i just found out that i'm pregant with our fourth baby.................and i don't want him to touch me, i don't want to sleep in the same bed as me i don't want anything to do with him........this has never happened before with any of my other children and i don't know why? has this hapened to anyone else? please help..........
2006-09-24 03:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by angie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no micheal b. i really love to have sex and this all came on when i took the test and it came back positive
2006-09-24 03:16:31 · update #1
no my husband is a wonderful father and he helps me out very much i just was not expecting this as we were using condoms
2006-09-24 04:30:45 · update #2
WE WERE USING CONDOMS
2006-09-24 04:32:49 · update #3
he is excited i think that is part of the reason i feel the way i do as i am not yet
2006-09-24 04:39:00 · update #4
Many people experience this, men too!
Talk to him, counseling would help too!
2006-09-24 03:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think only your husband is responsible for the fourth pregnancy? Your fault is also there. You should have taken precautionary measures, if you were against the Fourth child.
If you find your husband cheating on you or is mean, then we can understand your loosing interest in him. But, not now. This is a psychological one.Have a good counseling. Don't take this seriously. What ever happened has happened. You must look forward and see what you could do such mistakes are not repeated in future.
2006-09-24 10:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, were you trying to have another baby or was it a surprise?
Are you both excited about the new baby? Sounds like you are very tired and with three kids already you just want time for yourself. Hormones could be playing a role also. The older you get things react differently. Have you talked to you hubby about how you feel? Good luck and i hope that it all works out!!!
2006-09-24 11:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this next time. A condom. Maybe you do not want anymore children. I did not. I had 2 and will never have anymore. Your interest may come back with time. When you are more alone in your pregancy. I say give it sometime and explain to him what is going on so that he can understand. Not telling him will be a big mistake. And yes with my first i did not want anyone near me. It is woman issues.
2006-09-24 11:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no dout I wouldn't want to have sex anymore either! But sweetie ,it's all in your head...you need to get over yourself,embrace the new baby and start enjoying the amazing sex while pregnant. Maybe what you need to look into is "belly moulding" for pregnant women it's amazing and does wonders for making you feel better,every time I look at my beautifuly painted belly mould,I think about just how sexy and spiritual carring a child truely is!
2006-09-24 10:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones?
2006-09-24 10:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you love to have sex, but you are tired of having babies. It takes a lot out of your body and really messes with your hormones.
2006-09-24 10:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only would I lose interest in my husband, I would probably shoot him, 4 children are enough. Perhaps he is only interested in making babies and not help in raising them.
2006-09-24 11:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT GOOD! Its hard to believe all of that hostility came out of nowhere, with no event that could have sparked your callous attitude about him. Explain. :-)
2006-09-24 10:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like subconsciously you resent him for getting you pregnant.
This is not healthy. Please see a marriage counselor and sort out these feelings ASAP. It is not healthy for the new baby.
2006-09-24 10:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋