i am 28 and my hubby is 25. we are both working parents. we have 11 yr boy and a 4 yr girl. i work noc shift (11pm to 7am) doing caregiving. hubby is mang. in parts at ford dealership he's hours are 730am to 6pm. during the week i take my kids to school and pre-school. my oldest is in football and my lil one is in soccer. gamon the weekend. so during the day i am always running around. i hardly sleep. when i work i only get about 4 hrs of sleep during my work week. when i am off we go to bed around 9 pm but i go straight to bed. he always have to start the mood. 90% of the time i am not and i don't want to bother w/. i really hate feeling this way. i know if i really want to to my hours i can but i refuse to do so b/c i was paying about 400 in daycare a month, plus i had 2 bad issues from other placies. so i don't send them to daycare anymore. atleast w/ this one of us are home w/ the kids at all times.
2006-09-29 07:43:35 · 4 answers · asked by gabriella9902 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Create a date night for only the two of you, take a weekend vacation every once and awhile, find new things or hobbies to participate in. You could find a way to "make" time if you really need it.
2006-09-29 07:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta MAKE TIME to start loving your man again. If you don't, it's likely someone else will. It happened to me! After I found out, I forgave him. And, I lost 50 lbs, got my libido back in order, and devoted more time to my marriage. Ask your hubby for help with housework, shuttling kids etc, and tell him why you want the help-so you two have more time to get busy!! He's likely to be happy to assist you. Don't wait on this, girlfriend, or it may just be too late.
2006-09-29 07:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Legs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok remember you can say more with your mouth then just words and it does not take that long either anytime you can find to shut the two of you in your room for ten minutes will really spice things up !!!
2006-09-29 07:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by f912guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be a stay-at-home wife/mom?
2006-09-29 07:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋