Marriage & Divorce - 24 September 2006

My husband left me, we now each have our own address. all over the course of 3 weeks. I miss him, i never wanted our marriage to end, only the controlling issues i dealt with every day, and in the end, not being able to do anything to please him...its such a long story. But he left me with me loving him, knowing i will till the day i die. Why does everyone say-leave him alone, dont let him know you care, dont let him know he can still have you, only let him see you smile. Why, when all i want to do is tell him i love him and i miss him, and i wish he would find the love again in his heart that i know is there. Is this supposed to accomplish something by acting this way with him?

2006-09-24 13:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by Elly 3

What do you give as a gift for 15th wedding anniversary??

2006-09-24 13:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by crrankin22 2

2006-09-24 13:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, I am 24 yr old man who shamefully, embarassingly watches porn occasionally. I have been trying hard to totally cut off porn use but as a single guy with no woman, I find it very hard to resist occasional excitement of watching porn. I will keep working on it to stop though.
I was talking to a friend the other day and he told me there are substantial # of American women who won't tolerate porn in their marriage, family. Is this true? Do American women in general consider porn evil, bad, as something that should not be present at home?
I would appreciate any insights or feedbacks.

2006-09-24 13:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1

I'm 40 years old asian - divorced.
It has been 17 years since I last dated, so getting back on the datimg scene is little nerve wrecking. To start, I'm hoping to meet someone who has a sense of humor, has close relationship with family and has positive attitude towards life, and so on.I work full-time and continu to work on completing my bachelors degree in business administratio, plus geting back in shape. I have no children, but am surrounded with nices and nephews that keeps me young at hesrt.

I realy don't know of what I should be awer of and for how old man I should look - times go on..........

2006-09-24 13:21:10 · 3 answers · asked by Toto 6

About ten years ago my parents divorced and my mom was granted custody of my two sisters and I. Two years after my parents divorced my mother remarried and he had two children of his own. Here it is ten years later and I am getting caught up in all of the things I missed. I have never really had a father figure in my life because my dad really was never there. I have always wanted a guy that I could go hang out with and we would go camping, hunting, and do the sports thing together. But since I really never had that male influence in my life I missed out on all of that, I have a step brother who is a sports fanatic, he plays just about every sport and he and his dad (my step-father) connect through that. I don't know if I am jealous but I really feel that I have missed out on some of the things I should have done with my dad. I know I can't go back and I am 19 years old now and will be 20 soon. How can I compensate now, for what I missed out on then?

2006-09-24 13:09:28 · 19 answers · asked by jtdm 1

2006-09-24 12:50:10 · 26 answers · asked by kbda14u 1

How long do i have before i have to use my husbands last name

2006-09-24 12:42:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was this lady with a poor family. She loved her parents and siblings, and the short-cut to give her family a nice house and a better living was to marry a guy who was 12 years older than her and who had a family that could provide to this lady much of the stuff she wanted, eg. money to build a house for her parents and of course other material stuff as well. A few years later, she found that she married the wrong guy because the guy's family could no longer give to her what she wanted. In addition, the guy that she married was not making enough money to support his own family. She ended up divorcing him and married another guy because the other guy was more capable and had a very well-paid job. Now, there are two questions here. Was she right on marrying this first guy for his family's money? And was she right on divorcing him?

2006-09-24 12:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by BusyBee 1

2006-09-24 12:36:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a PPO. I have told him over and over that he is not good for me and I am safer without him around. I can't cut off all contact with him because my children see him several times a week. I'm afraid that he might do something to hurt me or the kids.

I would like to hear from people that have had this problem before - I don't need any stupid answers.

2006-09-24 12:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by momandkids 2

I'v been marryed for 2 years and my wife still assist that we still need protection but this is making me not want to have sex with her.What would other guys do if you were in this situation?Or women,why would you still require it.?

2006-09-24 12:28:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand being so in love that you get you swept away in emotion and propose, but beyond that are there any upsides for a man in being married?

2006-09-24 12:26:16 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

A quick synopsys: My wife and my marriage has been a train wreck for over 3 years. My brotherinlaw inadvertently sends me an email instead of my wife, after staying with me for 2 weeks sharing my home my food etc. Treating me as a friend, or so I thought. The email say that I am white trash
( I am a fairly educated presently unemployed not by choice) Enterpreneur. and that basically she should document all corrospondenses between my wife and myself. Here is my question? My wife wants to go to his house and have a birthday party for her other sister. They live in North Carolina and I live in New York. I told her to respect the fact that I do not want her to go because this ***-hole totally played me, disrespected me etc.and she should also feel the same way about him as I do. Please respond with either a yes or a no. Should I let her go? and why and if I should NOT let her go WHY? I told her I will divorce her if she goes I am depending on the answers given here to see if I am WRONG

2006-09-24 12:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by HENNY 1

i don't feel like giving it up(once a month is good for me)
he complains then drains his noodle
he swears he could never cheat on me (he IS a very loyal man)

2006-09-24 12:14:00 · 25 answers · asked by comicxmom 1

co-worker (he's 21) and oh what a muscular bod he has, has been showing interest in me. He bumps into me in the hallway, picks up things I drop, even has gone as far as asking me to lunch. It has been a little rough at home lately. What do I do?

2006-09-24 12:06:24 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have only been married for 2 months and we love each other to death but we fight constanly and its over stuipd stuff like his porn and me not wanting to have sex anymore (im pregnant and it hurts) or just a bunch of other meaningless bull crap.

2006-09-24 12:05:48 · 24 answers · asked by heaver_2002 1

dinner... but how many blokes have managed to "train" their women, and if so in what way?

2006-09-24 11:50:54 · 22 answers · asked by Mark S_UK 2

2006-09-24 11:48:44 · 24 answers · asked by Doug 1

3rd marriage (best guy,does anything i ask, puts up with so much)
i do love him but not in love with him
2 kids at home (9 & 11)
work full time
love to spend money
had great sex for 4 years
I did have an affair

2006-09-24 11:42:41 · 4 answers · asked by comicxmom 1

I just want toknow how many women are living in a realtionship where you are spanked by your husband? I want toknow about loving realtionships and what is the norm for yours. My husband and I are in that kind of loving relationship. He does not beat me. If i am out of line on occasion i get 1 -3 smacks on my bottom after a warning . It is rare for anything more serious. Though I have had more serious ones where I was straightened out quick. Women are to be submissive to thier husbands I believe it makes a strong marriage.

2006-09-24 11:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by Little Miss 1

2006-09-24 11:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by peggy_taylor88 1

Would you still marry him if he asked you?

2006-09-24 11:37:59 · 65 answers · asked by Alison Ogobwe 1

My husband brought home a video he bought called brokeback mountain .Said he bought it at the tavern for five dollars it was unwrapped.He said he was going to bring it to work and put it on his desk .he works with all men in contruction.I thought that this is wierd !

2006-09-24 11:33:54 · 10 answers · asked by jessy 3

1. Original and two (2) Copies of Authenticated Birth Certificate has
> to
> > pass through
> > A. National Census and Statistics Office
> > B. Malacanang (Authentication Office)
> > C. Department of Foreign Affairs (Authentication Section)

I am getting married abroad. i have the NSO copy but the 2 others i have not authenticated in the offices listed above, should i send it to Malacanang in Manila or Cebu?

DFA we have an office here in Cebu so i will have to file it from there?

2006-09-24 11:29:33 · 1 answers · asked by emily 1

Why would a man have an affair and leave a ten year marriage and a son because all of a sudden he is not happy? He was fine until the other woman came along! He was at a stage in his life where he could stop working so hard and begin enjoying life. He has thrown everything away. Now he is about to move in with a woman ten years younger than him, rebuild his life and probably have more kids at 40! Why do men do crazy things like that! Are they really happier??

2006-09-24 11:28:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do I have no car no job and no money can you give me some advise?

2006-09-24 11:22:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly B 1

my wife and i have been married 27 years she has lost interest in a sexual relationship so what am i suppose to do?

2006-09-24 11:01:03 · 24 answers · asked by gdoggone 1

Doing research on different sites to see how many are happily married.

2006-09-24 10:56:28 · 51 answers · asked by Mit 4

2006-09-24 10:54:58 · 43 answers · asked by BlackPantherNightmare 2