Im going to "fast 4 30days & 30nights,what about my childs father??

Question

I am going to fast everyone who doesnt have a religous bone n there body that simply means "to clense your mind ,body,& soul" of all that is not good.You have to do it for a certain period of time & see if u can succeed w/o those things that u may be used to or used to doing.Movining on me and my 2month olds dad, well just say that he's put me through a lot of sh*t! while pregnate after & so on.Well he claims he's sorry and all & now he's trying to change to be a better person.Ok I dont knock anyone for trying but Im still deeply hurt by the things that occured between us.So it seems like he's moving to be better but 4got all the pain he just caused. To name a few he threw girls n my face,cursed @ me,called me names,never spent time w/me,was very mean while I was pregnate,which he had never treated me like this.Neway I tried to get over it,be nice,not speak unless about r daughter,but still having flash backs.i decided to do w/o him 4 30days & nites.How do I do it but let h/ c thebaby

Answer 1

Please try to get a hold of some lithium. U r in trouble

Answer 2

You say... (everyone who doesn't have a religious bone in there body that simply means to cleanse your mind ,body, and soul )

You must not be very religious because fasting is the act of willingly abstaining from some or all food and in some cases drink, for a period of time. I really don't think you can go 30 days without eating or drinking.

Next time don't use a religious term for an excuse for leaving your husband for a month because you are mistaken by the definition.

Answer 3

If you are taking care of a child you need to eat! You need the fuel to get up at night and to play and to carry them around without fear of fainting and dropping it. And I hope that the baby is on formula or you could kill it from it not getting enough nutrients. I think the better idea for you would be to stay away from the father for those 30 days and see how you feel afterwards. Get a third party to help with him seeing the baby without him getting to see you. Also if I were you I'd go to the dr and tell them the situation. It sounds to me like you may have post partum depression. Good luck!

Answer 4

Well.... your mind is a battle field, Which means you have the flesh reminding you of all the horrible things that he's done to you, but on the spiritual side what if God held your wrong doings over your head and reminded you of all the bad you've done every time you asked for a blessing.... As far as your child, drop her off at a friend or relatives house and let her father pick her up from there.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

That baby is the most important thing in your life right now. At all costs, make sure that baby grows up with at least one loving parent, ideally two, but I'm sad to say that it almost sounds like nobody cares about the baby, so it's almost hopeless. But I hope you'll prove us all wrong. :)

Also, I am not religious, but there is a Bible verse in the New Testament that says that if you're going to fast, don't announce it to the world, it looks like you're showing off. Also, I assume you are "fasting" from the father, not fasting from food. But just to make sure... DON'T FAST FROM FOOD right now, you need energy to take care of the baby. :)

But basically, you need help... and not the Internet, but help from people in your life. If you have a best friend, that makes you feel good about yourself and that is a good influence on you, then call her up. Or talk with a counselor at school or wherever you can find one.

Think of the wisest people you know if your life that care about you and your baby, and call on them.

Good luck...

Answer 7

Wow. Are you me? My husband did the same while I was pregnant with our daughter. He wouldn't have sex w me cuz I was a 'cow', he said we didn't need to buy a house cuz ha ha we already have one, meaning me. He would punish me by going to fun places & not allowing me to go, this was family events! He'd keep me up allnite while pregnant emotionally and verbally abusing me. I lost my job, some friends and I almost died while in labor due to over-all poor health during pregnancy.
We are now divorced and he still hassles me. He calls DCF all the time & takes me to court. I had to hire a $300hr Harvard trained lawyer. And am now broke.
GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN. BEFORE IRREPAIRABLE DAMAGE!!

Answer 8

Typical female answer to a real world problem - "My life is a mess- think I'll fast." Whatever.

Answer 9

do you mean food or him?.if you mean food theres better ways to cleanse yourself.if you mean him if he thought anything of you he would have taken care of you whilst you were pregnant.not abused you let him see the baby make yourself strong don't get back with him a leopard never changes """""""""""""""""

Answer 10

I dont understand your question.

And if you are as religious as you think you are then your should forgive him and move on.

Answer 11

just be strong if he did you wrong once he will always do you wrong don't fall for the okie doke