Marriage & Divorce - 29 September 2006

My wife is always complaing about how I wash the dishes. "oh, you missed a spot" or "they still feel greasy" . Or my favorite "you didn't wash the bottom". Why should I wash the bottom?!! I eat off the top. And, as I explained to her, to no avail, if the dishes were clean enough to stop eating off of, why aren't they clean enough to start? Are women just anal about this?

2006-09-29 07:03:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 07:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by suew616 1

2006-09-29 06:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-29 06:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by kenny 1

I'm trying to get him to wash the dishes because he is the one who uses them. He is a stay-at-home dad and I work full time outside of the home. I wash the dishes every night and always come home to a sink full of dishes. I like to spend time with the baby until she goes to sleep, and then I have to wash the dishes, wash the bottles and do my homework (I am also a half-time student) and usually don't get to sleep until 2 AM. I was just wondering if there are any men out there who wash their own dishes.

2006-09-29 06:42:22 · 47 answers · asked by Debbie B 1

okay. i was wondering because i'm getting my marriage lisence from a different county of where we wanted to get married. would that make a difference. ??? do we have to get married in the county where we get the marriage lisence from? please help.

2006-09-29 06:39:10 · 12 answers · asked by short_baby012 1

You hear your spouse bragging about something they did sexually before you met them that have refused to do with you.

2006-09-29 06:23:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

general rule that they dont talk about anything that happened whether it be who had sex with a stripper or anything the groom did.

i would take this stuff to my grave rather than be a rat. how about other guys?

2006-09-29 06:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by mark s 1

2006-09-29 06:19:52 · 27 answers · asked by kenny 1

Okay, I have never been married and I am 34. I am a hopeless romantic and I'm waiting for THE ONE! I don't want to get divorced! Okay, my question is, do you or did you marry for true love or was it more or less convenient or the smart thing to do? Or were you guys best friends? Please be honest!!! And does money make a difference? AHHH!!!

2006-09-29 06:15:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am friends with a guy who treats me like his girl. But won't committ. He is faithful to me and has been for 3 years. He says you don't have to have title in order to be in a relationship. We spend all of our time together. I want a committment he wants a friend. What should I do.

2006-09-29 06:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by t j 2

MY PARENTS DONT KNOW YET! should i tell mom and dad or should i wait untill my sister tells them

2006-09-29 06:12:15 · 19 answers · asked by island girl 1

a man has left his home with wife and 4 kids. she cannot afford to buy him out. can he insist to stay on the mortgage until youngest turns 18 and then sell and get half??

2006-09-29 06:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by natasha3902 1

You are married and being a good spouse, then you find out that in your bedroom you are getting the that Miss/Mr I did that before many times has become Miss/Mr That was before I got married.

2006-09-29 06:10:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not trying to be perverted or anything but hubby wants me to start talking dirty to him and i honestly dont know how i freeze up and i have no clue where to begin to start talking dirty.Can someone give me some pointers or what can i do.Hes pretty pissed cause i wont do this.

2006-09-29 06:08:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the reason behind losing sexual interest in your spouse
when theirs no one else involved?
Is it loss of love?
Pain and damage that's left scares?
Thanks for your input!!

2006-09-29 06:06:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends husband of 6 yrs got caught driving in a car with a prositute. at 3 a.m. he was high on drugs and drunk. he swore nothing happend with the girl, that she was showing him were to get drugs. he told his wife that he will go get tested for STD's and everything else. he actually made an appointment. so my question do you think she should try to work things out with him or forget about it? He also said that he is gonna get help for his addiction problems too. He has been a real jerk verbal abuse to her bad through out their relationship. They have had alot of problems, he has been in and out of jail throught their marriage.

2006-09-29 06:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by shorte716 6

I have been married for four years we have a two year old, My husband works a full time job and I work a part time job. I care for my son all day and then work at night. My husband complains that he doesn't get to relax after work because he has to care for our son while I am working. He always complains about being stressed. I work,Take care of our child,clean, cook ,run errands etc and he is stressed. Now am I being unreasonable to chastise him? Is there women in the same situation who feel they don't get the respect they deserve.

2006-09-29 06:03:47 · 16 answers · asked by arizonabrat 3

2006-09-29 05:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by cucadolphin 1

I've been working alot latley and I haven't been paying much attention to her latley just need some ideas how to let her know I haven't forgot about her.

2006-09-29 05:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by chuck 1

long story short. I return a call on my husband cell phone. it was a woman, i ask him who the number belong to,. he said a girl he meet a the gas station 2weeks ago, however he didn;t know i kept the number and talked to her the next day, she said they were just friends that meet over a year ago, but they are just friends, that talk on the phone, they never had sex. she didn't know he was married, but knew we lived togather, and had been togather along time. so i told him what she had to say, and ask y he lied, his answer was i didn't want u to think nothing. she was just someone he talked to . can i believe them? I even went to her house, she still swear they were just friends. She said they exchange b-day cards. she had a lot to say that he had told her, but it was all lies, i wasn't the best wife in the world, it's this something i should be mad about and stay, or do i get da hell on?

2006-09-29 05:44:34 · 7 answers · asked by misunderstood 1

my wife is still the hotest thing going after 20 years of marriage....but every time i tell her anything along those lines she gets very uncomfortable and downplays it all.....she never dresses hot anymore and thinks getting dressed up and looking good it too much of a drag....question is.....why do some woman have a hard time accepting praise regarding their looks.....i think it's an internal issue with self love.....is it possible they're forgetting the first rule of relationships......you can't love someone else till you love your self.......i'm baffled.......

2006-09-29 05:37:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

So many of you just answered why you cheat and I'm sorry I'm not buying it. You wanna be Tarzan? So be it...you think she's not getting just as bored with your tired old **** every night? You think your showing her RESPECT by going out and giving all your good stuff to someone else? Please, mother of your kids bullshit is just an excuse...she won't mind if you treat her like Jane once in a while...she might even like it. So stop making yourself sound like your doing her a favor by wanting exciting sex with someone else, thats not respect thats crap.

2006-09-29 05:36:03 · 30 answers · asked by sasha 4

2006-09-29 05:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by fedorff 1

I have been with my forever fiance for 4 and a half years. I have 1 child I was pregnant with when we got together and brought her into the relationship (almost 3), one we had together (20 months) and I am 16 weeks pregnant with #3. Recently we've had many discussions about "us" but he always turns the "us" conversation into a "me" conversation. He thinks our issues is directly related to me. He says I'm not much at all the same person he got together with 4 years ago. He would like me to be more of a person and says I am not a whole person and everything about me is "unresolved." He says I have no fight left in me anymore, which is true because after being with him this long I've realized that nothing I do, say, feel is good enough for him. I'm a quiet and reserved person. He is the opposite. I don't bother talking to him much anymore because he says our conversations are one-sided, him doing all of the talking. True, because I don't want to enter into a confrontation.

2006-09-29 05:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by october g 3

Ladies, you have shown men that in many cases, you would rather be told what you wish to hear then you would to be told the truth. Face it. Many times you will know that a man is lying to you yet you will give into him. Yet if he simply told you the truth, you would not give in and you would dislike him. So much for being honest with you as many of you say you want. Well, we arent stupid either and we have learned from you. It is my beleif that many times a woman would rather be lied to knowingly then she would to be told the truth. That way when the guy doesnt call or come back around or they break up, the woman gets to play the victim rather then admitting to herself or anyone else that she was a willing party to the events and one who knew what the deal was. A woman may want a man as badly as she wants him, yet she doesnt want to have to admit she simply wanted him physically and made the choice to have him absent a relationship.

2006-09-29 05:19:45 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3

me and my husband have been experincing in web cam sex, i have no problem when others are watching us, but when we my husband wants to watch other girls while were having sex i tend to get jealouse and end up saying something that i usually regret . is this wrong of me?

2006-09-29 05:15:33 · 20 answers · asked by shine 2

do u think if their confronted . will they tell the wife the truth

2006-09-29 05:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by misunderstood 1

And what and/or how did you feel about it?

2006-09-29 05:13:30 · 20 answers · asked by J.Z. 3

came to the realization that what i was doing was very wrong and getting beat o f f by another woman is wrong. my wife has no idea about any of this. would it be bad if i just made the decision to stop doing this and just pretend it never happened and just repent of my old ways? i cant see any benefit whatsoever in telling this to her.

2006-09-29 05:08:04 · 17 answers · asked by mark s 1