You hear your spouse bragging about something they did sexually before you met them that have refused to do with you.
2006-09-29 06:23:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He/she is trying to impress you. ask for the proof.
2006-09-29 06:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any man (or woman) who has to "brag" about their sexual prowness is clearly an individual of low character and an ill bred ruffian who hasn't the manners and deceny to mingle with educated people.
Fieldhand or common laborer no doubt. Be thankful whatever it is he could possibly brag about (and hasn't done with you) is with this other person.
After all...if it were you you can bet he'll have bragged about that too. As a matter of fact...any sexual act you have engaged in with him has no doubt been repeated often to his male pals. next time you run across them...take good notice at how they look at you. Know why they look at you the way they do? Because they're imaginging you being down on your knees doing whatever it is he's told them you've done.
You madam, are married to a lout who has no respect for women or the intimacy of sex.
Good luck. Think about that the next time he's hovering over you in bed. Or whever for that matter.
2006-09-29 14:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes! Very big deal! Why they braggin', but don't do it? They are showing off, but insulting the spouse. Why are they telling personal stuff like they wish it was going on now? Spouse needs to sit down with the show off and get some answers!
2006-09-29 13:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks of it as derogatory, they may respect you too much to do it with you. Maybe they didn't care about the other person or care what they think, but they do care about you and what you think. Otherwise, it just may be something they did in their misspent youth and don't feel comfortable doing it now, no matter how much they brag about it. Either way, if the bragging makes you uncomfortable, you should definitely tell them that and ask them to stop.
2006-09-29 14:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by brainy_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a big deal. We brag about things sometimes and that doesn't mean we would do it again!
2006-09-29 13:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by mcnees79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a big deal to you.......then it's a big deal. Maybe you could ask him to not brag about it, because it offends you.
2006-09-29 13:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse was careless to let you hear that, which would totally irk me if my spouse did that. Maybe he/she was not being honest about what he/she says he/she did but just trying to build himself/herself up to his/her friend.
2006-09-29 13:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a big deal if you make one of it. If it's something you want i'd bet if you persist you'll get it. Hmmmmm trying to guess what "IT" might be?
2006-09-29 13:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just mean. He should do it with you, if you are willing. Then brag about that, if you let him. Stingy of him I think.
2006-09-29 13:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't do it with you, then he didn't think it was that great and he's only bragging to beef up his reputation with his friends.
Ignore it.
2006-09-29 13:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he/she was just saying they did but really never did it. I wouldn't worry about it, just let them know you have a few tricks up your sleeve that you are not ready to share with him/her also, Maybe they'll give in and tell you he/she never did or end up sharing it with you.
2006-09-29 13:36:45 · answer #11 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋