Ladies, you have shown men that in many cases, you would rather be told what you wish to hear then you would to be told the truth. Face it. Many times you will know that a man is lying to you yet you will give into him. Yet if he simply told you the truth, you would not give in and you would dislike him. So much for being honest with you as many of you say you want. Well, we arent stupid either and we have learned from you. It is my beleif that many times a woman would rather be lied to knowingly then she would to be told the truth. That way when the guy doesnt call or come back around or they break up, the woman gets to play the victim rather then admitting to herself or anyone else that she was a willing party to the events and one who knew what the deal was. A woman may want a man as badly as she wants him, yet she doesnt want to have to admit she simply wanted him physically and made the choice to have him absent a relationship.
2006-09-29 05:19:45 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. JW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
disagreed
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2006-09-29 05:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Justin's Wife of 10 Years!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is true of allot of woman. But I also think that woman are starting to have equal opportunity sex, get some when they need some too. Another words, I don't think woman feel as guilty or dirty for getting a little something for herself every once in a while. As long as she is being careful and selective she has the same moral rights as a man. Take the show "sex and the city" There are 4 woman living there lives doing what they want to do, without the guilt. I think more and more woman are freeing themselves of the idea that only men should be allowed the freedom to give and receive sex freely.Are men considered sluts..no, so why should we be..Your right though many woman love to play the victim roll, get over it ladies..first we all know better than to believe everything someone tells us.Man or woman..So, if woman are having sex with the men that are telling them everything that they want to hear...then they are just trying to play dumb and use that as an excuse.
2006-09-29 05:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by skipper 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Disagree. I would rather someone say they only want a one nighter, and we could agree on that, or move on. The times when we'd rather be lied to is when we have gained a few pounds and we ask you if you've noticed. The answer should always be no, whether you have or not. However, if I'm looking for a relationship, I don't want to be lied to. I'm not looking for a relationship so that I can be dumped and play the victim. I am looking for a relationship for love and companionship. There are women who are also looking for a no strings attached kind of night, find them and stop lying to the women who are looking for something real!
2006-09-29 05:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I dated her! Thank God they aren't all like that. I think some women do want the truth, can handle the truth and are willing to work through even the ugly truth with you- but maybe I am being a hypocrite, because I know in my 17 years of marriage I have lied to my wife because it was easier than dealing with the fall out of telling the truth. So maybe it is a two way street. As men, we lie to avoid the conflict, even when we are confident it can be worked through eventually- sometimes its easier just to say, Yeah, I mailed the phone bill, and then drop it in the mail box at work the next day then have to listen to the grief for not mailing it in the first place.
2006-09-29 05:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't totally agree with you,you might think because i am a woman :P.OK so you said we rather be lied than told the truth,maybe its true but not always.Now imagine the next scenario but in your case,say you have this girl your crazy about but for somewhat reason she does not fully respond to your actions.Every time you make love,honey was that good? She will always say yes,even though in her mind she was thinking about doing her hair for ex.And men would rather be lied in certain situations,like the one above instead of knowing the truth.And it happens the same with the"if she doesn't call anymore",and next day you get to see her out with somebody.Then who plays the victim? you guys.I can imagine the next dialog between buddies,"stupid cold hearted b...ch she dumped me just like that,i was good to her,i never cheated on her,why did she do it" ....I am not trying to defend women or men here ,just making a point.You guys are the same as we are,we all are humans and is hard for us to accept the errors that we do in our daily life..
2006-09-29 05:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by irreal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mr. JW,
Wow !!! that is really some philosophy of woman you have ! . Its sounds like you were left to think inside your head--- alone--- without any adult supervision. You should really type up your comments and try to get them published. Here's what you don't want to hear...the truth..you sound like an idiot,categorizing all women....ladies heres what I think--- blah, blah, blah Your beliefs are just that: YOUR BELIEFS !!! based on your limited experience. Sound to me like you're one of those doofus guys who dates or tries to date the same woman over & over again. Her name may be different, she may look different than the last lady who gave you a chance but she's the same type. If you want someone with character, intelligence and a brain your'e going to have to invest in your own education. Your thoughts, ideas, philosophy of women sounds rather ignorant. You have posted the looser question of the day!
2006-09-29 05:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Again i find another one of your wild off the wall questions. To answer the question i beleive that the truth is better than a lie. Your questions are to deep and you should see if you can go into a chat room with lots of other deep people like you and hash out the issue's you have problems with.
2006-10-01 03:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I truly have also examine that the vast majority of Muslims agree that fundamentalists communities (like Al-Qaeda) are misinterpreting the Quran. " ...and performance the vast majority of Muslim committed their existence's (actually) to following Islam. Or have they left Muslim international locations in search for of the greenback?
2016-12-04 00:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by crompton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your having some problems!! First of all women came from a man so therefor we learned the tricks of the trade from you. If you dish it out we will ship it right back!! Plus we wouldn't feel like victims if you didn't make us feel that way. Try loving a women instead of worring about how you can fu** her over it might make it alittle more clear that it takes 2.Not one ruler and his bit**.
2006-09-29 05:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's probably pretty common. A lot of women never heard the encouragement and praise they needed as children/adolescents/women and now they have deficiencies in their confidence = weak women. I don't think ALL women are like that, but considering the lack of good parenting these days, most women are.
I still think honesty is the best policy. Men should be able to think with their heads, not their loins.
2006-09-29 05:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, I don't agree. I've been lied to, and I've been told the truth. I prefer the truth. I take responsibility for myself, and my own actions. I expect others to do the same.
2006-09-29 05:24:04 · answer #11 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋