So many of you just answered why you cheat and I'm sorry I'm not buying it. You wanna be Tarzan? So be it...you think she's not getting just as bored with your tired old **** every night? You think your showing her RESPECT by going out and giving all your good stuff to someone else? Please, mother of your kids bullshit is just an excuse...she won't mind if you treat her like Jane once in a while...she might even like it. So stop making yourself sound like your doing her a favor by wanting exciting sex with someone else, thats not respect thats crap.
2006-09-29 05:36:03 · 30 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no question, I'm just responding to the answers men gave about why they cheat and it all sounds like bullshit to me.
2006-09-29 05:41:56 · update #1
Thanks for the vote of confidence "Ted" but no, although my husband was a first class jerk, that wasn't on the list of screw ups...and as far as how I am in bed is none of your business and has nothing to do with why men make up such bullshit reasons for cheating. Why can't they say she was hot and I was horney and I ****** up?
2006-09-29 06:10:14 · update #2
She was hot, I was horny and I ****** up!!
2006-09-29 06:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have our own views on your previous question as well as to its answers. I guess that you also need to respect because as much as you don't respect most of it, there will also be some who would and appreciate them.
It normally takes two to tango in the relationship, if one of them cheats, there will always be a reason for him/her to. It can be boredom, it can be a feeling of not being appreciated, not having the time, and yes, it can also be a state of not being respected anymore. Bottomline is it would still depend on how much love the couple still share in the relationship, one may love the other less but sometimes love just isn't enough to make everything work. There is no perfect relationship, one will always bound to make mistakes and the most important part is they learn from it. If they cheat and they lose their loved ones, they should learn that such an action has its consequences. Respect can be earned and if you cheat, the person you cheated on will lose it on you. Cheaters also regret, and they learn and realize all these unfortunately the hard way. You won't really learn from the mistakes of others unless you experience them yourself.
These reasons maybe shallow to others, but to others it is a large possibility that they are not. It really depends on your principles and experiences. You asked a question that everybody is able to answer, and atleast some of them tried their best to do so, based on how they have viewed and learned of it in general.
If you don't like an answer, you can always ignore it and give a thumbs down. But let us have our says because that's one free thing in the Q&A.
Don't worry, I've always believed there's one for each of us. If you were with a cheater once, you'll know better how to deal with possibilities of being cheated on the next time. And you try and work on relationships until you find that right person. Surely, he'll be worth the waiting and all the heartaches you had to go thru. Goodluck and never stop believing.
2006-09-29 12:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you sweetie but you do have to look at it all the guys that did answer the bull shyt answer that's just their opinion and we all know opinions are like a** holes everybody's got one don't feed into their madness. I believe men cheat like women there are a few reasons 1. they are not getting enough 2. They are dumb as hell and 3. my most favorite like us the thrill of the game and not getting caught. Just remember one thing that holds true now until the end of time all things done in the dark will most definetly come to light and keep that in mind!
2006-09-29 12:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Jeeez Sasha, who gave you the brown helmet award? Is there a problem in your relationship? Sounds to me as though you're a lousy p.o.a**! I get it ... you can't take care of your old man, so he's "gone out to eat," and you're assuming none of the blame. Maybe if you'd learn how to wiggle that thing and not just lay there like a dead fish, he'd pay more attention to your lil pooter. Shut up! Learn to please your man and he'll stay at home. Hey, it's in the bible - "Woman, please your man." Ya know, it might help if you'd wash that thing every onve in a while. Does it stink? Does it smell like a bloated beached whale after three weeks in the hot sun? Freshen it up, I say.
2006-09-29 12:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
And all those gorgeous cheating women are not Joans or Arc either...after all the friggin respect and love they received from their husbands, they went out and invited new ***** into their kitties...
I am not answering you either...
2006-09-29 12:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind me never to piss you off!!
Good On ya, Mate! It's about time someone called Bullshite!
Aloha!!
2006-09-29 12:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Such a bitter little girl! Could you repeat that, I wasn't listening.
2006-09-29 12:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are no real answers why men cheat.Me aren't naturally monogomous but it's still not an excuse.
2006-09-29 12:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by oneidmnstr 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is-stay ahead of them too-all mostly dogs or pigs-easy to fence in and train, minus the smell.
Can be fun at times, and are really good at moving furniture
2006-09-29 12:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same reason why women cheat.
Selfish...
not really in love...
And well mostly selfish.
2006-09-29 12:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋