I'm not acting on these thoughts, but sometimes you have thoughts. I feel guilty, but isn't this just natural?
2006-09-24 04:51:07 · 15 answers · asked by Poppies_rule 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it's natural, in fact, you're thinking of me right now.. lol... Acting on it is entirely different. I'm not sure why you feel guilty. It's a thought, like watching the food network, and wanting to eat whatever they are cooking... you know you dont' have those ingrediants but it still looks good, and you get hungry.
No need to feel guilty,, but keep the thoughts to yourself,, dont' ever lay in bed, doing the ole' "honey whatcha thinking", or "honey, if you were to have anyone else but me, who would you do".. keep your guilty pleasures to yourself..
You're a man, it's natural.. but dont' obsess over anything,, allow it to be an entertaining fleeting moment, and pass you by.. like gnats on fruit, in fact, enjoy it,, you're married, thoughts are all you've got at this point, (if you're a good boy, lol).. Enjoy it!
Be good and be well! Hope I've set your mind at ease,, okay,, now quite thinking of me, lol.
2006-09-24 07:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Manatee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think it is natural to think that, but just don't act on them or let them get in the way of your marriage. You married your wife for better or worse, and there will always be better out there (or so we think) but just remember the grass is not always greener on the other side. Love your wife for who she is, not for who you wish she were.
2006-09-24 04:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would be natural, just as some women must think what it would be like with another man....as long as your thoughts are not primarily consumed by other women instead of your wife.
2006-09-24 04:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by raffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal curiosity!!! Women think about other men too!!!
Stick to the one you love, work at keeping the bedroom scene steamy!!! The grass is never greener on the other side!!
2006-09-24 05:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,its natural.But brush away those thoughts from ur mind since u clearly know they were bad.
2006-09-24 04:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by julia _bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally natural. Don't waste your time worrying about it.
2006-09-24 04:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY NATURAL FOR YOU AND HER. DONT FEEL GUILTY JUST DONT ACT OR PLAN TO. yOU FANTASIES AND SECRET DESIRES ARE YOURS AND YOURS ALONE DONT WORRY NOONE CAN READ YOUR MIND.
2006-09-24 04:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by jason m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would think that it would be normal...Its called human nature...
2006-09-24 04:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very natural....women do that as well as men...I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-09-24 04:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~hopeless love~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but sad.
2006-09-24 05:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋