Is there any importance of VIRGINITY of girl before marriage?

Question

If yes, then why its not so important for a boy?

Answer 1

The only a woman can boldly say she has and can not be disputed is her virginity. When you have material things they are not all that yours. The Money can get missing, Clothings can catch fire and so many other things can happen but the only thing that is personnally yours that cannot be taken away from you except you give it out is your virginity.

It is not the matter of keeping it till marriage that matters, but knowing that there has not being anybody inside you. That you have not shared yourself with anyone that matters.

It is a pleasure being a virgin.

Please if you are still a virgin keep it. it is the most precious thing you have ever got.

Answer 2

'That archaic idea comes from a time (or place) where women were (are) considered the property of a man. It was (is) about the man's ego (I own a pure thing), or his fear (if my woman has had sex with other men what if she thinks they were better than me). In today's world where we are constantly bombarded with sexual images, from movies to billboards, to magazines, to MTV, I can't even fathom why any man would want to marry a virgin. It just seems that it would be natural for a woman who has only had sex with her husband to think....it this all there is??? She'll see all these images of super-sex and she'll probably think she's missing a lot. Now if she's experienced, at least, a few lovers and she finds that the man she's going to marry satisfies here as well as the others, then she might not be as curious about alternatives, after she married.

Answer 3

No.. It's old school.. and finding a virgin female and male is really hard to come by these days...

It's about saving yourself for that one person you are devoting your life to.. your spouse.. thats the virginity hype...

Guys make a big deal out of it because they have gone where no other man has gone before...

Even if a guy is a virgin he's probably not going to admit to it.

I think if a man has that big of a problem with a girl if shes not a virgin and he isn't either.. then he needs to get over himself!
It's a two way street.. if he couln't wait.. shouldn't complain about women who couldn't either.
Just my opinion.

Answer 4

I think that is something based on a person's morals and how they are brought up. Some people are brought up to believe it is something special and others may not be brought up to believe it is significant at all.

I personally believe that if two people are mature enough and possibly financially stable to handle the consequences that can come from sex, (ex. pregnancy, STDs) then if they want to have sex before marriage they should go ahead. Otherwise they have no business doing it.

Answer 5

No it used to in the old days that if a girl was a virgin until marriage that she is giving her husband the most sacred gift no other person every had. Not true. If your young wait until you find the right guy. Don't just give it up to any one out there.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Men are expected to have experience in order take care of their wives' sexual needs. As a rule, men don't complain that their women aren't "good enough" in bed, but that is a common complaint among women. How does a man get good enough? Practice! It's the only way! How many women have I known that hate being a man's first, because it always means he's clumsy and awkward and doens't know what he's doing, but a man loves being a woman's first because he doesn't have to worry about being compared to other women.

Consider four scenarios:

Scenario 1: A man waits until his wedding night to sleep with a girl. The girl he marries has a varied sexual history. It being his first time, he totally sucks. She tries to give pointers, but before she even starts to get into it, he's done. Over the next year and a half, she helps direct him so that he's better, but now she knows all his tricks (since she taught them to him) and so they're boring. Then her ex-lover comes back into the picture. He was so hot in bed... she wonders if he still is...

Scenario 2: A man goes out and explores his sexuality, and devotes himself to becomming a sex god, never resting in his endless persuit of better ways to please a woman in bed. Then, he decides to settle down. He finds a nice girl with just as varied a history. They marry, and then their wedding night she reveals to him that, yeah, he's pretty good in bed, but not as good as another guy that she didn't marry because he had emotional issues. The other guy comes back into the picture three years later, and now his emotional issues are fixed. What's the husband to think?

Scenario 3: Both parties wait. Their wedding night, things go okay, since no one knows what's going on, but after a year of marriage, the girl is talking to her girlfriends and says, "Ug, it's Wednesday! How can it be Wednesday already? We make love every Wednesday, and if feels like it's only been a couple of days. Is there any way to make him stop?" Her girlfriend replies, "What does he do?" The bride replies, "What is there to do?" Neither the husband nor the bride have any ideas on how to make it better for her.

Scenario 4: He goes out and devotes himself to becomming a sex god. Finally, he settles down with a nice virgin girl. On her wedding night, she spends the whole night wriggling in pleasure like she never imagined possible. Over the next year, she is constantly suprised by the things he does, things she would never have imagined. Finally, after a year, she has one bad night of sex, and sternly scolds her husband, who promises it will never happen again. Of course, three years later, she has another bad night, and has to remind her husband of his promise, and he feels sheepish. When she complains to her girlfriends, they say, "Are you nuts? Almost every night is horrible for me! My husband was a virgin when we were married though."

Answer 7

There used to be, but not anymore, of course with the exceptions of a few morons that think that a piece of skin between your legs is more important than love.

Answer 8

It's ONLY important to the Religious whack jobs out there.

Most people could care less if they really love each other.

Answer 9

If you decide to keep your virginity until you're married, you won't regret it. You may well regret it if you don't.

Sometimes boys are driven by their hormones and don't consider the consequences of their actions.

Answer 10

Because of that old devil, the DOUBLE STANDARD. Sause for the goose and all that. Don't worry yourself or fret over it. Be not judgemental nor allow yourself to be judged. We are all different.