Marriage & Divorce - 29 September 2006

My wife, who is my BEST friend, went off sex some years ago. I am getting desperate - I'm pretty fit, and although I have had opportunities, have not been unfaithful, However, I need "it" badly. She has intimated that if I went with another woman she would object strongly: I think this is unfair. Help?

2006-09-29 13:38:53 · 48 answers · asked by prospero 2

I don't care who you are, if you have a wife, there is something she does that just stands on your nerves to no end. When you bring it to their attention, they act like they don't know what you are talking about. What's up with this? Every married man out there has this problem, so what is your's?

2006-09-29 13:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently seperated and having trouble moving on. He seems to find no problem with it. I still have an emotional attachment plus our 4 kids?? do you ever move on and get over a broken heart???

2006-09-29 13:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by djc 1

dont they realize that it just adds insult to injury or is that their intent well in any case I long ago figured out my wife has been cheating and the funny thing is that the jokes on her .lol I really cant believe she actually thought I was stupid .
So when do I let her off the hook or do I continue to enjoy the guilty sex for since she started her affair it has improved and is why I 'm so reluctant for the inevatable but I want her to know that I'm not a fool I just don't care for her or her antics and I'm pretty glad she thinks she is hiding somthing from me and at the same time I want to tell her I know so I can get on with my life and find someone who will love me for me for I dont think I'm all that bad .

2006-09-29 13:21:58 · 17 answers · asked by matthew_yelle 2

My husband & I are seperated. His family doesn't approve of me & want him married to a nice girl from his country. Most of our fights have been over his brothers. Well, he moved out recently & we both have agreed on a divorce, so why does he keep going back & forth. One day he will treat me like he hates me & can't wait for the divorce, then the next he'll call me on the pretense of seeing our daughter, After he comes over he starts telling me that he loves me & doesn't want a divorce. That he wants me to wait for him to get his issues dealt with. Then when he feels better, we can work things out. Then a few hours later or even the next day he's back to insulting me & telling me how he cant stand me & cant wait for me to be out of his life & F the day he ever met me..... This is driving me crazy. If he doesn't want me, why won't he let me get over him & just leave me alone?

2006-09-29 13:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Amy 3

and go visit him...BUT there is no judgment when you put one of your parents in a home....believe me you were unable to care for him at home...so why the judgment....???? i do not think it is FAIR??? do you???

2006-09-29 13:20:09 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4

My wife and I have been separated for about four months for a variety of reasons. Until about three weeks ago, it was pretty amicable (inclduding several liasons since I moved out).

Question: who has reconciled when they were physically separated and how did that happen? Again, we are at four months and recently hit the "screw you" stage as we work through some of the anger. Should I just give up?

2006-09-29 13:19:44 · 4 answers · asked by markoh4fun 1

MOst of married couple go for sexual enjoyment, suppose wife donot want sex and you are crying for sex and then whe allows herself to go into sex , but she is not enjoing the sex as she is not in mood.. can this be called rape?? But she love her husband too much and she have allowed him only due to love... and husband too love her ... but she dont want sex .....is it rape....???

2006-09-29 13:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by Sushil K 2

2006-09-29 13:07:21 · 5 answers · asked by pyt_tlc 3

well its simple tell me any pills which can make me turn on for him

2006-09-29 13:02:47 · 16 answers · asked by sexyme4ubaby 1

2006-09-29 12:58:04 · 15 answers · asked by LOVE ONE 1

should child support include co-payments from doctors and payment for braces?

2006-09-29 12:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by ocairde 2

I am a male "39" my wife is "47" and in Mid Menopause. We have only been married a short time. She is very withdrawn and non conversational about our relationship. She does not seem to be the woman I married. I would like to find a Postmenopausal female to chat with about it. But I would have to get to know the person as a friend before I could value any insight.

2006-09-29 12:13:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it their small fingers, attention to detail or their compulsive nature?

2006-09-29 12:12:10 · 23 answers · asked by Luxifer 3

At what point in time do you call it quits? When do you decide that you will never be together again? What is the final straw? I think my marriage is over. We are starting to fight if we're together more than an hour. Is now the time to leave or should I see if it gets better?

2006-09-29 12:11:32 · 40 answers · asked by liberty5499 2

2006-09-29 12:10:56 · 13 answers · asked by silver m 1

that annoys the heck out of you about your husband/wife?

I hate on Saturdays that my husband thinks you have to hit the shower at 8:00 a.m. at the crack of day. Me, I like to be in my lounge clothes until I go out somewhere, so I am freshly showered.

2006-09-29 12:07:31 · 14 answers · asked by smiles_o 1

I am married to my wonderful husband for one year. The other day he was telling me that a friend of his recommended him to a website where he can take his GED at home. So he is telling me about the proposal and all of a sudden he says "oh I will ask my sister to take it online for me". I naturally get upset because he prefers his sister over me to take an online GED course. I have always supported him in all his decisions. Should I support him in this one?

2006-09-29 12:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by Gucci S 3

no hidden details of question........thats what I really do

2006-09-29 11:57:18 · 39 answers · asked by Hank 2

an annulment? most of the time i know people will say..."oh it just didn't work out...or "It didn't work out how i expected it to." or whatever you give to acq./friends...that you are not really planning to know anyway...Should you just wait three months or what???Before you give him a real reason....

2006-09-29 11:56:05 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4

He accidently left his part of the net open (yes he has a PW for it and NO I don't know it) and left our house. Of course I decided to snoop. I do not like what I found. I found an e-mail he had sent through craigs list to some local woman saying "I am for real and love to play".. I also found that he is a member of this website called "adultfriendfinder.com" in which he PAYS to be a member. I saw the profiles he looked at and was disgusted. I made my own name so I could make sure he really was a member and I confirmed it and found him on there. He has been using this site for atleast the last two days, maybe more? I don't really know. Anyways I am very upset, I am 9 months pregnant, due on sunday the 1st and my husband is messing around? Or is he? I don't know what to do? Any advice?

2006-09-29 11:42:04 · 18 answers · asked by Lolli 2

2006-09-29 11:42:01 · 21 answers · asked by tlmesmthggd 1

We have been married for a little over a year. This is my secvond marriage and we both have children from other people. I am faithful and yet she always seems to doubt me. I don't know what to do. I dont go out with friends, I dont drink or go to bars. I am home with the family every night and on weekends I run my kids around to their games and activities. My wife is younger than me and she is hot. She is the last person you would think to be jealous. What can I do>

2006-09-29 11:41:37 · 21 answers · asked by billybath 1

How do I go about doing it paper work so on....

2006-09-29 11:38:46 · 2 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

1) Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give, which is everything.

2) Love builds bridges where there are none!

2006-09-29 11:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

Like in birds? I don't even like birds. If fact I hate birds. Unless I'm eating them. Or does she mean like in eating? Of course my wife swallows. Where else would all that food and liquid go? Out her ears? Maybe, but I think I would have noticed. What's wrong with her. And she winked when she said it. So what am I to think?

2006-09-29 11:26:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi we have been marr for 2 years with 3 kids, from the start she has had problems with trust and love, so i have been understanding,and try to helpfull, i can never do any right in her eyes?!!shoul i stay or should i go? i want to stay! but it hurts me emontionaly.and she always wants us too fight in front our children. please help?

2006-09-29 11:19:08 · 12 answers · asked by brentt a 1

hi we have been marr for 2 years with 3 kids, from she has had problems with trust and love, so i have been understanding,and try to helpfull, i can never do any right in her eyes?!!shoul i stay or should i go? i want to stay! but it hurts me emontionaly.and she always wants us too fight in front our children. please help?

2006-09-29 11:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by brentt a 1

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2.

I am 24, he is 26.

We went to college, bought a house, have careers and have traveled all over.

We are homebodies, love to spend time together and visit our family.

Our relationship is very stable and we are ready to start a family.

When friends of mine find out about our plans to have a baby soon then say really discouraging things.

They will say they love their children, but it strained their relationship and the changes a child causes brings a lot of tension.

They say to cherish all the time I can spend with my husband without children.

These friends were not married before getting pregnant, and were together for only 1-2 years when they had their child.

Why does it seem like my friends think having children are bad?

Why do they discourage us from bringing a child into a happy and stable marriage?!

2006-09-29 11:15:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most all the answers I got about my cheating wife was "forgive her" Sorry, but I just can't.

2006-09-29 11:15:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous