I have been with him 14ys, We always have oral sex. He says he loves it but never gets off, NEVER. He says he enjoys it, I am always doing it, and he says if anyone could get him off it would be ME. Is it that some guys have a hard time getting off from oral sex or is it I am doing something wrong> I ask him all the time, he says I can't get any better??? Is it true that some guys just don't get off that way?
2006-09-24 02:38:39 · 26 answers · asked by Becky J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get the book " How to Tickle His Pickle". I found it very informative. Do you hit him on that "spot"? If you don't know where it is the book will tell you.
2006-09-24 02:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I had the same problem I would be doing it and he would never bust so one day i determine to get it off I work and work for atleast 30-45 and it happen everywhere and boy was he happy! it was his first time and I never received so many praises, the key is to work that head and keep it wetttttttt! It will happen eventually you can't give up I bet if you put in atleast an hour you will be wifey the next day! The head it the most sensitive part just work it and keep your hands(both) working the stick! It is not hard you just have to dedicated to it no matter how long it takes and look him in his eyes and moan I bet you can do it!
2006-09-24 02:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by ttbird117 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way it takes a pretty concentrated effort to get me there in that fashion. It totallly rocks so don't think he just doesn't enjoy it but there probably are a few things you could do different.
If he is like me its awesome to have wifey do that but I enjoy what comes next even more so than the "warm up". I have been with chics that while they are ok at it just don't do it just right so it just wasn't ever going to happen. As long as your willing he will enjoy that and chances are the after party to that is quite a rush.
2006-09-24 02:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem but after years of being frustrated by it I finally figured out that if I concentrate really hard and when it starts feeling really good then I kind of push a little like I am trying to pee and it helps me get off. Also my wife does a really good job too...that's a big help. Tell him when he does finish that way he will feel like he has died and went to heaven....lol Best feeling in the world!!!
2006-09-24 02:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband was the same way. he couldn't finish orally or manually but I was determined to be the first (and last) woman to conquer him. It eventually worked. I agree keep it wet. Maybe ask him what feels good. Don't make him feel pressured. My husband still says he'd rather just do me hard most of the time. So there are men out there that just aren't that into oral. Strange I know, but they do exist.
2006-09-24 05:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's true. Some guys just can't get off by getting head. I don't know why and I don't think they do either. I have been told I am a professional by many men cause I like doing it so much. So it's not you sweetie.
2006-09-24 02:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to work on the technique a little bit also it is always more difficult if the person giving head is either fat unattractive or not doing it properly. Still you started young enough so it looks like you will be getting loads of practice.
2006-09-26 01:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some great books out there, but to be honest if he is enjoying it and says so why do you persist? Do you want him to come (sp for censure) in your mouth? If you want him to tell him while you are at it.
Keep in mind it is in his head maybe he has a problem with having his semen in your mouth. That could be the head game that is blocking it. But honestly if you really want him to explode in there tell him and then continue with the deed.
2006-09-24 15:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ur problem huny, stop stressing about it, as long as u have a good sex life adn he gets of why worry how he does it
I once had a boyfriend like that, he just had incredible control, but he could come when he was ready. You should count yourself lucky
2006-09-24 02:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some guys have a psychological block towards doing something so "dirty" to someone they love. Next time you desire to do so with him, pretend that you are extremely horny, and so you definitely do not want him to do that in your mouth this time. He's more likely to do so, if he's trying not to, than if he's trying to do so. And so, each time he starts to get excited, stop, and remind him you do not want him to. Keep teasing him, for several times, and there's a good chance he will become upset that he is not allowed to, and will, just to get even with you for your "torture".
2006-09-24 02:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your doing anything wrong. There are some guys who just don't get off that way, but they still enjoy it. This site may give you some tips
2006-09-24 02:45:20 · answer #11 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋