Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2006

How can I make sex more appealing to my husband. He loves making love when we actually do it, just I can't modivate him to WANT to do it. It's very depressing. He's always playing video games or hanging with the guys. How can I make sex fun for him and so that he WANTS to? Please help and serious answers. If you want your 2 points then don't say anything just put a letter lol. I don't want your oppinion if it's not serious. Thanks

2006-09-24 05:49:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of three years who i have waited on hand and foot has handed me divorce papers i thought his affair had stoped but he is leaving me for another woman who is 19! he is 28 years old!He has given me 2 weeks notice to move out and has taken all the money out of our joint checking account. Is he leagally allowed to do this?We have a 12 month old son together! i dont understand i have done everything for him i could i take care of a six year old step-son , a second cousin who is 4 years old names she is a girl i have custody of her at this time, and 12 month old son . My husband 28 years old is a vet who works for his father practice and i am a zoologist who works partime at the zoo. We have 4 dogs, 1 cat, 1 domesticated skunk, 1 bunny rabit, 1 lizard , 1 turtle, 2 mice, 1 african gray parrot, and a Squirrel. I do all the cooking and cleaning and reason we only had sex once a week was because i was exahsted and he never helped!

2006-09-24 05:48:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 05:24:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things have been rough with my husband, and the last year or so he doesn't share with me conversations that he has with his family or friends....I notice that he will talk with his family for like 45 mintues and not even tell me what is up with them. He told me that if I wanted to know to call and ask them. I feel that he doesn't share because he doesn't want me close to him or else he's not close to me, but he says this is not the case. What do you think?

2006-09-24 05:23:53 · 7 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

my dad scarces us like he's gonna hurt us.ever since second grade i have been crying ,i mean i just cry about anything .my dad scarces all of us if we hang up the phone on him he will come over grab us put us in the car drive away and we will come back crying 30 minutes later.that didn't happen to me it happened to my almost 13 year old brother who happens to never cry.i am always scared my mother is even scared. he has been in jail twice.he is olny been there one night.i still feels scared when he's mad.when he happy my mom go and has fun like he takes her to lunch?

2006-09-24 05:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex lives in Miami with my two kids. I live in Orlando. I have tried to see my children, send money to help. She will not accept my call. Threatens me that if I show up she'll call the police and have me arrested. I sent a letter to her last known address she called me and said not to send any more mail and that she sent my kids to live in Mexico with her family. Anyone know what I can do legally in Florida?

2006-09-24 05:20:29 · 13 answers · asked by kristye 1

has anybody gone for marriage counseling after you separated did it work and what happens when you first go

2006-09-24 05:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by duke 2

2006-09-24 04:58:40 · 32 answers · asked by darl66 1

I have been married for 14 years. It was a first marriage for both of us and we have 5 children that were born very close together with our youngest being 7 years old. We met in college and dated for a few years before we were married. During all of that time we were both fit and active. It has been 7 years since the youngest was born and she hasn’t lost the weight. I have tried several different gyms, training dvd’s, home equipment, etc but it hasn’t worked. We do activities together and she is strong and healthy but also carrying the extra weight. She is not happy about being overweight either. She wants to get back to her younger weight and she has tried many diets and trends. So far, nothing seems to work. I came across this Q & A board and I’m hopeful that someone has some real advice that might help us. Thanks in advance.

2006-09-24 04:55:39 · 49 answers · asked by John Yaya 1

I'm not acting on these thoughts, but sometimes you have thoughts. I feel guilty, but isn't this just natural?

2006-09-24 04:51:07 · 15 answers · asked by Poppies_rule 3

I cook every night after working ten hour day , she works six hours , I do grocery shopping , I don't watch sports , I am clean , I have not gained wieght since meeting her , we share same interests in many things . I help around the house , but I only get sex maybe ten times a year !

2006-09-24 04:48:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and love him very mch, he keeps bringing up the subject of marriage and asking what my thoughts are, he wants to, is it too soon?

2006-09-24 04:42:13 · 47 answers · asked by monkeylove 1

you know like, the woman catches some flowers, a man catches a... i forgot

2006-09-24 04:38:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

A drop-dead gorgeous woman (flat broke, with no chance of ever making a lot of money), who will truly love you for who you are, always maintain an ideal weight (according to your own personal standards of perfection), and be there for you as long as you want her. Or a cute woman with an incurable glandular problem that causes her to overeat constantly, and never lose a pound. She will never ever leave you (you're stuck with her for life). But she has more money than Paris Hilton's Father, and she is more than willing to share with you. Yiou cannot change the situation! You have to MARRY one or the other!

2006-09-24 04:32:30 · 14 answers · asked by Road Trip 3

my husband and i started out as partners. we equally shared all finance obligations he'd be in-charge of the rent and electricity and I'd be in-charge of phones, cable and groceries, not to mention my own gym membership, hair and nail appointments. our situation changed when my husband slacked off on his part of the responsibilities around 8 months now, spent all his money on alcohol and became an addict, put us 2 months in-debit along with 3 different rehab-hospital bills to pay off. now i am in-charge of all the our finance obligations he works and has to give me the money he earns, so that i can distribute it proprely. it can be very nerve racking, and having to ask for the check from him is no picnic, he doesn't make it any easier, he doesn't just willingly hand it over it can get pretty ugly and i always end up the bad guy. the one always on patroll around here, or should i say the bill collector or his parent. any advise on how to make this a smoother ride for everyone

2006-09-24 04:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by non-curious 2

My Husband is in Iraq right now and just about every time we talk we start fighting... today was about him saying it wasn't his job to help take care of our 7 month old daughter and the time before that was because i wanted to wait to buy a lawn mower... Please somebody tell me will this get any better when he gets home or is he just being a jerk?

2006-09-24 04:13:13 · 15 answers · asked by jessica 2

this girl makes him her world she puts him before everything even school and work sometimes. She's doesn't become a full time student or look for a part- time job because she claims it will be less time that she would be able to spend with her boyfriend. she neglects going out with her friends becuse she rather stay at home by the phone waiting for him to call. her bofriend even tells her that she needs to get out more and be more social. she and her boyfrind are only 20 yrs old but when she was 17 she lost another boyfriend that she had and she lost all her friends and it took her at least a year to regain the broken friendships what can i do to make her realize that she doens't need to make him her world especially when there are no planes on getting married. how can i make her realize that she needs to get her own life aside from him. ( i think this is so sad )

2006-09-24 04:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by alizenena 1

neer bedford shir area ..... not to farrr

2006-09-24 03:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by zubi_mir211 1

2006-09-24 03:51:28 · 7 answers · asked by in doubt 1

My husband wants me to be submissive to him, I am 35 years old and I dont cheat we have been together for 7 years and have had good times and bad , the bad always come back as my fault becaise i am being to indepndant. Are there any men who like honest non- cheating women who takes care of the house and then some . I am in ju jitsu and he does not mind except some times I have to grapple with men at class do to the lack of women. But I would never cheat on my marriage . I love him but he calls me names when we fight and makes me feel inferior. He took us to the fair the other day ,us being our children and took a loritab and drank about 6 beers and became really hateful and tried to punish me for not careing about him being hungry because i wanted to pet the horses . It only took a minute. We got into a fight in front of the kids he walked away , I called him three timesto tell him we were leaving. he refused. Then walked home. And blamed me for walking home.

2006-09-24 03:36:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

the mirror showed it to her and told her thats her $20, and put it back in my pocket. WHen I got home there were all kinds of meats on the table, I said wow, you did good, she took me to the mirror raised up her skirt and said see that coochie in the mirror? thats yours, this one here is the butchers!

Should I punisher her for cheating on me?

2006-09-24 03:30:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't drive; I stay home and just finish stuff I have to do, like make the kids' lunches and do the laundry, watch TV. Does this make me an alcoholic? It hasn't caused me any problems with my life up to now. My new husband doesn't like it, but it has always been relaxing to me. Now I'm wondering if you do find something like this that helps you, is it bad?

2006-09-24 03:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Skye7112 2

2006-09-24 03:11:19 · 14 answers · asked by marykuntfarts 1

i just found out that i'm pregant with our fourth baby.................and i don't want him to touch me, i don't want to sleep in the same bed as me i don't want anything to do with him........this has never happened before with any of my other children and i don't know why? has this hapened to anyone else? please help..........

2006-09-24 03:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by angie m 1

trying to find out how many times this person was maried and how many husbands she barried.

2006-09-24 02:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by Izabela R 1

I have been having this fantasy of my wife doing this hot young stud. I am not very well endowed (short & thin), and I know I don't do much to satisfy her. I can tell she is fustrated with my size. Anyway, the thought of her doing a guy with a 'man size package' and not a tiny one like mine is kind of a turn on. should i tell her?

2006-09-24 02:41:44 · 32 answers · asked by Steve J 1

I have been with him 14ys, We always have oral sex. He says he loves it but never gets off, NEVER. He says he enjoys it, I am always doing it, and he says if anyone could get him off it would be ME. Is it that some guys have a hard time getting off from oral sex or is it I am doing something wrong> I ask him all the time, he says I can't get any better??? Is it true that some guys just don't get off that way?

2006-09-24 02:38:39 · 26 answers · asked by Becky J 1

A marriage between an 18 yrs old girl and a 21 yrs old guy. who only new each other 2 months before getting married spur of moment as a joke been married for a month and have a baby on the way because of forgetting protection while drunk the wedding night. How do i even get to now my husband?Do we pretend we are still dating?I am in my first year od college and feel my life is over before it got started really.

2006-09-24 02:38:19 · 15 answers · asked by Keri O 1

Actually i really never cheat. But as i in business and sales. sometime need some flirting and cheeky words to get the job done.
like to gain female favour to close deal especially most purchaser is woman. the woman sms me baby and saw by my wife. she so upset that she want to divored me.
not into any relationship at all. what should i do now?

2006-09-24 02:23:12 · 16 answers · asked by kelvin 1

when i met him he was so cool and exciting and wild and we did so many fun things together during the dating and engaggement phase.
most importantly HE WAS SO CARING AND INTO ME ALL THE TIME, i felt so precious ...
now i almost feel he is starting to take me for granted and stuff, as if being married means he doesnt have to make any efforts any more, and i thought it only gets better after marriage :(
btw i do my best to make him happy all the time and be involved in his work and interests, why do these things come naturally to me and not him, i always thought he was the one more in love :S

2006-09-24 02:20:40 · 10 answers · asked by mungosa 1