Marriage & Divorce - 29 September 2006

My husband is getting on my nerves about getting a job. I recently got laid off and while looking for work I realized something. Why doesn't he just find a job that pays more? He has an opportunity to go overseas and make 80,000 a year tax free and I think he should take it to support us. What do you think?

2006-09-29 08:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by Elizabeth W 1

ok this is what i've noticed...the married women who say that their marriage are perfect, their husbands are mostly cheating on them...or on yahoo answers when they ask is it true that your marriae is the happiest or how did it last so long, it's mostly the women who answers! men and women see things so differently! this woman 2 weeks ago told me that she has never been so happy, i saw he today, well the day b4 yesterday her hubby left her for another woman! why are some of us so blind? have you guys noticed that by any chance??

2006-09-29 08:20:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

before they let her out?
I have some ladies in mind, but the usual getting drunk & banging each other is getting old.
Any ideas?

2006-09-29 08:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is your favorite thing about your spouse and the thing u hate most? Whats the most irritating thing they do? My favorite thing is my hubby is like 6 ft 2 and weighs 200 lbs- big man and works hard for a living. It amazes me how someone so big and strong can bend steel with his hands yet feel like satin on my skin SO his gentleness is my most favorite. Worse? Hmmmmm he snores like a buzz saw! Irritating? EWWWWWWW when he takes a hot bath- he like brushes his teeth while he is in the tub and ummm spits in the water? NASTY! Then he wants me to join him? NOT! lol

2006-09-29 08:13:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband did something that he knew was going to cause me to be upset.Without going into detail he's done this in the past to me he'll make a decision without consulting with me first.And this time he really caught me off guard and I reacted in a way that wasn't lady-like.To be blunt I cursed at him and he didn't get upset right away.The following day he brought it to my attention and of course we started to argue about it.In the midst of the argument he told me that if I ever cursed at him again he was going to punch me.Well this isn't the first time he's threatened to hit me and he can't understand why I would be a little bit bothered by the fact.That someone who professes to love you would actually afflict harm on you.That just doesn't sit well with me it doesn't matter how angry we both might make each other.It should never come down to violence.Not to mention I did apologize to him for cursing at him.Anyway I would love to know how would you feel if you were in my shoes?

2006-09-29 08:13:58 · 12 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1

My husband an I have been together for 4 years but only married 14 months. The other day he said he was no longer in love with me but still loved me. Of course i'm devistated because he is the love of my life and i don't understand all this. First off we've fought a lot lately because he spends most of his time on the computer. but his reasoning is because he's unhappy with the fact that we had to move back into my parents house to save money because his job was ending. we agreed to stay there and save up to relocate. now that we have the money he says he's not in love with me. What can I do to show him every relationship has ruts and thats what this is. up until last week he sent me regular text messages saying he loved and adored me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. That is how i still feel. needledd to say he moved out and wants to try a trial separation, to see if his feelings retrun. Please help me!!!!!!!! i want my husband the love of my life back.

2006-09-29 08:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs. Sunshine 1

small diamond tension ting

2006-09-29 08:11:20 · 5 answers · asked by chris t 1

for the six months my wife never emailed me, hardly talked on the phone with me when I called. I started spending time with a female on my base. we ended up getting to really know each other and I found that I am hopelessly in love with her. I'm almost to the point where I get a break and my wife all of a sudden starts making constant communication and is all excited I'm coming home... but I don't feel the same. I feel like I wanna start something with my new friend who hasn't stopped showing interest since we met. what should I do?

2006-09-29 08:07:58 · 22 answers · asked by T soldier 1

I'm not saying stay with him if he cheats all the time; I'm saying if it's an one time occurance, and he is perfect in every area. Now if it continues to happen, then yeah run out the door pack up and move and file for your divorce. so many people here say to leave if the man cheats 1 time, I don't think that is the best thing to do in all situations. Now once again for the relationship that it constantly happens in ,by all means move on.

2006-09-29 08:03:48 · 12 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 4 years (January 7th), I am now 19, and he is 21. I moved in with him the day after i graduated from highschool, which was 4 months ago, and then we got our own place together. I would like to take it to the next step, which is being engaged. We are very happy, we do not fight, we both have jobs, and cars. We love both of our families, and we have great friends. I ask him about getting married, and he said if we had the money we would. So would that mean that he is ready? He has told his parents that i am the one. And my parents are very smitten with him. My mom would really like some grandchildern. But i'm wondering if i'm thinking that i want to be engaged because, my cousin, who is 18, is engaged, and my bestfriend who is 18, is engaged, and is having a baby, and i want to be included. I don't know. I know that i love him, and i want to be with him forever. So do you think we should take it to the next step?

2006-09-29 08:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by erkie_gurl 2

2006-09-29 07:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

She asked me to stop buying beer, to save money. When I found that she was still buying $65 make-up items, she said she was trying to make herself attractive for me.

I told her "that's what the beer was for"......I don't think she's coming back.

2006-09-29 07:53:58 · 25 answers · asked by Sheik Yerbouti 4

My Husband and I have a seperation agreement that was noterzied in the State of Illinois , then he gave me heck about bringin back my girls after his month was over and so i went to file the seperation agreement in court and his attorney tried to dismiss it and Now i'm recieveing court doc's on child custody
and Divorce papers in Virginia. I have No Money for any Attorneys and I'm at my Wit's Ends. Any Suggestions?. Thanks Kindly

2006-09-29 07:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by tyedyebutterfly 1

2006-09-29 07:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's impossible to understand women.

2006-09-29 07:47:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Gambler; which is worse. So many men "only" cheat for more sex and great in every other area. Why do so many people say leave? I would rather deal with a man cheating on me once than a fist upside my head or a drug addict and take it out on my kids. gambler putting us in the poor house; a lazy *ss that don't want a job.. Which is worse? So if all he did was cheat and perfect every where else, why should the wife leave...for what....is there more out here? In my opinion, a person that did none of the above would be a "perfect person". Why not take the cheating husband and give him sex all day as much as you can? It's working for me. At times he have to say no LOL and it's funny because women should be the ones doing most of the cheating, we can go forever!!

2006-09-29 07:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

i am 28 and my hubby is 25. we are both working parents. we have 11 yr boy and a 4 yr girl. i work noc shift (11pm to 7am) doing caregiving. hubby is mang. in parts at ford dealership he's hours are 730am to 6pm. during the week i take my kids to school and pre-school. my oldest is in football and my lil one is in soccer. gamon the weekend. so during the day i am always running around. i hardly sleep. when i work i only get about 4 hrs of sleep during my work week. when i am off we go to bed around 9 pm but i go straight to bed. he always have to start the mood. 90% of the time i am not and i don't want to bother w/. i really hate feeling this way. i know if i really want to to my hours i can but i refuse to do so b/c i was paying about 400 in daycare a month, plus i had 2 bad issues from other placies. so i don't send them to daycare anymore. atleast w/ this one of us are home w/ the kids at all times.

2006-09-29 07:43:35 · 4 answers · asked by gabriella9902 3

2006-09-29 07:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 9 yrs anniversary is coming up this weekend.. what do i get my wonderful wife .. and i do i get her to try something new in bed to celebrate.. like a bj or anal??? if she don't want to its alright but i just think we should do something different to spice things up after 9 yrs of the same thing.. any ideas

2006-09-29 07:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by astrodog 1

2006-09-29 07:32:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 07:27:55 · 13 answers · asked by twitch 2

A couple nights in a row my husband got a phone call from his one guy friend. He told me that he's friend was coming home from a lowes and that his friend needed help getting things into his house. He did the same thing the next day after this happened. When his friend called my husband used short answers like ok sounds good.Then he left for 15-20 minutes. When he got home he looked depressed and kept hugging me and talking real nice. He is NOT an Affectionate person at all any other time. Before he left the second night he took a shower and when he came home his clothes smelled like snuff. He leaves for about 15-20 minutes. Could he be using drugs or cheating?

2006-09-29 07:26:07 · 27 answers · asked by oneredhotmama09 1

What are the documents required?
(a) if the couple are unmarried
(b) if they are remarrying
Where we can do it?
How much expense?

2006-09-29 07:23:03 · 1 answers · asked by pasug 2

married man, cheats says he does not love his wife,,, but he does not want to leave and says his wife will turn his kids against him,,, and he cant but them through that,,, but surely she deserves to be loved trully any answers please.

2006-09-29 07:22:46 · 50 answers · asked by KAT M 1

Of the opposite sex? What are your viewpoints on this? And your experiences?

2006-09-29 07:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by goodbye♥ 2

2006-09-29 07:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie F 1

2006-09-29 07:13:20 · 22 answers · asked by lovekissdale 1

My husband has some doctor bills that he got after we were married. He did not pay them and now they were sent to a collection agency. The bills were always in his name, but now they are in my name.

2006-09-29 07:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my wife, but one day we had a fight, and out of anger i exchange # with a girl i saw, i had no intest in her, but i was mad, i told her i had an old lady, she asked if she could call, and say hi. we kept in touch it wasn't like we talked alot.my wife answered my phone one day, and it was her, but a that point had told her too stop calling, i never touched her in any kind of way. she told my wife she has known me for 3 years, so she thinks i've been invovled with her as affair, i tried explain we may had met than, but
we would talk every once, and a while. I love my wife, and only my wife, i would have never cheat on her, but she say i did. the girl which i don't talk to any more. told her we never had sex, she did tell her some lies, but i swear to god i never wanted to lose my
family, what can i do to make her c, she is the only woman i want? i know i ****** up, but i never touched her help please
a crying man

2006-09-29 07:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know a lot of couples put a towel down. But I'm wondering who does what and when - you know, the details. Thanks.

2006-09-29 07:10:55 · 11 answers · asked by pamgissa 3