Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2006

women have the right to think about sex you know and i dont think theres anything wrong with being horny and sexual.especially with your husband.but why the husband gonna say to stop being so s l u t t y with him?aint that how is sopose to be when you have a man?

2006-09-24 16:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by super girl 3

How are the assets divided? IF married for 30 years? And own a business that was started 6 years ago?

2006-09-24 15:59:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It sounded like he was making out with another women. Some of it I could understand clearly and some of it I couldnt. Is there anyway I can have this message slowed down so that I can maybe figure out what might be going on. I really need to know if he is cheating on me. Because if he is, I will be filing for a divorce.

2006-09-24 15:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wanted your opinion..

My wife & I went through a painful divorce that she insisted on, and been seperated since March. We havent contacted since the divorce in June, as I was extremly angry & preferred not to have contact.

Recently I called her dad asking him to return money he owes me, & hes asking me to wait some more, while I have no time since Im leaving town. We argued on the phone, & I told him how ungrateful he was for all favours Ive done since the day I met his daughter, & he was just worried I might cause a problem regarding the money.

The very next day ex wife calls me. She said she called coz she heard I was leaving town, & wanted to wish me good luck. She was talking nicely and sounded sweet, & we kept talking for almost 1/2 hour. She mentioned problem regarding her work computer, & I offered to come over and repair it, & she agreed.

Is she acting like this coz her dad maybe asked her to so that I can stay off his back for sometime? Or is there any other meaning?

2006-09-24 15:46:03 · 28 answers · asked by Zwerg 3

My husband and I had a fight. When he tried to leave I tried to stop him physically. He left anyway and moved back with his parents. We have a little gir that is 16 months old. He wants a divorce because I had done it in the past. I am now getting help with my problems and he said that it is to late. I really do love him and I don't want to loose him. We have talked and he told me that he doesn't love me anymore. I don't think that he has though. How can I make him see that I am changing not just for him but for me. He wont try marriage counseling because he has given me too many chances already. Is there anything else I could do? Please help me any advice would help. I am completely lost without him.

2006-09-24 15:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anna L 1

my boyfriend cheated on me and i found out when i was 3 months pregant and the othergril was 4 months pregant now my baby is 6 weeks and i get mad when the other baby come around sometimes i'm cool with it should i be mad should i leave him it just hurt so bad i need help!!!!1

2006-09-24 15:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by charod06 1

Give me something I haven't tried yet. (and maybe somethign I have forgotten over time.

2006-09-24 15:38:04 · 32 answers · asked by theblessedknower 2

My son does not like him that much and has not since day one. This is my son's step dad. My son see's his dad on a reagular basis. I have talked to him but he does not respone at all. Sometimes i wonder if he is listening. I have talked to him about this 2 times already and he starts talking but then we end up right back here in a couple of months. My life is miserable. I kid you not. Before my daughter left to move in with her boyfreind he would hug on her and love on her and do things with her (step dad too) but not with me and my son. I wonder if he married me for my daughter. He never had children and she came along and stole his heart. We have never been in love and that is where our problem is. Oh he could stay like this forever but i can not

2006-09-24 15:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 15:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

but never even considered looking at him seriously because he is married and older--seriously-he has always been just another co-worker - thats why the dream really surprised me (I don't get those ever- I know, sad) The next day at work, I caught sight of him down the hall and turned red-I looked guilty I am sure- and he caught the look and I caught him staring at me later---You don't think he figured out what happened- cause before this our encounters were civil and platonic. God I hope not!!!

2006-09-24 15:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

relationship was ending and you knew you were using them to take your mind off your ex? Do you ever wonder if you'll be able to love again and to have that level of intimacy and closeness you had with your prior mate? I am divorcing my husband after 14 years of marriage and I recently had a fling with a guy, we saw eachother maybe 4 times and I ended it because it wasn't right. How do you get over those feelings of loneliness and emptiness you feel when you divorce? I don't want to force anything ever again. HELP!

2006-09-24 15:24:44 · 6 answers · asked by ooolala 2

My gf and I are rapidly approaching the engagement phase of our relationship. I am significantly better off financially than she is. I am going to insist on a prenuptial agreement. Am I wrong to not marry her if she refuses?

2006-09-24 15:24:05 · 18 answers · asked by Trip S 3

2006-09-24 15:14:53 · 6 answers · asked by Riss 4

even with his friends.and when i ask him to cut it out.he apologizes and say he trust me but dont trust them.he says he sees them in action all the time and cant trust them around me.his friends think im an anti social because i dont talk to them when they come to the house.but i am just trying to keep the peace.what is that all about?

2006-09-24 15:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by super girl 3

2006-09-24 15:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by beaucoup de questions 1

2006-09-24 15:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Mike Sugarwood 2

Curious to see how many people here saved sex for marriage.
How do you think it affected your relationship?
Do you regret it, or are you glad?
Are you still together? How long?
How long were you together before you got married?

My husband and I didnt make it to marriage, but he is the only man i have ever been with, and I have no regrets. I totally respect people who wait til marriage, and am curious to hear your experiences

2006-09-24 15:02:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have been married for almost 5 years and he is not in touch with people no where close to us and there is no way that i have the time to spend to pull him out one more time. We have been here together in the same house all day and he has not said a word to me or my 10 year old son. He slept on the couch last night just like he always does. I am 45 and i do not have the time to spend on him. It will take more than i have. I love our house and all of things that we have but i do not see anything left here. I can not stand for him to touch me. We have not had sex in over a year. He is lazy. No hugs!!! Barely kisses Hello and good-bye. No holding hands. This stuff was never there. I married him for the wrong reason and that was to give my children a home and a family. That was my fault. But i can not take the blame for how he acts. I have really tried. We do nothing and go nowhere. I love to do both. Help me here! what can you offer

2006-09-24 14:59:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I already have the child support and custody issues taken care of due to the attorney general's office, I have been seperatde for a year, and now I am trying to get the divorce, but lawyers are expensive. I don't feel it will be contested, I just haven't figured out a good way to come about it.

2006-09-24 14:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was constantly abusive.verbally and sometimes tried physically. (I never hit her,ever) I was saved 2 yrs ago, and we as a family (3 kids, hers from prev.) went to church 3x a week. Our son, 17, wanted to go to spain on a misson trip. He scored 31 on his act. so he"s not dumb, just kinda lazy. He wouldn't do anything to secure financial donations for the $2,000 trip. I told him that if he was gonna do the lords work, he had to get out there and do something about it or else he could not go. I'm disabled (double amp.) and can"t afford to pay for it. He looked at me and said "you act like you can tell me what to do! Like you have any power over me" I told his mother that he better listen to me, and then he proceded to jump on me and put me in a choke hold and throw me around. Now mind you, I am missing half my right leg and my right arm. Well, my wife told me I no longer had the right to tell her children what to do anymore. I had to ask her to ask them to do their chores and stuff!

2006-09-24 14:43:15 · 21 answers · asked by stever 2

This is a question for my college sociology class. it would be great if you guys could answer this, thanks.
Why did you have children? Was it a conscious decision? More importantly, was it a response to social pressure?

2006-09-24 14:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i been married for one year. It seem like are love life is going down. he dont kiss me are hug me but about once out of a week . I know he is not cheating but what is it?

2006-09-24 14:39:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i been married for one year. It seem like are love life is going down. he dont kiss me are hug me but about once out of a week . I know he is not cheating but what is it?

2006-09-24 14:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i been married for one year. It seem like are love life is going down. he dont kiss me are hug me but about once out of a week . I know he is not cheating but what is it?

2006-09-24 14:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try to act like I'm still turned on but he says he can tell. I tell him these things turn me off and I can't help it but he says I have to do them or else HE can't be turned on. What can I do!?! I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place (no pun intended) as i can't do either of the things he's asking me. Should I take acting lessons, then?

2006-09-24 14:27:48 · 32 answers · asked by just_sometimes_i 1

Would you bang your gardener if he's young and hot like the one on the show if you're not getting it from your husband?

2006-09-24 14:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by louie m 2

husbands daugther - age 30 2 children getting married for 1st time. Both have never been married before - our second marriage sounds like they are working on a big wedding - what would you suggest as our participation in the wedding - we could offer honeymoon and wedding dress or is more expected - sort of lost on how to approach this. Some feel a small wedding and party would have been more appropriate for this situation 2 children, living together for the last 5 years as well. Any thoughts

2006-09-24 13:50:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 13:47:56 · 18 answers · asked by cheri 1

Both partners experience hurt, pain, disllusionment, financial social, and economic loss, as well as, personal discouragement in both types of relationships. What's the advantage/disadvantage of one relationship over the other when it ends?

2006-09-24 13:42:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a wedding this weekend and this individual brought her boyfriend instead of her husband. I did not know that she was seeing someone else while she is still married. I believe that this behavior is wrong and I am completely uncomfortable with this especially when we have group events with family. Do I tell her this or is it not my business and I should avoid it?

2006-09-24 13:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by chris 1