Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2006

why does it become psychological warfare and a battle of the wills

2006-09-24 08:19:09 · 25 answers · asked by neil d 3

2006-09-24 08:16:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

keeps disrespecting in public. He will start yelling at me in front of
other people and he is very condensending and I have told
him a million times to stop doing this and I am very frustrated.
I want tho know if there are any groups online for free advice or any boards where can I get ideas. I am really tired because every time I try to talk to him about this he tells me to shut up??
I love him and I have been with him for 12 years and we are trying to have a child too. I need some advice?? I want to be happy and I want to encourage him to be be more active and able to communicate with me more. I myself have made a new career move and I am going back to school and also planning my first child. He seems to be at the same place. I need help

2006-09-24 08:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by saffire500 1

2006-09-24 07:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by cerasupastar 1

we been together for nearly 20 years we split up one time she had an affair with my best friend of 20+ yrs we have a beutiful girl togethershe is smart and a good kid i moved away from theplace where they live and tried to get on with my life any way my wife called me and i moved back i missed my daughter but it is not the same!!!we have not had a relationship in over 3 yrs what do you suggest i do i love her but it is hurtin me to see my family like this

2006-09-24 07:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by *!Rocky!* 1

if someone recieves social security for their dead husband in america and then goes to canada and remarries, will she get in trouble if she does not let social security know?

2006-09-24 07:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 07:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2

if someone gets married in canada from america, does it effect their social security benifits?

2006-09-24 07:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 07:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by richgloriastewart 1

if that makes sense.

2006-09-24 07:36:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 07:35:36 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 1

I have been with him for 1/4 of my entire life but things have gone bad and i cant stay.I need some suggestions. How do i go from seeing this man every day for 7 years to never seeing him again?
Especially without going nuts?

2006-09-24 07:34:46 · 22 answers · asked by petmykitty22 2

in general.

2006-09-24 07:33:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently got married and I just want to add my husband's last name to mine, for example--- MJ Tanner-Jones. How do I do it. We got married in Vegas, but live in Medford, Oregon.

2006-09-24 07:28:04 · 5 answers · asked by MJ 1

good can it? I like to be in control & wot would happn if I feel in love with someone that I shouldnt???then wot??

2006-09-24 07:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

In his opinion trusting him is more important to him than staying faithful...he says he could trust me to sleep naked next to another man and if I said I didnt do anything, he would believe me.....what can I do to have that much trust in him? What can I do to work on my insecurity .....yes you are probably thinking hes fed me some bull, and tried to make me feel guilty, but I believe he didnt do anything now....how can I reassure him that I want to trust him, and I want him to forgive me?

2006-09-24 07:16:17 · 20 answers · asked by sifford844 2

First of all, I help, but I don't do half, but I work about 60 hours a week on average and she works 35 hours. But she still seems to want me to do 50%, and I think that is unreasonable, given the huge difference in work hours. I feel like we should both help but she should do a bit more because she gets home about 3-4 hours before me and that way we maximize how much free time we have together. Basically, she thinks doesn't include work in the equation and I feel we should.

2006-09-24 07:13:30 · 20 answers · asked by Poppies_rule 3

2006-09-24 07:12:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just seen this on a girls moby at school she said it was nice but it made me feel not well inside down my tummy...why do men do this and how can it be nice?

2006-09-24 07:12:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 07:10:06 · 26 answers · asked by sony_sony 2

According to my wife her girl friends are shocked that we have sex almost every other day and it last over an hour each time. My wife says they are upset that they dont have the same as us. Is she correct? Married over 22 years.

2006-09-24 07:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Mit 4

I love my wife. Before marriage I had sexual relationship with a girl who is my cousin. I left her before marriage. Now she is trying to reapproach me by again offering sex. Should I go ahead and satisfy her or not. How should I stop her as she calls on my cell every day and despratly wants to see me and have sex.

2006-09-24 07:07:33 · 28 answers · asked by sony_sony 2

if I can't get a new car that I have been drooling over then she can't a baby, that is fair isn't it?

2006-09-24 07:06:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I care for my husband’s 5 kids from a prior marriage. They range in ages 10-19. I have no kids. He works at least 12 hrs per / 7days a wk. His children came to live with us about a year ago, their mother asked us to keep them for 2-3 yrs while she gets some things in order. I have health probs, & take 6 different meds each day. I have not been able to work for 9 mos. My hus does not read or write. I supervise his kids, get them ready 4 school each day, do about 4 hours of homework with them each night, talk with serve as contact 4 their teachers, help them w/English lessons (they R in ESL classes at school) & so on. We have 1 car. Today my hus is taking a break from work to nap (this is very rare). I ask if I may run an errand w/his car by myself. He says no he'll take me b/c in the past I've sometimes returned it 20-40 minutes later than I promised and his 18/19 yo sons have McDonald’s jobs & may be late due to me. They have 2 hrs before work, my errand is 15 min away. Thoughts pls?

2006-09-24 07:05:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi i am 18 years old my husband is 21 and we got married last month in Vegas a spur of the moment thing that orginally started as a joke.That same night we also managed to concieve a child i got an ultra sound and a pelvic to confirm after an EPT. We have only known each other 3 months really and last night we got into a fight at his dorm about the baby he informed me that he wanted to stay married and that we would be moving in with his parents as soon as possible!His very italian parents hate me!because i am not italian i have never done anything too them!I stormed out and walked for about an hour to get to a friends house crying. My friend steve is gay!so i saw no harm in sleeping over at his place in same bed its a one bedroom place the coach doubles as a bed. Two hours later at 1:00 a.m my husband was banging on the door my friend steve went to get the door and my husband saw me in the bed and hit him in the face broke his jaw!

2006-09-24 06:43:50 · 12 answers · asked by Keri O 1

I met this girl 5 years ago who i really loved. She sort of pressured me into marriage but I accept that fact and married her and show her my love. I am american and she is Latin, so she has a whole different outlook on what is real love. For me real love is supporting and helping each other, kissing and talking. Thats love. For her love is just being together and being happy all the time.

Rencently we moved and didnt really have anything. I am a college student so I dont have a lot of money. We dont have a lot of bills, but she also just up and decides to quit her job without any notice (this has happened 3 times in the last 5 months) leaving me with the burden of the bills, and stress. She complains that I never buy her anything, or take care of her. I am at my wits end, I have three pairs of pants all with holes I havent bought anything for myself in the last 2 years. I try to take care of her but its not enough. She says I dont love her enough, but she like to ....

2006-09-24 06:29:09 · 24 answers · asked by Joe Bob Charlie, Joe Bob Chopper 1

Okay My patrents are fighting a lot.. I know that they will get a divorce really soon..... I hate having them fight and can't take it. you can hear them fight through out the house. I need a way that can help me live through this and I know it will be over soon but I just can't stand it and I need a way to escape... What should I do? Help Me PLZ..


PLUS I don't wana say my age........ But I am sort of young and am not old enogh to move out of the house.

2006-09-24 06:27:57 · 12 answers · asked by alexis21895 2

I used his name previously and edited that question out. This ******* 40 year old loser has relapsed since she has met him because he claims "he was upset". I don't want my children around this guy even though she has moved on. Is there anything I can do to prevent this asshole from being around our kids. She cosigned for a new car for him 3 months after she claims she had met met him. 3 months later he totaled the car because he fell asleep behind the wheel. she has cosigned for him another car and is also on our auto insurance. I would also if possible would like to prevent him from driving our kids. She says it just makes him uncomfortable because it is a male ego thing. he feels he should drive them. Whats your thoughts on this situation with the kids and her newfound white trash R. MARKS from the LB CA

2006-09-24 06:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by stanyamada 1

this puzzles me big time

how can you feel such a genuine emotion for someone who doesn't feel the same about you; it's almost humiliating if you think about it

can someone explain this but very thoroughly

thanks

2006-09-24 06:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is 21 and she joined the Army. I dont know what to do. I dont know if she will mess around on me, she says she wont and I belive her like 80%. I was in Military school for 4 years and I have a system down and now hopefuly she will understand the way I am. She wants me to move with her when she gets stationed, I love my job though and they offered me more money to stay. I dont know what to do... I am going to miss my wife so much. The one thing that is bothering me is that I am not going to know what she is doing and vis versa for her. I am fathful to my wife and always will be (I am 27) I will do nothing to hurt my marrage. In so many levels this is going to bring us closer cause I have been around wilitary life for a long time. I would join but I cant cause of medical reasons with my knee. I guess you can say I am afraid of being alone, we have been married for 1yr & 6mon. This is something she wants to do for her self and this is why I am supporting her so much. what to do?

2006-09-24 05:57:37 · 14 answers · asked by thumper_airman 2