I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and love him very mch, he keeps bringing up the subject of marriage and asking what my thoughts are, he wants to, is it too soon?
2006-09-24 04:42:13 · 47 answers · asked by monkeylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everybody here is assuming that you're in the US. Could it be that you're in a different society? In some societies, three months is more than enough. Here, it's just getting introduced (pun not intended).
2006-09-24 04:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hermit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with most others that have answered...yes its a little too soon. People grow in a relationship and change. After you have been together for a longer period of time you get a little more comfortable and that's when you relax and let the real you show. I am sure that you already know this but when you first start dating everything is great and you seem to agree about everything. After you have been together for a while that's when the disagreements start. You first must see how you both will handle those disagreements BEFORE you get married. You could always have a Long engagement *S*
Hope you think about it first....and I guess you already are Good luck
2006-09-24 04:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever human being is distinct. My BF and that i have been given jointly in reality a month after his ex fiancee overwhelmed him. It changed into confusing because of all the mixed thoughts both one individuals were dealing with. it really is were communique and understanding has to go back in. in case you could communicate by the sentiments both one in each of you're having and be understanding of what the different is feeling it ought to workout consultation. many human beings will inform you that you're the rebound female yet merely pay interest on your heart no longer what others say. If I had i does no longer have the love of my existence nonetheless status proper beside me a year and a 1/2 later. It does take time yet artwork by it as a pair and it will make both of you superior interior the suitable.
2016-11-23 19:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends totally on you. Do you think its too early for marriage? Can you see yourself living with this man in ten years time? Do you want this man as the father of your children? These are questions that you must ask yourself as only you can make that decision. Three months does sound a short amount of time but you will know if its right for you or not but if you have any doubts however minor they maybe then I think you should really give this a lot of thought, but as you are asking this question anyway I already think you have doubts.
2006-09-24 04:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how ready you are to move onto the next step. I was married to my husband 6 1/2 months after we met. We've been happily married for over 4 years.
It's based on the individuals...not a set number of months as determined by everyone else.
2006-09-24 05:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by justanotherunknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i really think it is... 3 months really isn't long enough to know someone well enough to make that type of commitment.. it may seem like the pair of you are made for each other but if thats really the case then waiting a bit longer won't make any difference..
I understand you are probably getting swept away in the romance of it all but you probably will be better off to wait a while...
2006-09-24 04:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably wont take this advice, but three months is definitely too soon, try about a year or so. Just to be sure, love is blind and it takes time to really get to know some one inside out and back to front, Good luck
2006-09-24 05:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
far far far too soon. you can never known anyone really in that time. What is the rush, get engaged if you really must, but make it a long engagement. I think perhaps your boyfriend is jealous/clingly/insecure.. and thinks marraige is the only way of ensuring you are HIS PROPERTY. Allow time to trust each other, because your relationship would be so much better.
2006-09-24 06:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-- more like 3 years. I personally think it is too soon, whats the rush why not have fun first? Next he'll be wanting children, then your life will change for certain
2006-09-24 04:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on what you are both looking for. i never enter a relationship without looking far ahead into the future otherwise i think its a waste of time cos im always in for the long haul. You have to think about your if your young then no you have plenty of time. You could always get engaged it doesnt mean that you have to get married tomorrow. Also think about why he wants to get married so quickly not just if you want to. Im sure though you will know if you want to if you truely feel comfortable with them. good luck anyway
2006-09-24 04:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by the faceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋