I've been working alot latley and I haven't been paying much attention to her latley just need some ideas how to let her know I haven't forgot about her.
2006-09-29 05:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by chuck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's the little things that count. Tell her she's beautiful. Buy her small MEANINGFUL gifts just because. Make her feel like you mean it when you kiss her, not like you're just doing it out of habit. There's a country song called "Buy Me a Rose". Listen to it. That's what every girl wants.
2006-09-29 05:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by newmom06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop working so much and spend time with her I think that's the most important part. I gave up work related things and advancement to have more time with my wife and son.
Rethink why your working so hard? Maybe your aren't happy with your home life is you spend so much time at work.
Beyond that a while back I started buying flowers for no reason other than i loved her. I started helping out a lot more with the house work. Went shopping with her and helped her picked out clothes, this I must say worked wonders with my wife. Cook a nice meal and creat a romantic setting. Do the dishes.
I could go on and on but the real trick here is to find a balance in your life where you won't need to be asking these questions.
Oh yeah of course complement her on more than just her looks.
2006-09-29 13:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure all she needs is some quality time with her. How about planning a surprise mini-vacation? If this is not possible, just book a room at a nearby hotel for one night. You can even pack an overnight bag for her and have it sent to the hotel so it's there when she arrives. When you come home on Friday night, tell her she needs to go somewhere with you, but don't tell her where. She'll have a wonderful surprise when she finds out you booked a romantic night for 2 at a hotel. Try to pick one with pay movies, room service, etc. or at least a nice restaurant inside the hotel. It's only for one night so it won't even cost that much.
2006-09-29 12:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
had the same problem recently.
IN everything you do, every minute of the day put her first in your mind. If your driving home and you see wild flowers,PICK SOME.
when you go to the store think about her, and when you pass by the nuts or tootsy rolls or what ever! think to your self, oh she likes those. Get them. Its not so much about doing the big productions.
It's about your mind set. help out around the house just because you love her. make breakfast.think to yourself what can I do today to make her day alitlle happier. make that way of thinking second nature. Maybe that will help.
2006-09-29 13:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by robert p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about showing her some special attention and telling her just how much you've been thinking of her. Let her decide what kind of special treat she would like for the both of you to share to make up for the lack of quality time.
I'm sure she knows how lucky she is just to have you remember that she needs your attention too.
2006-09-29 12:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by midlifemommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a night to take her out to a nice restaurant. Dress up, buy her a corsage, order a bottle of wine. Afterwards go for a stroll. Tell her how beautiful she looks and how much you wish you could do this all the time.
2006-09-29 13:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her little love notes every time you leave. Try to call a little more often. Bring her a single rose every morning. Start to make love to her while she's still asleep (its a wonderful way to wake up) if you have that opportunity. And last but not least.........leave your GOLD card so she can do some major shopping to make herself feel occupied and happy. Good luck to you, hats off to all your hard work!
2006-09-29 13:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expensive - book a vacation at the Alamanda Resort on St. Martin between November and April.
Inexpensive - Book a nice dinner together at a cozy resturant nearby and tell her you love her.
2006-09-29 12:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise by telling her you have to work late and come home early with take out and a gift (homemade is the best - I make up coupons of to do 4 you's - 15 min body massage, movie night, etc) In my opinion, as long as it comes from the heart, she will know you are struggling with choosing between your family and your work and hopefully she will help you by not nagging.
I find communicating feelings will always work on me.
2006-09-29 13:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Just4kicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuddle without expectation of sex (unless she wants it) and tell her you love her so much.
Take her out to dinner (if you have kids, do the babysitting arranging yourself)
Send her flowers with a special note (not just a generic one)
But most of all, remember that nothing can replace human contact and a face to face "I love you."
2006-09-29 12:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by ladyscott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋