I want be more free when making love with my husband.BUt I am a little bit shy and reserved since I am from consevative culture.
2006-09-29 04:04:45 · 14 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do not seem shy. You are talking openly about sex with the entire world. If you could use this openness with your husband and save the conservatism for the rest of the world you would be far better off. Intimacy is designed to express love between a husband and a wife. It is not a sex act but rather an expression of love. Sex is dirty, intimacy is a beautiful expression of love. You my dear are not shy or reserved!!
2006-09-29 04:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried roll playing. It can be very fun in a safe enviorment. Even though you are from a conservative culture, remember the people who brought you up had and probably enjoyed sex too. I do not mean to get religious here by any means, but God has put us on the Earth to enjoy all it has to offer. There are two sexes complete with different parts that when they come together create a feeling second to none. Enjoy your body and his. Get a little crazy...try moving a certain way...perhaps wiggle a little bit. What ever makes sex feel great to you. Most of all relax and let your enjoyment take over.
2006-09-29 04:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by mpnorthwoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you should go to a local bar and role play. hang out together have some wine, spirit, booze.and that will loosen you up a bit go straight home alone and get freaky. turn the jams on and some candles. anything that will make YOU feel sexy.and dont be shy or nervous.touch him EvEryWhere, up to his temples and toes.your husband will help you out with the rest.good luck and have lots of fun and love.
2006-09-29 04:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by soll910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting more confident with yourself first, when you have some private time, walk around the house naked, look at yourself in the mirror and learn to love how you look and do sexy poses. This will really help you to open up. Once you feel confident with yourself, it will rub off on when you're with your husband. Good luck!
2006-09-29 04:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by claire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband to teach you. No better teacher than the man who loves you. Tell him Honey what do you desire of me? I want be the best lover and I need for you to teach me how to get free.
Now some men want "Freedom" anything goes so before asking you need to ask yourself how free do I want to be.
2006-09-29 04:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to wwwadultfriendfinders.com it's free put in your zip code put in your a man looking for a woman and see all the sluts who would take you husband if given a chance, and they give a bio of what they will do when they make love lots of ideas there
2006-09-29 04:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by fuxaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a video and learn some new things, have a few cocktails and then surprise him.
Remember your married.....conservative or not, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors......people don't always admit things because "it's not proper".
2006-09-29 04:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by voandginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, I always feel more loose with alcohol but that shouldnt be needed. Just take a deep breath and let go, just do it! whatever that may be :)
2006-09-29 04:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband, or someone who knows what there doing in bed, and ask them. Just let your love flow,and your feelings go.just get into it, nothing like good raw sex,
2006-09-29 04:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink and watch some good porn with him one night. It will help you get a little wilder.
2006-09-29 04:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by FreddyBoy1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋