' hot man will marry a woman that he is not really interested in and is not physically to?

And then alot of times (yes I know this to be true, at least with my guy friends) the man will cheat on his wife with a hot woman, but claim he still loves his wife?

I think if a man loves a woman he won't cheat on her.... So why do these guys marry a woman that they don't love or respect, if they know from the beginng that they are not attracted to/ compatable with the woman they marry? And then use excuses like "well she's a good mom." or "she's a good cook" or "she let's me stay out all night"

2006-09-29 04:13:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I were at his class reunion weeks ago. Later in the evening, one of the wives of a former classmate of his, completely inebriated, was talking to he and I and all of a sudden leaned towards him and kissed him on the mouth!! I was shocked. She walked away to engage someone else in conversation. My husband did nothing to invite it, but did nothing to stop it. He said he was also stunned. Should this concern me? I have dreams about this happening and it did. I should have stepped in and told her WHOA, but it happened so fast. How do I get this image out of my head?

2006-09-29 04:08:54 · 36 answers · asked by lsah1852 3

Isn't it true that a man that can't support his family on adecent level is a loser. I believe a woman has to work too, but at least a husband should be able to provide for the family if the woman can't work for whatever reason???

2006-09-29 04:08:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My soon to be ex-husband says that he loves me and wants me back. Last night I asked him what he was doing to show me that he wants me back. His response was "because you can come back and suck my d*ck whenever you want". Why would you tell someone you love them and then say this?

2006-09-29 04:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by golden2 1

2006-09-29 04:05:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want be more free when making love with my husband.BUt I am a little bit shy and reserved since I am from consevative culture.

2006-09-29 04:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Baby 2

He is so afraid I will talk to an old boyfriend or friend on the computer. I am very outgoing and friendly. I have friends that are male and female. I have kept in contact with friends from elementary school all the way to college. What is the big deal?
My parents can't believe that they can't write me in private....he reads my emails. If a male friend writes me, then he writes them a nasty reply and it is so embarrassing. Because I know it is an innocent email.....and I have to face this person one day....it even embarrasses my Mom/Dad if it is a friend from high school in my hometown 500 miles away....anyway....if I tell him not to do that..he says it is disrespectful to him that I contact old male friends and how would I feel if he did the same thing with women....he just doesn't trust the other men is what he tells me. What do you think? Do I just dump my male friends? And yes, they are just friends. So don't go there.

2006-09-29 04:03:38 · 47 answers · asked by lucy p 2

hi i work as an architect in london and as i only earn about £2200.00 per month after tax. From that i pay all the bills and the shopping and mortagage. that takes up about £1200 per month. I give her £400 for herself to cover her waxing, hair beauty products etc. I already pay for her petrol insurance and mobile phone. i take £200 for travel & lunch to work for myself and £150 for movies / dinner at weeKend for us. and we save £250.00. She is studying at the moment so she can't work and now she is pregnant to so won't be wroking for a while. She says that what i give her is not enough but i think it should be. we have argued so much over this and i am thinking of taking another job in the eveings / weekends to help ends meet. she also that when she gets het maternoty allowance from the governmentof £108 per month i must still give her full allowance. i was hoping we could save another £100 instead. Am i being selfish or fair ? please advice im at my wits end here.

2006-09-29 03:52:36 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I won’t reveal his religion will only say he’s NOT a Christian. Wife has always clearly told husband from 1st meeting that she has a loving relationship with God without questionable, 1,000+ yr old books, etc. Tho his faith says stay within your religion he thought she wld convert. She has NEVER drank but after 5 yrs of marriage she and a friend join a wine appreciation club. He goes ballistic, says she will “burn in hell” for drinking alcohol. He demands she quit the group and so, she does. She still has wine about once a week but not where he would see/know. He finds out during a religious holiday that lasts for several weeks. They have custody of his 5 kids from his prior marriage and she’s a housewife. He tells her that he can no never give her money / let her use the car for his kids or herself b/c she “might buy wine and that’s against my religion”. She’s like “Huh?” Please tell who is being dogged in this situation, why and what should the dogged party do?

2006-09-29 03:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Book Diva 2

2006-09-29 03:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by olayak 3

I started seeing this guy that lives in my neighborhood. He had seperated from his x wife for about 3 mnths so I felt it was safe to at least go out. He ended up going back out with her.He still lives here in the apt complex. He told me he was confused and that he felt guilty. I told him off because he hurt my feelings and he made all these promises that he didn't keep.So be it. I have learned my lesson. He told me to never call him again. I dont. I stopped! I refuse to beg someone or look stupid. I have to drive by his flat on the way out. His door is visible clearly from the road in front. When I am driving around the curve to leave his door is actually facing me. He has a mini camera set up on his door to see whos coming up. I drove by the other day going out & he stepped out of his door and then went back in real quick & shut the door. How dumb. I havent spoke to him in 2wks what is he doing? If I was stalking him or still calling I would get it but what is he trying to prove?

2006-09-29 03:47:42 · 22 answers · asked by princess 1

i am separated from my husband i have a new boyfriend but he can't accept that my husband and i are on good terms for the childrens sake. when i have my kids around my boyfriend behaves oddly. the other day he said "when i look at your kids i don't see you i see him. " and "why do you have to be friends with him? i don't like sharing. i feel like i am sharing you with him." i am not friends with him. when i call my ex husband. it's at the kids bed time to say good night to them. and yes sometimes the ex and i will talk for ten minutes about the kids and work. what do you think i should do? i don't want to leave my new man but if he can't like my children.......you see my problem. advice please
thanks zoey

2006-09-29 03:44:09 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ve been married for six years and sex is not what it was my first years of marriage. I dont thik its my wife, could it be me?

2006-09-29 03:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by NIETOR 1